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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So Ginger was chatted up by a cute black delivery driver last week and on Friday I encouraged her to go on a date to a pub with him. As I thought would happen they had sex in his car that night and then she came home and we had a lot of fun ourselves over the weekend. He knows she's engaged as she told him but said we were on a break and besides he has a girlfriend. They're chatting regularly and wanting to meet up again but he works during the day when sometimes she's off. I don't get home till 8.30 most days so have opportunity then but weekends probably best for them both which is when I'm off. This means having to go out which not ideal. The dilemma is that because he's someone met not from a swingers site how do we introduce it so that she can have him over while I'm home (listening or even watching) as this could become a regular thing? We're both happy if this became so however that might not be the case if am constantly making way. Has anyone else been in this situation and how did they manage?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have her talk to him and explain how much it turns both her and you on that she brings men home while you're in another room. It's not something you can just drop on the guy, as I'd imagine it'd freak him out.
All you can do is offer him the suggestion, it's up to him to be comfortable with it or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id be honest with him from now about what you want. Itd be harder down the line and youd be forever left out having to go out! Surely its better to risk him saying no than to not get what you want at all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell her to slip it into conversation, how she will like a threesome. See his reaction and then take it from there. I'm sure he will not be fazed. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tell her to slip it into conversation, how she will like a threesome. See his reaction and then take it from there. I'm sure he will not be fazed. Good luck."
We're a cuckold couple so wouldn't be a threesome  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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She might be meeting with him again today but she'll be having a chat when not fucking him of course to let him know a bit more about the relationship we have just so he doesn't expect a proper relationship and they don't have to carry on behind my back so to speak. |
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By *ewmoonCouple
over a year ago
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Sounds like a horny scenario as it is. Most guys just find it all too weird and uncomfortable, even guys on Fab!! So if you tell him, in all likelihood you won't see him for dust.
Just leave it for now until it fizzles out and maybe discreetly place a voice recorder in the bedroom so you can have hours of wanking pleasure listening to it  |
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"Sounds like a horny scenario as it is. Most guys just find it all too weird and uncomfortable, even guys on Fab!! So if you tell him, in all likelihood you won't see him for dust.
Just leave it for now until it fizzles out and maybe discreetly place a voice recorder in the bedroom so you can have hours of wanking pleasure listening to it "
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"..... maybe discreetly place a voice recorder in the bedroom so you can have hours of wanking pleasure listening to it "
Might want to check the law on recording people having sex, I believe both parties need to give consent. Saves getting a pesky criminal conviction and an entry on the sex offenders register. |
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