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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a new male member I'm finding it hard to get my feet under the table and I'm felling this sites a bit of a closed shop.
I try to be respectful in my mails and accept when no means no?
Any tips?
Jim |
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It isn't a closed shop.
A single man has to work four times as hard or even harder than a single woman.
They need pictures that will appeal to women rather than other men and a positive approach.
I usually suggest clubs, socials and patience.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It isn't a closed shop.
A single man has to work four times as hard or even harder than a single woman.
They need pictures that will appeal to women rather than other men and a positive approach.
I usually suggest clubs, socials and patience.
Good luck"
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been here a week now and have had some luck with a couple of lovely ladies. Although i do agree its tough getting much response. Just be yourself and im sure you will get chatting etc soon. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi op,your pics woud put me off im afraid,I can see more of the women your with than you,so id say you need to add some of you to attract interest
Miss"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your last picture would make me run a mile"
Me too. In fact let's start a race lol.
Seriously OP those pics may appeal to men but don't generally appeal to women. And bare back pics on a single male profile just make me think no!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your last picture would make me run a mile
Me too. In fact let's start a race lol.
Seriously OP those pics may appeal to men but don't generally appeal to women. And bare back pics on a single male profile just make me think no!!!"
Just get in my bed  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your last picture would make me run a mile
Me too. In fact let's start a race lol.
Seriously OP those pics may appeal to men but don't generally appeal to women. And bare back pics on a single male profile just make me think no!!!"
That pics been taken off, is the pic of just my cock ok or not? |
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All we see of you is your cock. Every guy has one of those, so what makes your profile stand out from the rest?
It's a harsh truth for single men, but fab isn't a man's world. The number of single men means you have to stand out because women can be really selective 
Not meaning to offend anyone, just 2p |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your last picture would make me run a mile
Me too. In fact let's start a race lol.
Seriously OP those pics may appeal to men but don't generally appeal to women. And bare back pics on a single male profile just make me think no!!!
Just get in my bed "
Awww thanks xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All we see of you is your cock. Every guy has one of those, so what makes your profile stand out from the rest?
It's a harsh truth for single men, but fab isn't a man's world. The number of single men means you have to stand out because women can be really selective
Not meaning to offend anyone, just 2p"
Not offended thanks for you option |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your last picture would make me run a mile
Me too. In fact let's start a race lol.
Seriously OP those pics may appeal to men but don't generally appeal to women. And bare back pics on a single male profile just make me think no!!!
Just get in my bed
Awww thanks xx"
Oh sorry lol I meant Strawberry |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your last picture would make me run a mile
Me too. In fact let's start a race lol.
Seriously OP those pics may appeal to men but don't generally appeal to women. And bare back pics on a single male profile just make me think no!!!
Just get in my bed
Awww thanks xx
Oh sorry lol I meant Strawberry "
Ha ha ok  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your last picture would make me run a mile
Me too. In fact let's start a race lol.
Seriously OP those pics may appeal to men but don't generally appeal to women. And bare back pics on a single male profile just make me think no!!!
Just get in my bed
Awww thanks xx
Oh sorry lol I meant Strawberry "
Go build his hopes up and then knock them down lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your last picture would make me run a mile
Me too. In fact let's start a race lol.
Seriously OP those pics may appeal to men but don't generally appeal to women. And bare back pics on a single male profile just make me think no!!!
Just get in my bed
Awww thanks xx
Oh sorry lol I meant Strawberry
Go build his hopes up and then knock them down lol "
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By *aggersMan
over a year ago
portsmouth |
"As a new male member I'm finding it hard to get my feet under the table and I'm felling this sites a bit of a closed shop.
I try to be respectful in my mails and accept when no means no?
Any tips?
Jim "
I feel your pain Jim I've only been on here a few days and from what I see is that's it's really hard for a guy to start out .
I shall give it a go for a while and see how it goes . Any tips on my profile would be greatly appreciated lady's |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your last picture would make me run a mile
Me too. In fact let's start a race lol.
Seriously OP those pics may appeal to men but don't generally appeal to women. And bare back pics on a single male profile just make me think no!!!
Just get in my bed
Awww thanks xx
Oh sorry lol I meant Strawberry
Go build his hopes up and then knock them down lol "
 it was pretty obvious what she meant.
The cum on a bare pussy would have me running too. Op, you clearly have a relaxed attitude to safe sex where many in here make it a priority.
Bare = block for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your last picture would make me run a mile
Me too. In fact let's start a race lol.
Seriously OP those pics may appeal to men but don't generally appeal to women. And bare back pics on a single male profile just make me think no!!!
Just get in my bed
Awww thanks xx
Oh sorry lol I meant Strawberry
Go build his hopes up and then knock them down lol
it was pretty obvious what she meant.
The cum on a bare pussy would have me running too. Op, you clearly have a relaxed attitude to safe sex where many in here make it a priority.
Bare = block for me. "
With respect not really looking for TVs no offence |
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"As a new male member I'm finding it hard to get my feet under the table and I'm felling this sites a bit of a closed shop.
I try to be respectful in my mails and accept when no means no?
Any tips?
Jim
I feel your pain Jim I've only been on here a few days and from what I see is that's it's really hard for a guy to start out .
I shall give it a go for a while and see how it goes . Any tips on my profile would be greatly appreciated lady's "
All I would say is how is a woman likely to know if you will find her hot? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a new male member I'm finding it hard to get my feet under the table and I'm felling this sites a bit of a closed shop.
I try to be respectful in my mails and accept when no means no?
Any tips?
Jim
I feel your pain Jim I've only been on here a few days and from what I see is that's it's really hard for a guy to start out .
I shall give it a go for a while and see how it goes . Any tips on my profile would be greatly appreciated lady's
All I would say is how is a woman likely to know if you will find her hot?"
Lots of variables, some men like different things as do women of course |
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"As a new male member I'm finding it hard to get my feet under the table and I'm felling this sites a bit of a closed shop.
I try to be respectful in my mails and accept when no means no?
Any tips?
Jim
I feel your pain Jim I've only been on here a few days and from what I see is that's it's really hard for a guy to start out .
I shall give it a go for a while and see how it goes . Any tips on my profile would be greatly appreciated lady's
All I would say is how is a woman likely to know if you will find her hot?
Lots of variables, some men like different things as do women of course "
Exactly, but his update is asking for a hot female. How will a woman know what he likes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your last picture would make me run a mile
Me too. In fact let's start a race lol.
Seriously OP those pics may appeal to men but don't generally appeal to women. And bare back pics on a single male profile just make me think no!!!
Just get in my bed
Awww thanks xx
Oh sorry lol I meant Strawberry
Go build his hopes up and then knock them down lol
it was pretty obvious what she meant.
The cum on a bare pussy would have me running too. Op, you clearly have a relaxed attitude to safe sex where many in here make it a priority.
Bare = block for me.
With respect not really looking for TVs no offence "
I'll forgive you because you can't see my profile but I'm not a tv xx |
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By *aggersMan
over a year ago
portsmouth |
"As a new male member I'm finding it hard to get my feet under the table and I'm felling this sites a bit of a closed shop.
I try to be respectful in my mails and accept when no means no?
Any tips?
Jim
I feel your pain Jim I've only been on here a few days and from what I see is that's it's really hard for a guy to start out .
I shall give it a go for a while and see how it goes . Any tips on my profile would be greatly appreciated lady's
All I would say is how is a woman likely to know if you will find her hot?
Lots of variables, some men like different things as do women of course
Exactly, but his update is asking for a hot female. How will a woman know what he likes?"
Yeah I see your point .. so I should put more in my profile description about what I like and what turns me on ? What other things would you suggest I put in there as my profile is a bit basic .. what about my pics they seem ok to me but a women's point of view would help me out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your last picture would make me run a mile
Me too. In fact let's start a race lol.
Seriously OP those pics may appeal to men but don't generally appeal to women. And bare back pics on a single male profile just make me think no!!!
Just get in my bed
Awww thanks xx
Oh sorry lol I meant Strawberry "
Strawberry hurriedly runs down the road, disgarding items of clothing as she runs towards Banshee. Coming for ya Missus!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your last picture would make me run a mile
Me too. In fact let's start a race lol.
Seriously OP those pics may appeal to men but don't generally appeal to women. And bare back pics on a single male profile just make me think no!!!
Just get in my bed
Awww thanks xx
Oh sorry lol I meant Strawberry
Strawberry hurriedly runs down the road, disgarding items of clothing as she runs towards Banshee. Coming for ya Missus!! "
Rachael running along behind picking up discarded items.
Litter bug!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your last picture would make me run a mile
Me too. In fact let's start a race lol.
Seriously OP those pics may appeal to men but don't generally appeal to women. And bare back pics on a single male profile just make me think no!!!
Just get in my bed
Awww thanks xx
Oh sorry lol I meant Strawberry
Strawberry hurriedly runs down the road, disgarding items of clothing as she runs towards Banshee. Coming for ya Missus!!
Rachael running along behind picking up discarded items.
Litter bug! "
Do you mind doing your flirting on another forum post please!!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a new male member I'm finding it hard to get my feet under the table and I'm felling this sites a bit of a closed shop.
I try to be respectful in my mails and accept when no means no?
Any tips?
Jim "
So is it ok for women to post bareback cock pics but not blokes?? |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen |
"As a new male member I'm finding it hard to get my feet under the table and I'm felling this sites a bit of a closed shop.
I try to be respectful in my mails and accept when no means no?
Any tips?
Jim
So is it ok for women to post bareback cock pics but not blokes?? "
I don't think anyone said it was. Like most preferences, some people are repulsed by bareback photos unless they're on a couples profile....some people are specifically looking for bareback meets. Some people couldn't care less either way: There are always exceptions. Your profile should reflect who you are and what you're looking for to attract the right people for you. There's no one size fits all template you can apply that will attract everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a new male member I'm finding it hard to get my feet under the table and I'm felling this sites a bit of a closed shop.
I try to be respectful in my mails and accept when no means no?
Any tips?
Jim
So is it ok for women to post bareback cock pics but not blokes??
I don't think anyone said it was. Like most preferences, some people are repulsed by bareback photos unless they're on a couples profile....some people are specifically looking for bareback meets. Some people couldn't care less either way: There are always exceptions. Your profile should reflect who you are and what you're looking for to attract the right people for you. There's no one size fits all template you can apply that will attract everyone. "
Guess on the next pics I post I should keep my cock in my pants eh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your last picture would make me run a mile
Me too. In fact let's start a race lol.
Seriously OP those pics may appeal to men but don't generally appeal to women. And bare back pics on a single male profile just make me think no!!!
Just get in my bed
Awww thanks xx
Oh sorry lol I meant Strawberry
Strawberry hurriedly runs down the road, disgarding items of clothing as she runs towards Banshee. Coming for ya Missus!!
Rachael running along behind picking up discarded items.
Litter bug! "
You are soooo good to me Rach xxxx |
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"As a new male member I'm finding it hard to get my feet under the table and I'm felling this sites a bit of a closed shop.
I try to be respectful in my mails and accept when no means no?
Any tips?
Jim
I feel your pain Jim I've only been on here a few days and from what I see is that's it's really hard for a guy to start out .
I shall give it a go for a while and see how it goes . Any tips on my profile would be greatly appreciated lady's
All I would say is how is a woman likely to know if you will find her hot?
Lots of variables, some men like different things as do women of course
Exactly, but his update is asking for a hot female. How will a woman know what he likes?
Yeah I see your point .. so I should put more in my profile description about what I like and what turns me on ? What other things would you suggest I put in there as my profile is a bit basic .. what about my pics they seem ok to me but a women's point of view would help me out "
Well bear in mind that I'm 20 years older than your age preference.
I think a bit more about what you like and what you can offer would be helpful.
As far as pictures go I like well lit, tasteful poses. Shadows across a naked torso, barefoot in jeans with the top button undone, as before with an open white shirt, as before with a tight white tee shirt...well you get the picture.
But that's just me. |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen |
"As a new male member I'm finding it hard to get my feet under the table and I'm felling this sites a bit of a closed shop.
I try to be respectful in my mails and accept when no means no?
Any tips?
Jim
So is it ok for women to post bareback cock pics but not blokes??
I don't think anyone said it was. Like most preferences, some people are repulsed by bareback photos unless they're on a couples profile....some people are specifically looking for bareback meets. Some people couldn't care less either way: There are always exceptions. Your profile should reflect who you are and what you're looking for to attract the right people for you. There's no one size fits all template you can apply that will attract everyone.
Guess on the next pics I post I should keep my cock in my pants eh "
Haha...well I can only speak for myself but I'm put off when the only photo/s on a profile are cock pics. I don't mind if they're included but I prefer more of a selection and I also prefer that the avatar isn't a cock photo. That's just me though. |
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"I can't really have my face pic on my avatar due to the job I do and need to be discreet,
Or would you suggest showing it? "
No I wouldn't. We never have and never will have our face pictures public. You can always send one privately if you feel a meet is on the cards. |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
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"I can't really have my face pic on my avatar due to the job I do and need to be discreet,
Or would you suggest showing it? "
Not at all, unless you're comfortable showing your face publicly. I don't have public face pics either. I do have a lot of photos though without having to show my genitals.  |
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Patience, social chat, meet at socials, be polite, ... Think 200 million men and 1000 women, how would you get noticed?
Dave
PS I've been here years and my age is against me despite taekwondo and skating and toned.
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