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By *clc OP Couple
over a year ago
Athlone/Dublin |
Hi there
My missus says she wants to stop swinging as she does not like it, but if we go to a club she is very quite and demur and when things start to get hot she turns wild and joins in the fun and is never shy to do anything with anyone. Which I don't have an issue with
A week later if I suggest let's goto to a club she says no never again.
It is very frustrating, maybe I should just give up swinging
Any suggestions |
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"Hi there
My missus says she wants to stop swinging as she does not like it, but if we go to a club she is very quite and demur and when things start to get hot she turns wild and joins in the fun and is never shy to do anything with anyone. Which I don't have an issue with
A week later if I suggest let's goto to a club she says no never again.
It is very frustrating, maybe I should just give up swinging
Any suggestions "
sugg st you speak with her op  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi there
My missus says she wants to stop swinging as she does not like it, but if we go to a club she is very quite and demur and when things start to get hot she turns wild and joins in the fun and is never shy to do anything with anyone. Which I don't have an issue with
A week later if I suggest let's goto to a club she says no never again.
It is very frustrating, maybe I should just give up swinging
Any suggestions sugg st you speak with her op "
I have to agree. Communication is the key |
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"Hi there
My missus says she wants to stop swinging as she does not like it, but if we go to a club she is very quite and demur and when things start to get hot she turns wild and joins in the fun and is never shy to do anything with anyone. Which I don't have an issue with
A week later if I suggest let's goto to a club she says no never again.
It is very frustrating, maybe I should just give up swinging
Any suggestions "
Maybe she feels bad afterwards, maybe she just does it because she knows you like it, nobody knows but her. |
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By *clc OP Couple
over a year ago
Athlone/Dublin |
When she plays SHE PLAYS
Nothing will stop her
She really enjoys herself
She is worried that we will bump into someone we know, which is understandable
And she things I go on about swinging too much , probably right there
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"When she plays SHE PLAYS
Nothing will stop her
She really enjoys herself
She is worried that we will bump into someone we know, which is understandable
And she things I go on about swinging too much , probably right there
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Could it be that she feels that you're more interested in swinging than her? If you're only really interested in her sexually if she's swinging or you mention it too frequently she might feel very hurt. I have to say if that is the case you discussing your concerns with other swingers isn't going to help.
Sit down, find out how your wife ticks and take it from there.
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Sometimes some threads make you glad to be single  "
Yes and no. I just hope that I can find someone who is on the same page as myself in as many areas as possible. Valuing communication would be a good start... |
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