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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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You need to set your expectations correctly.
To put things in perspective, you've had at least 2 more meets than the vast majority of fab members ever do - so in that respect you've not found it hard at all - you only think you have because you've come here with the wrong expectations for what it was going to be like.
Best advice I can give you is to age about 10 years - mid 30's seems to be the "sweet spot" for age ranges; not too old for the younger folks - not too young for the older ones. You'll find that as most swingers are 30's and upwards, they prefer to play with people around their own ages - as you will see from the responses that follow ........... |
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"You need to set your expectations correctly.
To put things in perspective, you've had at least 2 more meets than the vast majority of fab members ever do - so in that respect you've not found it hard at all - you only think you have because you've come here with the wrong expectations for what it was going to be like.
Best advice I can give you is to age about 10 years - mid 30's seems to be the "sweet spot" for age ranges; not too old for the younger folks - not too young for the older ones. You'll find that as most swingers are 30's and upwards, they prefer to play with people around their own ages - as you will see from the responses that follow ........... "
i spose your right mate most swingers are older, chears for the advice |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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i spose your right mate most swingers are older, chears for the advice"
well to be honest there wasn't much you could do about the advice I gave - except for wait 10 years lol!
In terms of advice you can actually do something about, my number 1 piece of advice would be to get your own place - it makes the world of difference on here and for your pulling potential in general - and if you haven't got any wheels, get some!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice: revamp your profile, it wouldn't look out of place on Facebook!
Also, most people have busy lives with limited playtime. There are loads of single men on site who've taken the time to write full profiles. I personally wouldn't be writing to you to find out what you're into when A N Other has set his stall out for me to see.
For some playing with people young enough to be their child is not something they'd be comfortable with. However, there are plenty seeking young guns!
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would happily meet a 22 yo--again!- so age isn't a problem for me. The advice about increasing your pulling power by being to accommodate is spot on. Good luck on here. Ms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ye i find that people talk 2 me in a really really patronising way.....as if im some kind of virgin......or that im vunarable ha ha.....well i just see it as if i get in2 it now and be patient by the time im 35 ill b up 2 my neck in fanny...ha ha...fingers crossed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ye i find that people talk 2 me in a really really patronising way.....as if im some kind of virgin......or that im vunarable ha ha.....well i just see it as if i get in2 it now and be patient by the time im 35 ill b up 2 my neck in fanny...ha ha...fingers crossed"
Maybe if you wrote in a way older folk understood and not teenage text speak you'll get better results: just a thought! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe if you wrote in a way older folk understood and not teenage text speak you'll get better results: just a thought!"
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"ye i find that people talk 2 me in a really really patronising way.....as if im some kind of virgin......or that im vunarable ha ha.....well i just see it as if i get in2 it now and be patient by the time im 35 ill b up 2 my neck in fanny...ha ha...fingers crossed"
And 'safe sex is a must at first'
How is one supposed to take that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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it clearly means that on 1st meets it always condoms and when/if we decide 2 make it regular and can be confident and trust each other that were clean etc.....then MAYBE we could lose the condom......however i am fully aware that is very unlikly 2 happen......i dnt see how its relevent 2 this thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ye i find that people talk 2 me in a really really patronising way.....as if im some kind of virgin......or that im vunarable ha ha.....well i just see it as if i get in2 it now and be patient by the time im 35 ill b up 2 my neck in fanny...ha ha...fingers crossed
Maybe if you wrote in a way older folk understood and not teenage text speak you'll get better results: just a thought!"
you obviously just understud what i put there. also theres plenty of older people who use txt speak on here.....some txt speak e.g. 2, lol, u,.....makes life a little easier and is easy 2 understand.....however i do agree some of it is uneccersery....however i go back 2 the put that older and younger people are both quilty of it and if anything the majority of people on here use text speak so mayb the ones that dont hud catch up and stop being ignorant of modern societ/yculture....just a thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it clearly means that on 1st meets it always condoms and when/if we decide 2 make it regular and can be confident and trust each other that were clean etc.....then MAYBE we could lose the condom......however i am fully aware that is very unlikly 2 happen......i dnt see how its relevent 2 this thread"
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because it may put people off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ye but it has nothing to do with age?
at the end of the day we all know that being a young single guy on here means you might as well have leprasy, cuz nobody wants 2 know....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ye but it has nothing to do with age?
at the end of the day we all know that being a young single guy on here means you might as well have leprasy, cuz nobody wants 2 know......."
I can't comment on wrapping up or not so I'm going to focus on your second statement about being a young guy on here.
To generalise horrifically, young men seem to be more pushy and impatient to meet which comes over in their profile and the way they message people. But there are a lot of young guys who are well verified from many sucessful meets, so they must be doing something to overcome young guy leperosy.
Everybody on here wants the same thing but they have different ways of going about getting it. Some couples might want a young buck for a few hours without spending time organising or planning. Others will need to wait until they can get a babysitter and for their time off work to line up right. Some might not like the idea of sleeping with a guy younger than their own kids.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ye but it has nothing to do with age?
at the end of the day we all know that being a young single guy on here means you might as well have leprasy, cuz nobody wants 2 know......."
I know it's nothing to do with age but you said you were finding it hard on here and that might be one of the reasons. Just trying to be helpful. |
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Personally, and this is only me, no one else, I wouldn't message someone who has 'sex is nice' on their profile.
Sex is filthy, horny, hot, playful, steamy, dirty, and numerous other adjectives, nice is not one I hope to be using about sex this side of my being 80!!! |
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