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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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why is members who not interest in men or not in their age range keep looking when they may not be interestedwhich can be annoying which is fine i do understand but that what i mostly get when people look at my profile? Happy swinging all    |
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Maybe they are checking out the competition.
Maybe they are looking for new ideas for their own profiles. (I don't mean copying.)
Maybe they are just generally interested in their fellow human beings. |
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Well done on the weight loss OP. It's a hard slog, I've been there. I had a gastric bypass 10 years ago and lost 26 st. Some people think it's a cop out and an easy route but it isn't. Lots of issues that go alongside. However, doing it naturally is the best way so keep up the good work. X |
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
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(Mrs) I looked at your profile after you posted on the forum, you then sent us a message. I got the impression that you might send a message to whoever looked at your profile, this annoyed me and if everyone did this after we looked at a profile we would have 100s of messages a day. Hope this is not what you do as it could alienate most people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op you should only worry about people who look at you who message you. We look at a lot of male profiles and message those we are interested in. It is annoying getting messages along the lines of ' hey you looked, are you interested?'. The answer to that is always no otherwise we would have messaged them. Don't torture your self with the looked at me feature and worry about your inbox |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"(Mrs) I looked at your profile after you posted on the forum, you then sent us a message. I got the impression that you might send a message to whoever looked at your profile, this annoyed me and if everyone did this after we looked at a profile we would have 100s of messages a day. Hope this is not what you do as it could alienate most people. "
How very dare he message someone who viewed his profile! The absolute nerve of him eh? 
Get a grip! |
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
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"(Mrs) I looked at your profile after you posted on the forum, you then sent us a message. I got the impression that you might send a message to whoever looked at your profile, this annoyed me and if everyone did this after we looked at a profile we would have 100s of messages a day. Hope this is not what you do as it could alienate most people.
How very dare he message someone who viewed his profile! The absolute nerve of him eh?
Get a grip! "
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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago
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"(Mrs) I looked at your profile after you posted on the forum, you then sent us a message. I got the impression that you might send a message to whoever looked at your profile, this annoyed me and if everyone did this after we looked at a profile we would have 100s of messages a day. Hope this is not what you do as it could alienate most people.
How very dare he message someone who viewed his profile! The absolute nerve of him eh?
Get a grip!
Meow "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"(Mrs) I looked at your profile after you posted on the forum, you then sent us a message. I got the impression that you might send a message to whoever looked at your profile, this annoyed me and if everyone did this after we looked at a profile we would have 100s of messages a day. Hope this is not what you do as it could alienate most people. "
no i do not.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot "
I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset.
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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago
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"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset."
You may need to toughen up if that upsets you. You might get much worse from some people on here.
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
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"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset."
We were just pointing out something that you were doing after finding out people had viewed your profile (we only viewed after you posted on the forum about your profile) and then we get a message. As you said thanks for viewing we thought that you might have messaged everyone who viewed your profile after they viewed after reading your forum post. Didn't mean to hurt your feelings, so sorry about that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset."
But I don't see why you should need to thank people for looking at your profile this is why look in stealth mode  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset.
We were just pointing out something that you were doing after finding out people had viewed your profile (we only viewed after you posted on the forum about your profile) and then we get a message. As you said thanks for viewing we thought that you might have messaged everyone who viewed your profile after they viewed after reading your forum post. Didn't mean to hurt your feelings, so sorry about that."
its fine do not worry it blows over i use to it by now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset."
Have to admit, that would probably irritate me if someone messaged to thank us for viewing their profile. I've looked at your profile a number of times as I have done with the majority of the regular forumites. But if we're thanked for it, then we're in a dilemma about whether to reply or delete. If we delete then we will be deemed as rude, but if we reply then we have to think of something to say, when we never wanted an email chat.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset."
I wasn't referring to what the other couple said... BTW |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset.
Have to admit, that would probably irritate me if someone messaged to thank us for viewing their profile. I've looked at your profile a number of times as I have done with the majority of the regular forumites. But if we're thanked for it, then we're in a dilemma about whether to reply or delete. If we delete then we will be deemed as rude, but if we reply then we have to think of something to say, when we never wanted an email chat.
Mrs"
i do understand maybe it because i i was raised to be polite to people no matter what if i wrong then i going wrong way about it i do not know, as i new to this web thing.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset.
I wasn't referring to what the other couple said... BTW "
oh okay s what you saying u want to see my manhood lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset.
I wasn't referring to what the other couple said... BTW oh okay s what you saying u want to see my manhood lol"
Er NO I don't.. thank you. Nevermind... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset.
Have to admit, that would probably irritate me if someone messaged to thank us for viewing their profile. I've looked at your profile a number of times as I have done with the majority of the regular forumites. But if we're thanked for it, then we're in a dilemma about whether to reply or delete. If we delete then we will be deemed as rude, but if we reply then we have to think of something to say, when we never wanted an email chat.
Mrs i do understand maybe it because i i was raised to be polite to people no matter what if i wrong then i going wrong way about it i do not know, as i new to this web thing. "
We were raised to be polite too. That's why we don't like to be put in a situation where we might have to be rude. But it is questionable as to whether it is internet etiquette to thank someone for viewing a profile. If we were to be that polite by your standards of politeness we would have had to send out over a hundred messages yesterday to everybody to viewed our profile. There needs to be a certain level of practicality when being polite, especially when communicating with total strangers on the internet. |
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura |
"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset.
I wasn't referring to what the other couple said... BTW oh okay s what you saying u want to see my manhood lol
Er NO I don't.. thank you. Nevermind..."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset.
I wasn't referring to what the other couple said... BTW oh okay s what you saying u want to see my manhood lol
Er NO I don't.. thank you. Nevermind... i was joking not else
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset.
I wasn't referring to what the other couple said... BTW oh okay s what you saying u want to see my manhood lol
Er NO I don't.. thank you. Nevermind..."
i was joking i do not do that i not that type of person |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset.
Have to admit, that would probably irritate me if someone messaged to thank us for viewing their profile. I've looked at your profile a number of times as I have done with the majority of the regular forumites. But if we're thanked for it, then we're in a dilemma about whether to reply or delete. If we delete then we will be deemed as rude, but if we reply then we have to think of something to say, when we never wanted an email chat.
Mrs i do understand maybe it because i i was raised to be polite to people no matter what if i wrong then i going wrong way about it i do not know, as i new to this web thing.
We were raised to be polite too. That's why we don't like to be put in a situation where we might have to be rude. But it is questionable as to whether it is internet etiquette to thank someone for viewing a profile. If we were to be that polite by your standards of politeness we would have had to send out over a hundred messages yesterday to everybody to viewed our profile. There needs to be a certain level of practicality when being polite, especially when communicating with total strangers on the internet."
oh okay now i understand thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need to be way more positive dude. You're always negative with the posts. 'Nobody will meet me' or 'I'm trying and getting nothing' You're status update is negative.
It looks like you feel sorry for yourself and nobody here will give you the sympathy shag. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You need to be way more positive dude. You're always negative with the posts. 'Nobody will meet me' or 'I'm trying and getting nothing' You're status update is negative.
It looks like you feel sorry for yourself and nobody here will give you the sympathy shag. "
i not looking for that ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You need to be way more positive dude. You're always negative with the posts. 'Nobody will meet me' or 'I'm trying and getting nothing' You're status update is negative.
It looks like you feel sorry for yourself and nobody here will give you the sympathy shag. i not looking for that ok"
I stand by my observation though, that it appears to me that you need to be more positive.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You need to be way more positive dude. You're always negative with the posts. 'Nobody will meet me' or 'I'm trying and getting nothing' You're status update is negative.
It looks like you feel sorry for yourself and nobody here will give you the sympathy shag. i not looking for that ok
I stand by my observation though, that it appears to me that you need to be more positive.
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well i am positive i never negative so judge me that way it fine when i only telling it like it is |
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"How very dare he message someone who viewed his profile! The absolute nerve of him eh?
Get a grip! "
Yes the nerve, if someone looks and likes they'll make contact. Don't need every desperate profile messaging you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How very dare he message someone who viewed his profile! The absolute nerve of him eh?
Get a grip!
Yes the nerve, if someone looks and likes they'll make contact. Don't need every desperate profile messaging you "
I know that now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're a prolific forum poster, perhaps they're looking to see what the profile behind the posts looks like. "
We often do that. Problem we often get a message from them. Which has nothing to do with wanting to attend the social  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You need to be way more positive dude. You're always negative with the posts. 'Nobody will meet me' or 'I'm trying and getting nothing' You're status update is negative.
It looks like you feel sorry for yourself and nobody here will give you the sympathy shag. i not looking for that ok
I stand by my observation though, that it appears to me that you need to be more positive.
well i'm always positive I've never been negative it may sound like it so judge me that way it fine when i only telling it like it is when some in insults me which I find it amusing if im honest. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"(Mrs) I looked at your profile after you posted on the forum, you then sent us a message. I got the impression that you might send a message to whoever looked at your profile, this annoyed me and if everyone did this after we looked at a profile we would have 100s of messages a day. Hope this is not what you do as it could alienate most people. no i do not."
I looked at your profile, to see who was posting in the forum. You messaged me too for looking. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"(Mrs) I looked at your profile after you posted on the forum, you then sent us a message. I got the impression that you might send a message to whoever looked at your profile, this annoyed me and if everyone did this after we looked at a profile we would have 100s of messages a day. Hope this is not what you do as it could alienate most people. no i do not.
I looked at your profile, to see who was posting in the forum. You messaged me too for looking. "
he's messaged me also and i'm always in ninja mode so he wouldn't know if i'd looked or not.
i chatted with him and he's a very nice man to talk to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why is members who not interest in men or not in their age range keep looking when they may not be interestedwhich can be annoying which is fine i do understand but that what i mostly get when people look at my profile? Happy swinging all "
I tried viewing your profile. But you seem if have blocked me... even tho I have never seen your profile or spoken to you before...... strange |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"(Mrs) I looked at your profile after you posted on the forum, you then sent us a message. I got the impression that you might send a message to whoever looked at your profile, this annoyed me and if everyone did this after we looked at a profile we would have 100s of messages a day. Hope this is not what you do as it could alienate most people. no i do not.
I looked at your profile, to see who was posting in the forum. You messaged me too for looking.
he's messaged me also and i'm always in ninja mode so he wouldn't know if i'd looked or not.
i chatted with him and he's a very nice man to talk to."
I never for one minute suggested he is NOT a nice man. He posted that it bothered him, that people looked at his profile ffs. He denies messaging people who look at his profile. I looked at him, he mailed me within minutes. I didn't post in the forum that day. If people doesn't like negative responses, they should stop uploading thread after thread |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"(Mrs) I looked at your profile after you posted on the forum, you then sent us a message. I got the impression that you might send a message to whoever looked at your profile, this annoyed me and if everyone did this after we looked at a profile we would have 100s of messages a day. Hope this is not what you do as it could alienate most people. no i do not.
I looked at your profile, to see who was posting in the forum. You messaged me too for looking.
he's messaged me also and i'm always in ninja mode so he wouldn't know if i'd looked or not.
i chatted with him and he's a very nice man to talk to.
I never for one minute suggested he is NOT a nice man. He posted that it bothered him, that people looked at his profile ffs. He denies messaging people who look at his profile. I looked at him, he mailed me within minutes. I didn't post in the forum that day. If people doesn't like negative responses, they should stop uploading thread after thread "
oh right.
things are making more sense now actually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You need to be way more positive dude. You're always negative with the posts. 'Nobody will meet me' or 'I'm trying and getting nothing' You're status update is negative.
It looks like you feel sorry for yourself and nobody here will give you the sympathy shag. i not looking for that ok
I stand by my observation though, that it appears to me that you need to be more positive.
well i'm always positive I've never been negative it may sound like it so judge me that way it fine when i only telling it like it is when some in insults me which I find it amusing if im honest. "
Where did I insult you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You need to be way more positive dude. You're always negative with the posts. 'Nobody will meet me' or 'I'm trying and getting nothing' You're status update is negative.
It looks like you feel sorry for yourself and nobody here will give you the sympathy shag. i not looking for that ok
I stand by my observation though, that it appears to me that you need to be more positive.
well i'm always positive I've never been negative it may sound like it so judge me that way it fine when i only telling it like it is when some in insults me which I find it amusing if im honest.
Where did I insult you? "
There was no insult. It was the same feedback as myself and others have given you. You post frequently, usually questioning why men like yourself can't get a meet. You fall back to the 'I have lived in South Africa most of my life', when feedback doesn't go your way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They are interested but shy. You should message them all OP. don't forget to attach your cock shot I see well thanks but i not like that. i was only being polite in saying thanks for viewing my profile nothing more which they took the wrong way so i not sending anymore message out for a while due to being upset.
We were just pointing out something that you were doing after finding out people had viewed your profile (we only viewed after you posted on the forum about your profile) and then we get a message. As you said thanks for viewing we thought that you might have messaged everyone who viewed your profile after they viewed after reading your forum post. Didn't mean to hurt your feelings, so sorry about that."
Well it needs pointing out talking about messages you have been sent is agaist the forum rooms they are private messages for a reason and you should not be posting about them here. Think we would be a bit annoyed if messages we sent were talked about in a public forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
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People have stated they receive 'A' message. The content nor tone of the message, have not been mentioned. I think you will find that is not against the rules. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People have stated they receive 'A' message. The content nor tone of the message, have not been mentioned. I think you will find that is not against the rules."
They stated who they had the PRIVATE message from so I think you will find that is against the rules. It's the same as naming and shaming. It was not said in a general way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People have stated they receive 'A' message. The content nor tone of the message, have not been mentioned. I think you will find that is not against the rules.
They stated who they had the PRIVATE message from so I think you will find that is against the rules. It's the same as naming and shaming. It was not said in a general way. "
As per the forum rules.....
Private mail should stay private
Please don't post private mail to the forums no matter how idiotic/funny it may be. It is strictly against site rules.
It is open to interpretation. I perceive it as not posting THE private mail, not a mention that a private mail had been received. I felt it was justified, as the OP forum was denying he mailed people who posted on his forums. If you feel so strongly, hit
the report button.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they are checking out the competition.
Maybe they are looking for new ideas for their own profiles. (I don't mean copying.)
Maybe they are just generally interested in their fellow human beings. "
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Add to that....paper trailing verifications. (I didn't look...this assumes you have verifications to paper trail) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"why is members who not interest in men or not in their age range keep looking when they may not be interestedwhich can be annoying which is fine i do understand but that what i mostly get when people look at my profile? Happy swinging all
I tried viewing your profile. But you seem if have blocked me... even tho I have never seen your profile or spoken to you before...... strange"
I do not do that only if they send me rude mail i would do that which has happy but redone my profile.. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"why is members who not interest in men or not in their age range keep looking when they may not be interestedwhich can be annoying which is fine i do understand but that what i mostly get when people look at my profile? Happy swinging all
I tried viewing your profile. But you seem if have blocked me... even tho I have never seen your profile or spoken to you before...... strange
I do not do that only if they send me rude mail i would do that which has happy but redone my profile.. "
it seems to be a site glitch that sometimes people randomly get blocked. |
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