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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So today I got dumped by my 'friends with benefits club buddy' for something I didn't do.

I'm kinda gutted to say the least. Not just due to the false accusations on my otherwise good character.. but I actually cared. What do I do now?

What have u done in this situation?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"So today I got dumped by my 'friends with benefits club buddy' for something I didn't do.

I'm kinda gutted to say the least. Not just due to the false accusations on my otherwise good character.. but I actually cared. What do I do now?

What have u done in this situation?"

Move on and find another one, if it hurts too much block him on here as well. Sorry to hear and hope you're ok xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They are probably better off without you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"They are probably better off without you"

Well obvs they think that

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I am sorry to hear that, and it's even worse that you didn't do it and they don't believe you.

I have no idea what the situation is but I do hope that it works itself out in the best possible way for you.

Life can be very frustrating and upsetting sometimes. Things do feel better over time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are probably better off without you

Well obvs they think that

Come on, dropping a female from a FWB club. You must have done something really fucking bad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are probably better off without you"

Charming!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pick yourself up and move on. Its the nature of the fuck buddy beast. It's not meant to last forever.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pick yourself up and move on. Its the nature of the fuck buddy beast. It's not meant to last forever.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So today I got dumped by my 'friends with benefits club buddy' for something I didn't do.

I'm kinda gutted to say the least. Not just due to the false accusations on my otherwise good character.. but I actually cared. What do I do now?

What have u done in this situation?"

Have you spoken to them about how you're feeling? X

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"They are probably better off without you

Well obvs they think that

Come on, dropping a female from a FWB club. You must have done something really fucking bad"

I think OP is asking for advice not for people to make nasty comments as she is clearly upset enough to post it on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are probably better off without you

Well obvs they think that

Come on, dropping a female from a FWB club. You must have done something really fucking bad"

I predict a glittering career ahead of you in the Diplomatic Corps.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are probably better off without you

Well obvs they think that

Come on, dropping a female from a FWB club. You must have done something really fucking bad"

That's unnecessary.

OP - misunderstandings happen often in this lifestyle, if he isn't up for discussion then perhaps you had a lucky escape. Plenty more guys out there xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I recently got dumped by a fwb for no apparent reasons. He just stopped messaging me completely and I just can't figure out why. I would have liked a proper closure but I just have to accept it and move on. People just come and go, I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So today I got dumped by my 'friends with benefits club buddy' for something I didn't do.

I'm kinda gutted to say the least. Not just due to the false accusations on my otherwise good character.. but I actually cared. What do I do now?

What have u done in this situation?"

I waited for the lies to be found out.. but i wont say it hasn't affected me. I am loads more unsure of myself now. Just don't hide like I did... x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are probably better off without you

Well obvs they think that

Come on, dropping a female from a FWB club. You must have done something really fucking

bad"

What I think he means is is the unicorn thing on here, that female fbs, or fwbs are so rare, that for her to have been dropped or 'dumped' then for them it must have been really bad for them to have let her go, or thought she did something really bad

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"So today I got dumped by my 'friends with benefits club buddy' for something I didn't do.

I'm kinda gutted to say the least. Not just due to the false accusations on my otherwise good character.. but I actually cared. What do I do now?

What have u done in this situation?"

Tried to tell your side and the truth, but if the other party has their mind made up, which happened in my case, there's no going back sadly. Take time out if you're hurt then look for someone new to focus on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"They are probably better off without you

Well obvs they think that

Come on, dropping a female from a FWB club. You must have done something really fucking

bad

I didn't do anything. He thought I lied about where I was. That's all. If you ask me the whole thing was an excuse to drop me rather than having the balls to just say he wanted to move on.

Nevermind. Thanks for your comments.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It sucks if it's over some lies or a misunderstanding

But still these friendships I keep reading about are based on sex primarily. It's not much of a foundation for true friendship so it doesn't surprise me at all that people involved in them get dropped so easily

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I was dropped by a fwb after a 9 year relationship. I found I had a lot more free time to have fun in afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are probably better off without you

Well obvs they think that

Come on, dropping a female from a FWB club. You must have done something really fucking

bad

I didn't do anything. He thought I lied about where I was. That's all. If you ask me the whole thing was an excuse to drop me rather than having the balls to just say he wanted to move on.

Nevermind. Thanks for your comments. "

His loss. Chin up girl. It's hard I know but sounds like he did you a favour. Onwards and upwards! X

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By *onny MCMan over a year ago

Crawley

Am I the only one who read "dumped by fuck buddy for something I didn't do" and immediately thought that the thing she didn't do was "anal"?

Sorry for making light of your situation OP but seeing as I wasn't the one making the most insensitive comment on this thread I couldn't resist it.

We all pretend this is casual but deep down we all know some feelings are involved and that we can still be hurt a little here from time to time. But like so much on this site, the good out ways the bad.

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"So today I got dumped by my 'friends with benefits club buddy' for something I didn't do.

I'm kinda gutted to say the least. Not just due to the false accusations on my otherwise good character.. but I actually cared. What do I do now?

What have u done in this situation?"

Block him do you don't have to see any of his status updates or future veris

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman over a year ago

Yes I totally agree.. some guys just don't kno a good thing until it's gone.. block and move on babe.. there are 100's to take his place willingly too.. good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are probably better off without you

Well obvs they think that

Come on, dropping a female from a FWB club. You must have done something really fucking

bad

I didn't do anything. He thought I lied about where I was. That's all. If you ask me the whole thing was an excuse to drop me rather than having the balls to just say he wanted to move on.

Nevermind. Thanks for your comments. "

I wouldn't want a FWB that felt my whereabouts when not with them were their business or who clearly has trust issues

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are probably better off without you

Well obvs they think that

Come on, dropping a female from a FWB club. You must have done something really fucking

bad

or he as found someone else he thinks is better and instead of the truth uses a excuse to dump the op. But then it will always be down to the female because guys are never shallow are they. Male half replying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

fwb is always difficult, ive had this very situation and you just have to let go...you have to figure if they dont know you well enough to take your side are they worth having round anyway? xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My previous fwb dropped my me with no explanation or closure. I spent months wondering what I had done analysing things I had said, actions I had made. Then after about 4 yrs I ran in to him and he told me that he had fallen in love with me and didnt want to put me in to the position of having to choose between him and my hubby. So he walked away.

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By *f4loanMan over a year ago

Spain

"They are probably better off without you

Well obvs they think that

Come on, dropping a female from a FWB club. You must have done something really fucking

bad

I didn't do anything. He thought I lied about where I was. That's all. If you ask me the whole thing was an excuse to drop me rather than having the balls to just say he wanted to move on.

Nevermind. Thanks for your comments. "

This sounds most likely . Men hate being the " bad guy" . They'd much rather make

Out that us girls are liars , cheaters, stalkers , too intense etc than just do the decent thing and be honest!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So today I got dumped by my 'friends with benefits club buddy' for something I didn't do.

I'm kinda gutted to say the least. Not just due to the false accusations on my otherwise good character.. but I actually cared. What do I do now?

What have u done in this situation?"

I got dumped recently by my FWB of 3 years who'd become more like a casual boyfriend. It hurts and sucks but you have to put it behind you and move on. It's hard but if it's over its over. I find it's hard to find another FWB as it's too soon yet, I,m just doing one off meets atm. Just try not to think about it too much and keep yourself busy. You have my sympathy XXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Brush yourself off. Find another, I guess that's how the cookie crumbles.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are probably better off without you

Well obvs they think that

Come on, dropping a female from a FWB club. You must have done something really fucking bad"

Don't be so mean x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Best to move onto a new fb like he has and forget about him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Allegedly the best way to get over a man is to get under another one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get a fuck buddy. They don't care where you are, what you're doing or with whom.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like the arrangement may have run its course naturally if he's questioning your whereabouts.

Its hard being dumped because you can't say your piece / make it right again.

You just have to get him out of your system, hold your head up & move on.

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

If you actually cared then maybe tell him that? But don't bleat on about it, he either likes you or he doesn't - he's got the wrong end of the stick and will see it or you're going to have to make your own toast for a while

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

you will stop caring eventually and hopefully get angry about his accusations and find an outlet for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you everyone. I was unsure to post.. knowing he may read this thread himself.. but I'm so glad I did and all of your comments (even the negative) have made me realise that in the end... it's defo for the best.

Maybe I'll post an ad later for a new one

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"Thank you everyone. I was unsure to post.. knowing he may read this thread himself.. but I'm so glad I did and all of your comments (even the negative) have made me realise that in the end... it's defo for the best.

Maybe I'll post an ad later for a new one

Good luck hunnie x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pick yourself up, dust yourself and move on. There really are plenty more fish in the sea.

You knew it was just a FWB, not a full on relationship, so, don't let yourself waste time worrying about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the truth will out in the end and he will see that he got it wrong -

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

Maybe I'll post an ad later for a new one

The difference between men and women.

Men - get the hump and put the footy on and open a can.

Women - trawl the net reading over shit with a bottle of pino?

Ya really think he's going to be reading this?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Give up on him and move on. If he dumps you so easily he's not worth the effort.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I suggest you listen to Ella Eyre's song "Comeback" on high volume. Drink some wine and sing into a hairbrush like you mean it.

Then get a good nights sleep.

Look upon it all in the morning with fresh eyes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe I'll post an ad later for a new one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You move on and keep your chin up. I got dumped once for attending a club without a guy I was FB with, even though he was invited.

It may turn out to be a good thing. This is for your enjoyment too so do what you enjoy and the freedom of that. That's why I don't want a fwb as it gets too cumbersome.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are probably better off without you

Well obvs they think that

Come on, dropping a female from a FWB club. You must have done something really fucking

bad

I didn't do anything. He thought I lied about where I was. That's all. If you ask me the whole thing was an excuse to drop me rather than having the balls to just say he wanted to move on.

Nevermind. Thanks for your comments. "

I've had similar. A really weird reason that made no sense at all and just seemed like utter bollocks. Why can't they just man up and be honest.

Sending heartfelt hugs. xxxx

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Been there - as been said pick yourself up, dust yourself down, flick them a pair and move on chick.

If you want a fem companion shout me and I will keep company for giggles as always in blummin Cupids lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My previous fwb dropped my me with no explanation or closure. I spent months wondering what I had done analysing things I had said, actions I had made. Then after about 4 yrs I ran in to him and he told me that he had fallen in love with me and didnt want to put me in to the position of having to choose between him and my hubby. So he walked away. "

Did you feel better when you knew the truth?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry to hear that hopefully you have a well stocked supply of friends with benefits...I cleared the cupboard out a few months ago it can be a shitter.

I once (after repeatedly asking prior to meeting) found out a MR was married and not only that but she was heavily pregnant. We had arranged a club meet, that I went along to, armed with my newly found ammo...where best to drop a bombshell but in the jacuzzi.....so ermm when were you going to say you had a wife? ..(this was after 12 months+ of meeting) and that's she's near set to drop?. ...well his face was a picture and obviously had no excuse. ...his reply. .."don't worry I won't name the baby Cate"

.......moral of the story, you can only believe what people tell you, till you believe them no more. Some people have more front that Brighton beach.

It only makes you wiser to other humans, chalk it up to experience and carry on having a ball

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By *horley GirlWoman over a year ago

Local-ish

Paint on a smile , hold your head up high and have fun without him. Did you have upcoming plans together? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good luck have fun.

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman over a year ago

Somewhere

Maybe I'll post an ad later for a new one

He didn't deserve you if he didn't have balls to be open and direct with you .

I can't comment much as I don't know other side od the story but if you are looking for a next FWB let him earn you ! Let him make an effort if he wants you and set up the rules what will work for both so there is no misunderstanding in future .

Keep smiling and don't hide your profile . Be proud !

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By *oyuer99Man over a year ago

PRESTON

I am sorry for your pain and sorry for some of the less caring comments made above.

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

Any betting he's found someone else and used A made up excuse to dump you. I recently ditched an fb because he was lying and messing me around. Making arrangements to meet at a club then a text letting me down at the last minute because his swinging gf wouldn't let him go. His wife didn't know anything of course. I didn't want any strings just someone who didn't lie and didn't let me down. I miss the great sex but also now know he's inappropriately touched a friend in a club without asking. Not impressed and glad I'm out of it

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By *awtymarkyMan over a year ago

chester

Well OP forget him as he definitely not the guy you thought he was so it's his loss.

I am sure you will find another fwb on here

you never know I might be very lucky that you pick me for a future little black book number

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So today I got dumped by my 'friends with benefits club buddy' for something I didn't do.

I'm kinda gutted to say the least. Not just due to the false accusations on my otherwise good character.. but I actually cared. What do I do now?

What have u done in this situation?"

Yet again the white knights and the "princesses" rear their heads.

FFS it's a swinging site......find another fuck and move on!

Failing that, write to "Dear Dierdre" she's heard it all before.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am sorry for your pain and sorry for some of the less caring comments made above.

Actually you couldn't give a flying f**k about her "pain" really, you just hope that by posting a nicey Nicky comment it ingratiates you into someone else's thoughts as being a "must have" guy.

Man up!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are probably better off without you

Charming!

What i find hilarious is if he had said

"You're probbaly better off without him"

Everyone would be posting

"This"

"What he said"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are probably better off without you

Well obvs they think that

Come on, dropping a female from a FWB club. You must have done something really fucking bad

Don't be so mean x"

Why dont you say that to all the people slating the fwb?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe I'll post an ad later for a new one

He didn't deserve you if he didn't have balls to be open and direct with you .

Keep smiling and don't hide your profile . Be proud !

X "

How much more open and direct can you get than dumping somone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any betting he's found someone else and used A made up excuse to dump you. I recently ditched an fb because he was lying and messing me around. Making arrangements to meet at a club then a text letting me down at the last minute because his swinging gf wouldn't let him go. His wife didn't know anything of course. I didn't want any strings just someone who didn't lie and didn't let me down. I miss the great sex but also now know he's inappropriately touched a friend in a club without asking. Not impressed and glad I'm out of it "

So you dumped a guy for exaxtly the same reason the ops fwb dumped her but when he did it it was an excuse?

Also no strings with a guy who has a wife, a gf, and a fwb?

Thats not not strings thats a whole fucking ball of yarn

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By *ay19720Man over a year ago

Ashford kent

"I am sorry for your pain and sorry for some of the less caring comments made above.

Actually you couldn't give a flying f**k about her "pain" really, you just hope that by posting a nicey Nicky comment it ingratiates you into someone else's thoughts as being a "must have" guy.

Man up!"

And how do u know he aint sorry for her..

U get out of bed the wrong side today..

Chin up girl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My former FWB wanted to stay friends forever, by chat, he wanted me to chat to him every couple of days, tell him how I was doing, if I was alright and about my meets ect and meet socially, but not have sex. He knew very well I loved him, and he sure acted like he cared too when he w meeting my kids and sleeping over once a week. Talk about mixed messages. I said no,and kicked him right out of my life.

XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Wow someone's tripped over their twisted knickers and fell out of bed on the wrong side today.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My former FWB wanted to stay friends forever, by chat, he wanted me to chat to him every couple of days, tell him how I was doing, if I was alright and about my meets ect and meet socially, but not have sex. He knew very well I loved him, and he sure acted like he cared too when he w meeting my kids and sleeping over once a week. Talk about mixed messages. I said no,and kicked him right out of my life.

XXX"

So your friend with benifits moved on met somone or something bur wanted to stay friends woth you and remain in your life and this pissed you off!?

I really dont get that at all thats exactly what friends with benifits are friends first shag second.

A few of my fwb have gotten boyfriend's over the years we're still friends because we werent fuck buddies we where friends who shagged while we were signle and looking for a partner

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By *ay19720Man over a year ago

Ashford kent

"Wow someone's tripped over their twisted knickers and fell out of bed on the wrong side today.

Just as long as yr ok with ya self ..who cares a.....lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow someone's tripped over their twisted knickers and fell out of bed on the wrong side today.

Personally I suspect they haven't tripped over any twisted knickers or fallen out of the bed the wrong side.

It's possibly that they have decided to post a comment that others don't agree with.

Trends are easy to follow by anyone with mediocre intelligence and any posts by a hard done to single female always attract the vomit inducing response from the masses in the hope of ingratiating themselves. Fact!

How do we know that the OP didn't get binned by her "fwb" because she was a useless fuck who layed there like a wet rag? We don't, but I can guarantee now that if the OP was a single male and had posted similar then the vomit inducing replies ingratiating themselves would be nil. Fact!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wow someone's tripped over their twisted knickers and fell out of bed on the wrong side today.

Personally I suspect they haven't tripped over any twisted knickers or fallen out of the bed the wrong side.

It's possibly that they have decided to post a comment that others don't agree with.

Ah so these comments are a factor of jeousy? That you crave the attention that single fems get and you're annoyed at the responses on here... knowing you wouldn't receive the same?

P.s. the comment you replied to was from the OP... me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I recently got dumped by a fwb for no apparent reasons. He just stopped messaging me completely and I just can't figure out why. I would have liked a proper closure but I just have to accept it and move on. People just come and go, I guess."

Maybe wives found out.

In one case he made up a nonsense excuse. In the other he just ran for the hills....?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow someone's tripped over their twisted knickers and fell out of bed on the wrong side today.

Personally I suspect they haven't tripped over any twisted knickers or fallen out of the bed the wrong side.

It's possibly that they have decided to post a comment that others don't agree with.

Awwwww bless ya.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Isn't this ment to be no strings?

Why get upset about a shag bunny ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It sucks if it's over some lies or a misunderstanding

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Isn't this ment to be no strings?

Why get upset about a shag bunny ?"

If you care about them why not?

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan over a year ago

Cheshire

"So today I got dumped by my 'friends with benefits club buddy' for something I didn't do.

I'm kinda gutted to say the least. Not just due to the false accusations on my otherwise good character.. but I actually cared. What do I do now?

What have u done in this situation?"

Nothing you can do. Best thing is find another fb

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nae good plenty more fuck buddies on here

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

"So today I got dumped by my 'friends with benefits club buddy' for something I didn't do.

I'm kinda gutted to say the least. Not just due to the false accusations on my otherwise good character.. but I actually cared. What do I do now?

What have u done in this situation?"

If they don't know you better and choose to believe others accusations, then I'd not consider them any friend at all. Plus I'd not want them in my life and would of dumped their arse as soon as they questioned my honesty!

If they do know you well and choose to belive things so readily

I'd be inclined to think same as you op ,and think they were looking for an out . If that's the case then why would you want someone like that . Chin up ,chest out and shake your booty at them as you walk away and on to new horizons x

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By *lanemikeMan over a year ago

Bolton

Pity I am out with your age range......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So today I got dumped by my 'friends with benefits club buddy' for something I didn't do.

I'm kinda gutted to say the least. Not just due to the false accusations on my otherwise good character.. but I actually cared. What do I do now?

What have u done in this situation?

If they do know you well and choose to belive things so readily

Really so the many cheaters partners wr have on here should belive thier word and not any "acusations"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So today I got dumped by my 'friends with benefits club buddy' for something I didn't do.

I'm kinda gutted to say the least. Not just due to the false accusations on my otherwise good character.. but I actually cared. What do I do now?

What have u done in this situation?"

His/her loss. Take a deep breath. Cry if you have to. Pick yourself up. Move on. That's the way things are. Especially on fab.

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

"So today I got dumped by my 'friends with benefits club buddy' for something I didn't do.

I'm kinda gutted to say the least. Not just due to the false accusations on my otherwise good character.. but I actually cared. What do I do now?

What have u done in this situation?

If they do know you well and choose to belive things so readily

Really so the many cheaters partners wr have on here should belive thier word and not any "acusations""

I personally don't meet cheaters so I stand by what I say.

We also don't know if op is a cheater or the fwb do we .Both could be very single so again stand by my comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So today I got dumped by my 'friends with benefits club buddy' for something I didn't do.

I'm kinda gutted to say the least. Not just due to the false accusations on my otherwise good character.. but I actually cared. What do I do now?

What have u done in this situation?

If they do know you well and choose to belive things so readily

Really so the many cheaters partners wr have on here should belive thier word and not any "acusations"

I personally don't meet cheaters so I stand by what I say.

We also don't know if op is a cheater or the fwb do we .Both could be very single so again stand by my comment"

Both very single yes

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

OP, I can imagine it is frustrating to have a friend treat you in an unjust way.

But if they have done it and you think they are just using it is a cop out excuse, then they were something different to what you thought. In that case, try to forget them as quickly as possible and move on.

Good luck, have fun soon.

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

So you dumped a guy for exaxtly the same reason the ops fwb dumped her but when he did it it was an excuse?

Also no strings with a guy who has a wife, a gf, and a fwb?

Thats not not strings thats a whole fucking ball of yarn"

Not the same reason at all. The OP was dumped by her fwb making up a reason. I had a real reason to dump, didn't need to make anything up and I haven't met anyone else. We weren't fwb's either, just plain and simple fb, totally different

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So today I got dumped by my 'friends with benefits club buddy' for something I didn't do.

I'm kinda gutted to say the least. Not just due to the false accusations on my otherwise good character.. but I actually cared. What do I do now?

What have u done in this situation?

If they do know you well and choose to belive things so readily

Really so the many cheaters partners wr have on here should belive thier word and not any "acusations"

I personally don't meet cheaters so I stand by what I say.

We also don't know if op is a cheater or the fwb do we .Both could be very single so again stand by my comment"

No im not saying thier cheaters.

Read it again.

You propose that a friend should not belive any accusations from others but take thier friends word.

Uet this site is full of people proving that even married partners who should be much closer than friends lie to each other all the time and should not be taken at thier word.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you dumped a guy for exaxtly the same reason the ops fwb dumped her but when he did it it was an excuse?

Also no strings with a guy who has a wife, a gf, and a fwb?

Thats not not strings thats a whole fucking ball of yarn

No you are randomly deciding he made the reason up based on zero evidence.

As it stands

You dumped your fwb becsuse you belived he was lying and messing you around.

The ops fwb dumped her because he belived she was lying and messing him around.

If you say he was just makin up a teason then surely the same goes for you

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