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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hey all lovin couple here, although we both said we wanted to try new things n explore n decided to give the site a try it seems to be causin a few problems x any suggestions?
or anyone else have difficulties along these lines xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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talk talk talk talk talk to each other until your blue in the face, only you two can really solve any problems.
BUT you need to at least elude to what the problem is if you want a positive comments and possible help.
Just my two penneth xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it is causing any problems in your relationship then close your membership and walk away from it...it really isn't worth that."
Totally agree...
If one of you are unsure about swinging or feel pressured into swinging then your relationship must come 1st.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"hey all lovin couple here, although we both said we wanted to try new things n explore n decided to give the site a try it seems to be causin a few problems x any suggestions?
or anyone else have difficulties along these lines xxx"
Not saying what the problem is might mean you won't get the advice you need....but whatever it is, if it is a major problem for either or both of you, then maybe swinging isn't for you. |
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hi guys , if you have any jealousy issues or any problems then walk away until your both sure its what you want . dont ruin a good relationship
we were members for months before taking the plunge , wanted to be sure we could handle it . we have a great sex life anyway and the swinging just adds the occasional something extra .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like Rugby said you dont say what problems swinging or fab is causing you but if swinging got in the way of our relationship we would stop swinging xx "
+1
We spent years fantasising about seeing each other playing with others. Until you do IT for the first time you don't know how you will react. Glad we took the plunge now though. As other posters have said, if you are unsure......put it on the back burner for now or knock it on the head completely if it ain't for you. |
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Agree with everything said and also think the fact your openly asking for advice suggests you're the type of people who can talk openly so the outlook should be good!
Hope to get it sorted as it can be a LOT of fun but only if your both 100%.
Good luck and talk it through, be honest and then whatever you decide will be the right thing.
Cheers D&K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol and believe me it never gets easier overtime
I have been in a couple of long term swinging relationships now and basically communication and compromise are the key
Guidelines ( I hates the rule word) take a long time to establish as every situation throws up new points and challenges
Im now in a new relationship (six months) and we have already started to establish our guidelines
And it will be an ongoing thing
Listen to each other talk it all out slowly (NO BOOZE TALK lol) and you will get there
Good luck and have fun xx  |
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