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"So I have done it but it hurts. The hubby really wants to do it but I just can't relax. Any advice? " Plenty of lube. Both on his dick and your butt. Put some on your finger and insert it into your butt to place some lube inside you. Do it doggy style and tell him to slide it in slowly inch by inch until he's fully inserted into you. Slowly fucking you. All the time play with your clit or put a vibrating ring on your finger and play with yourself using that. Relax and Focus on you playing with your pussy. You'll relax enough to enjoy all that anal. The more turned on you are, ask him to gradually quicken up his pace. After awhile and after a few sessions, you'll be begging for a back door pounding lol. Feels so different but so good.   | |||
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"Come and see me and I will do the job properly! Turn you on, excite you, arouse you..... Get you to fever pitch, all wet and ready, then lube you up really well, and play with you, fingertips, tongue, and gently, gradually relaxing and preparing you.... And then when you are really ready, Lube you up some more, press my cock against you.... And stop! Let you do the thrusting back against me, gently, and slowly. And when the head pops in, and you get used to the feeling, I stay quite still, letting you dictate the pace, the depth, and the whole experience, Letting you enjoy yourself, as you relax, and have a wonderful experience. If it hurts, your guy is doing it all wrong! "LOL not necessarily he's not! If it hurts , she's not lubed up enough and definitely not relaxed enough. Lube, Lube and more lube and relaxation is the key for a woman to enjoy anal. | |||
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"So I have done it but it hurts. The hubby really wants to do it but I just can't relax. Any advice? " Lube lube and lube, and relax take time to get you aroused anally. LOTS of massage/stroking/teasing to gently open up your starfish. When your ready (and you will know ) begin a VERY gentle insertion taking your time. Once it's in give it time (as long as you want) so you can relax, and enjoy the feeling of being full. Before starting the gentle slow thrusting, building only when your ready for it. Its best if your in control of the thrusting as you can take as much or as little as you want at the rate you want -also psychologically better for you as your not passive submissive, but active submissive also to your own comfort and timings and needs, soooo much greater the enjoyment for the receiver and the if the giver really cares about your pleasure, they also get a great top/dom high. Once your used to it, (usually a few times) then you can start mixing it up a bit. Suppose you could call it: all about loosing your anal virginity properly. | |||
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"It really is more about relaxing and getting your body to open more than it is about lube. Yes lubes important but if he pushes in when you're not ready it doesn't matter how much lube you use it's still going to hurt like fuck. " Suggest that he tries it also, so he knows what not to do, and how it feels | |||
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