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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has anyone else had a veri they left for someone hidden because that person gets abusive messages if its visible?
I get that some people like to keep their veris hidden to keep some privacy, but this person has other veris visible and has also just asked me to hide mine that he has left me!
Has anyone else experienced this? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd be offended if it was me! He should be blocking the abusers not denying he met you!"
This is how I am feeling and my thought process! I'd never make someone feel like that, and I would never want to meet someone who was abusive to me for someone I had met! :/ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never display mine because people comment on them and it winds me up. People.pretend to know the people that varied me"
I get women message me telling me that they know the guys I have met and that they slag off! I don't take any notice. Its quite strange here isn't it :/ lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You should be able to display your veris on your page if you want to...he can hide his bit not request you to hide yours"
That's the bit that annoyed me most! I will hide it but I think its pretty harsh to ask someone!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never display mine because people comment on them and it winds me up. People.pretend to know the people that varied me
I get women message me telling me that they know the guys I have met and that they slag off! I don't take any notice. Its quite strange here isn't it :/ lol"
It's called lamp post pissing  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some guys I have met have had crap from other people because they are displaying a veri from me 
I've had it. I just tell them to fuck off then block "
I would honestly just block! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Scared he's fb will see it probably
He has other veris visible tho so I don't think so!?
Tbh I'd block them. No drama either way then "
I just found it a bit odd |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, but I have women blocked 
So do I. He was apparently getting the abusive messages
I've had a guy hint at that sort of thing but no one has outright told me it's happened."
Well apparently it does! :/ lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some guys I have met have had crap from other people because they are displaying a veri from me
I don't get it! Why are even bothered?? Its odd! "
I have too many veris for them so Whoever I play with is scum by association as far as I can gather...but yes it is a little odd...especially when some feel the need to randomly message guys to make such statements... ah well  |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
I've had a couple of messages from men, the most recent idiot was put in his place very quickly, what a chump, seems people are realising what he's like so he opens up new profiles..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a guy is proud he met you with no regrets he shows your verification.
No 'abuse' will change that, guys don't get many messages anyway so how much abuse can it be? It's just an excuse.
If I was the Op is wouldn't hide his verification. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some guys I have met have had crap from other people because they are displaying a veri from me
I don't get it! Why are even bothered?? Its odd!
I have too many veris for them so Whoever I play with is scum by association as far as I can gather...but yes it is a little odd...especially when some feel the need to randomly message guys to make such statements... ah well "
I think they should worry about themselves and their experiences and let us do the same ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If a guy is proud he met you with no regrets he shows your verification.
No 'abuse' will change that, guys don't get many messages anyway so how much abuse can it be? It's just an excuse.
If I was the Op is wouldn't hide his verification. "
I came to the conclusion he was ashamed, as if I had a message abusing him or me for meeting him I would block them not ask him to remove my veri. I think he needs to grow some balls if that is genuinely the case. Either way I will not be meeting him again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone else had a veri they left for someone hidden because that person gets abusive messages if its visible?
I get that some people like to keep their veris hidden to keep some privacy, but this person has other veris visible and has also just asked me to hide mine that he has left me!
Has anyone else experienced this? "
Constantly x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has anyone else had a veri they left for someone hidden because that person gets abusive messages if its visible?
I get that some people like to keep their veris hidden to keep some privacy, but this person has other veris visible and has also just asked me to hide mine that he has left me!
Has anyone else experienced this?
Constantly x"
Its petty isn't it?! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone else had a veri they left for someone hidden because that person gets abusive messages if its visible?
I get that some people like to keep their veris hidden to keep some privacy, but this person has other veris visible and has also just asked me to hide mine that he has left me!
Has anyone else experienced this?
Constantly x
Its petty isn't it?! X"
Extremely. ..but doesn't it make you think how sad people can be...how bloody silly? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has anyone else had a veri they left for someone hidden because that person gets abusive messages if its visible?
I get that some people like to keep their veris hidden to keep some privacy, but this person has other veris visible and has also just asked me to hide mine that he has left me!
Has anyone else experienced this?
Constantly x
Its petty isn't it?! X
Extremely. ..but doesn't it make you think how sad people can be...how bloody silly?"
Definitely! I think some people forget how to be a human when they log onto here!?! :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone else had a veri they left for someone hidden because that person gets abusive messages if its visible?
I get that some people like to keep their veris hidden to keep some privacy, but this person has other veris visible and has also just asked me to hide mine that he has left me!
Has anyone else experienced this?
Constantly x
Its petty isn't it?! X
Extremely. ..but doesn't it make you think how sad people can be...how bloody silly?
Definitely! I think some people forget how to be a human when they log onto here!?! :/ "
Well
It is a sex site don't you know...and everyone is...or should be a nasty pasty...selfish to the end! |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i don't display mine either. it is coz there's too many knobs on this site.
i think he has a right to ask you to hide yours, he wants the best experience on here for himself and owes you nothing. he could have just blocked you and said nothing and left you ignorant of what was going on instead but had the manners to ask at least. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got shit last week from someone I know for displaying a new veri from a social These kind of things tell you a lot about people and is a good filter  "
It really is! I didn't even realise this actually happened |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has anyone else had a veri they left for someone hidden because that person gets abusive messages if its visible?
I get that some people like to keep their veris hidden to keep some privacy, but this person has other veris visible and has also just asked me to hide mine that he has left me!
Has anyone else experienced this?
Constantly x
Its petty isn't it?! X
Extremely. ..but doesn't it make you think how sad people can be...how bloody silly?
Definitely! I think some people forget how to be a human when they log onto here!?! :/
Well
It is a sex site don't you know...and everyone is...or should be a nasty pasty...selfish to the end!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i don't display mine either. it is coz there's too many knobs on this site.
i think he has a right to ask you to hide yours, he wants the best experience on here for himself and owes you nothing. he could have just blocked you and said nothing and left you ignorant of what was going on instead but had the manners to ask at least."
Asking someone to pretend you have never met them is not manners. Maybe he should grown some balls and told the abusive people where to go! |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"i don't display mine either. it is coz there's too many knobs on this site.
i think he has a right to ask you to hide yours, he wants the best experience on here for himself and owes you nothing. he could have just blocked you and said nothing and left you ignorant of what was going on instead but had the manners to ask at least.
Asking someone to pretend you have never met them is not manners. Maybe he should grown some balls and told the abusive people where to go! "
he asked first, asking is manners. he could've blocked you and not said anything and you wouldn't be able to show the veri anyway.
as for telling people where to go, some people don't like drama and what's wrong with that? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i don't display mine either. it is coz there's too many knobs on this site.
i think he has a right to ask you to hide yours, he wants the best experience on here for himself and owes you nothing. he could have just blocked you and said nothing and left you ignorant of what was going on instead but had the manners to ask at least.
Asking someone to pretend you have never met them is not manners. Maybe he should grown some balls and told the abusive people where to go!
he asked first, asking is manners. he could've blocked you and not said anything and you wouldn't be able to show the veri anyway.
as for telling people where to go, some people don't like drama and what's wrong with that? "
As I just said blocking would have been better.
And no drama is easy to he could of just blocked the person being abusive! Thank you for opinion tho |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"i don't display mine either. it is coz there's too many knobs on this site.
i think he has a right to ask you to hide yours, he wants the best experience on here for himself and owes you nothing. he could have just blocked you and said nothing and left you ignorant of what was going on instead but had the manners to ask at least.
Asking someone to pretend you have never met them is not manners. Maybe he should grown some balls and told the abusive people where to go!
he asked first, asking is manners. he could've blocked you and not said anything and you wouldn't be able to show the veri anyway.
as for telling people where to go, some people don't like drama and what's wrong with that?
As I just said blocking would have been better.
And no drama is easy to he could of just blocked the person being abusive! Thank you for opinion tho "
you're welcome.
ideal solution would be people not being assholes on the first place and giving him shit but it's the internet so i doubt that'll ever happen. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i don't display mine either. it is coz there's too many knobs on this site.
i think he has a right to ask you to hide yours, he wants the best experience on here for himself and owes you nothing. he could have just blocked you and said nothing and left you ignorant of what was going on instead but had the manners to ask at least.
Asking someone to pretend you have never met them is not manners. Maybe he should grown some balls and told the abusive people where to go!
he asked first, asking is manners. he could've blocked you and not said anything and you wouldn't be able to show the veri anyway.
as for telling people where to go, some people don't like drama and what's wrong with that?
As I just said blocking would have been better.
And no drama is easy to he could of just blocked the person being abusive! Thank you for opinion tho
you're welcome.
ideal solution would be people not being assholes on the first place and giving him shit but it's the internet so i doubt that'll ever happen."
You're right there ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i don't display mine either. it is coz there's too many knobs on this site.
i think he has a right to ask you to hide yours, he wants the best experience on here for himself and owes you nothing. he could have just blocked you and said nothing and left you ignorant of what was going on instead but had the manners to ask at least."
But if he blocked her he wouldn't be able to meet her again. If you don't want a veri off someone then don't meet them in the 1st place unless agreed before said meet |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"i don't display mine either. it is coz there's too many knobs on this site.
i think he has a right to ask you to hide yours, he wants the best experience on here for himself and owes you nothing. he could have just blocked you and said nothing and left you ignorant of what was going on instead but had the manners to ask at least.
But if he blocked her he wouldn't be able to meet her again. If you don't want a veri off someone then don't meet them in the 1st place unless agreed before said meet "
i just meet who i want to meet and don't really care about being verified or verifying them either, i'm not here for veris. all mine are hidden also, i don't need any hassle on here. nobody minds i haven't displayed theirs and still wants to meet again (ignoring cam veris, well some of them want to meet also). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i don't display mine either. it is coz there's too many knobs on this site.
i think he has a right to ask you to hide yours, he wants the best experience on here for himself and owes you nothing. he could have just blocked you and said nothing and left you ignorant of what was going on instead but had the manners to ask at least.
But if he blocked her he wouldn't be able to meet her again. If you don't want a veri off someone then don't meet them in the 1st place unless agreed before said meet
i just meet who i want to meet and don't really care about being verified or verifying them either, i'm not here for veris. all mine are hidden also, i don't need any hassle on here. nobody minds i haven't displayed theirs and still wants to meet again (ignoring cam veris, well some of them want to meet also)."
You're lucky then. If i don't display veris summary i get told I must be ashamed or I've met men etc |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"i don't display mine either. it is coz there's too many knobs on this site.
i think he has a right to ask you to hide yours, he wants the best experience on here for himself and owes you nothing. he could have just blocked you and said nothing and left you ignorant of what was going on instead but had the manners to ask at least.
But if he blocked her he wouldn't be able to meet her again. If you don't want a veri off someone then don't meet them in the 1st place unless agreed before said meet
i just meet who i want to meet and don't really care about being verified or verifying them either, i'm not here for veris. all mine are hidden also, i don't need any hassle on here. nobody minds i haven't displayed theirs and still wants to meet again (ignoring cam veris, well some of them want to meet also).
You're lucky then. If i don't display veris summary i get told I must be ashamed or I've met men etc "
i display my summary, just not the veri itself. i feel like that's for me only seeing as it's about meeting me or interacting with me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i don't display mine either. it is coz there's too many knobs on this site.
i think he has a right to ask you to hide yours, he wants the best experience on here for himself and owes you nothing. he could have just blocked you and said nothing and left you ignorant of what was going on instead but had the manners to ask at least.
But if he blocked her he wouldn't be able to meet her again. If you don't want a veri off someone then don't meet them in the 1st place unless agreed before said meet
i just meet who i want to meet and don't really care about being verified or verifying them either, i'm not here for veris. all mine are hidden also, i don't need any hassle on here. nobody minds i haven't displayed theirs and still wants to meet again (ignoring cam veris, well some of them want to meet also)."
It isn't about the veri its about the reason behind it all and the fact the does show veris, he just chooses who its ok for ppl to know about. There is another girl who feels exactly the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i don't display mine either. it is coz there's too many knobs on this site.
i think he has a right to ask you to hide yours, he wants the best experience on here for himself and owes you nothing. he could have just blocked you and said nothing and left you ignorant of what was going on instead but had the manners to ask at least.
But if he blocked her he wouldn't be able to meet her again. If you don't want a veri off someone then don't meet them in the 1st place unless agreed before said meet
i just meet who i want to meet and don't really care about being verified or verifying them either, i'm not here for veris. all mine are hidden also, i don't need any hassle on here. nobody minds i haven't displayed theirs and still wants to meet again (ignoring cam veris, well some of them want to meet also).
You're lucky then. If i don't display veris summary i get told I must be ashamed or I've met men etc "
I get moaned at every time I meet someone. I did for a while hide my summary and every veri. Then I thought no actually it might be a good filter lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i don't display mine either. it is coz there's too many knobs on this site.
i think he has a right to ask you to hide yours, he wants the best experience on here for himself and owes you nothing. he could have just blocked you and said nothing and left you ignorant of what was going on instead but had the manners to ask at least.
But if he blocked her he wouldn't be able to meet her again. If you don't want a veri off someone then don't meet them in the 1st place unless agreed before said meet
i just meet who i want to meet and don't really care about being verified or verifying them either, i'm not here for veris. all mine are hidden also, i don't need any hassle on here. nobody minds i haven't displayed theirs and still wants to meet again (ignoring cam veris, well some of them want to meet also).
You're lucky then. If i don't display veris summary i get told I must be ashamed or I've met men etc
I get moaned at every time I meet someone. I did for a while hide my summary and every veri. Then I thought no actually it might be a good filter lol. "
Exactly. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"i don't display mine either. it is coz there's too many knobs on this site.
i think he has a right to ask you to hide yours, he wants the best experience on here for himself and owes you nothing. he could have just blocked you and said nothing and left you ignorant of what was going on instead but had the manners to ask at least.
But if he blocked her he wouldn't be able to meet her again. If you don't want a veri off someone then don't meet them in the 1st place unless agreed before said meet
i just meet who i want to meet and don't really care about being verified or verifying them either, i'm not here for veris. all mine are hidden also, i don't need any hassle on here. nobody minds i haven't displayed theirs and still wants to meet again (ignoring cam veris, well some of them want to meet also).
It isn't about the veri its about the reason behind it all and the fact the does show veris, he just chooses who its ok for ppl to know about. There is another girl who feels exactly the same."
if he is as bad as you say just block him yourself and be done with him. 0 drama for you and he becomes someone elses problem until she does the same.
like i said nobody cares about me not displaying any, these are the kind of guys i wanna meet -the ones who don't cause any drama. anyone else ends up blocked and it's usually before i meet them luckily. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i don't display mine either. it is coz there's too many knobs on this site.
i think he has a right to ask you to hide yours, he wants the best experience on here for himself and owes you nothing. he could have just blocked you and said nothing and left you ignorant of what was going on instead but had the manners to ask at least.
But if he blocked her he wouldn't be able to meet her again. If you don't want a veri off someone then don't meet them in the 1st place unless agreed before said meet
i just meet who i want to meet and don't really care about being verified or verifying them either, i'm not here for veris. all mine are hidden also, i don't need any hassle on here. nobody minds i haven't displayed theirs and still wants to meet again (ignoring cam veris, well some of them want to meet also).
It isn't about the veri its about the reason behind it all and the fact the does show veris, he just chooses who its ok for ppl to know about. There is another girl who feels exactly the same.
if he is as bad as you say just block him yourself and be done with him. 0 drama for you and he becomes someone elses problem until she does the same.
like i said nobody cares about me not displaying any, these are the kind of guys i wanna meet -the ones who don't cause any drama. anyone else ends up blocked and it's usually before i meet them luckily."
I have blocked him now. I display mine but I will not reply to people who moan at me for meeting someone other the them I just block them as I know I will never meet them |
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We hide some of ours too as there is someone that targets our veris and we won't go back there after as it would be too weird
Him asking you to hide his really is a bloody cheek tho and sounds to me like he is shady x |
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"We hide some of ours too as there is someone that targets our veris and we won't go back there after as it would be too weird
Him asking you to hide his really is a bloody cheek tho and sounds to me like he is shady x "
That sounds crap! :/ I don't get why people can't just treat them for what they are. Its just a reassurance that the person shows up.
I came to the conclusion he was ashamed?! |
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"We hide some of ours too as there is someone that targets our veris and we won't go back there after as it would be too weird
Him asking you to hide his really is a bloody cheek tho and sounds to me like he is shady x
That sounds crap! :/ I don't get why people can't just treat them for what they are. Its just a reassurance that the person shows up.
I came to the conclusion he was ashamed?!"
Yes that's what happens when ex's are on here lol
Ashamed ? Ok this is what pisses me off hunnie ... I've seen you on hot pics and I get on there too if I'm lucky and we both know the volume of mail that generates with floods of offers ..... and he's ashamed ?? What a cock !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was messaged from a previous meet about a veri I received. Questioning me why I'd met him and stating the fact that he had issues with him. None of his business what I do and I'm not here from drama. The block button is handy to avoid such matters |
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"We hide some of ours too as there is someone that targets our veris and we won't go back there after as it would be too weird
Him asking you to hide his really is a bloody cheek tho and sounds to me like he is shady x
That sounds crap! :/ I don't get why people can't just treat them for what they are. Its just a reassurance that the person shows up.
I came to the conclusion he was ashamed?!
Yes that's what happens when ex's are on here lol
Ashamed ? Ok this is what pisses me off hunnie ... I've seen you on hot pics and I get on there too if I'm lucky and we both know the volume of mail that generates with floods of offers ..... and he's ashamed ?? What a cock !! "
I honestly couldn't come up with anything else, that's why I came here to look for a bit if insight.
Ahhhhhh. I noticed an ex joined a few days ago I quickly blocked him  lol |
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"I was messaged from a previous meet about a veri I received. Questioning me why I'd met him and stating the fact that he had issues with him. None of his business what I do and I'm not here from drama. The block button is handy to avoid such matters "
I've never been abused for meeting a specific person or received messages abusing the person directly but even if someone has a go about the fact I met and it wasn't them I still block! |
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I had a "popular" guy say he will meet me but not to veri him as he doesn't like them. I looked on his pro n all his veri were off slim ladies. So I decided not to meet him as he is obviously a bit of a....... 
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"I had a "popular" guy say he will meet me but not to veri him as he doesn't like them. I looked on his pro n all his veri were off slim ladies. So I decided not to meet him as he is obviously a bit of a.......
PTU XXX "
Wtf ?? Jesus Christ well swerved I say ... I think some guys forget that us ladies are good detectives and check out potential meets veris and more haha |
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"I had a "popular" guy say he will meet me but not to veri him as he doesn't like them. I looked on his pro n all his veri were off slim ladies. So I decided not to meet him as he is obviously a bit of a.......
PTU XXX "
See if he had been like that at first I would never have met him but he seemed like a nice guy :/ ha
Surely if you are ashamed of people knowing its better to just not meet that person? X |
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"I had a "popular" guy say he will meet me but not to veri him as he doesn't like them. I looked on his pro n all his veri were off slim ladies. So I decided not to meet him as he is obviously a bit of a.......
PTU XXX
Wtf ?? Jesus Christ well swerved I say ... I think some guys forget that us ladies are good detectives and check out potential meets veris and more haha "
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