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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There are so many lovely women here, more than you could shake a stick at. But here's the rub: I look at a profile and think 'should I message?', then I don't because the chance of a reply is tiny. Not because I don't know what to say, but because you get drowned out by all the 'fancy a fuck', 'suck my cock', or 'hi how are you?' messages from 100's of others.
Then there's the women who don't send first messages because of the abuse they've had.
What can we do to relieve the frustration on both sides? I've no idea but I will always reply with respect and courtesy to a message sent with good intentions. Rant over. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
There's not a great deal you can do to be honest - unfortunately it's the way of Fab - that said plenty of people do get their messages read and do progress to meet etc., sadly though it's just a case of time and patience and making sure you have a decent profile and pics. Perhaps being active on the forums or in the chat rooms and getting noticed that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best way to not get lost in the crowd of "fancy a fucks" is to only message when you actually have something of interest to say.
If you see someone you like and nothing immediately sticks out to message them about, hotlist them, keep an eye on status changes/new pics etc until something pops up that you can actually have a conversation about... and make sure the message subject line is to do with the message content. No one is interested in opening messages that start with "hey"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The best way to not get lost in the crowd of "fancy a fucks" is to only message when you actually have something of interest to say.
If you see someone you like and nothing immediately sticks out to message them about, hotlist them, keep an eye on status changes/new pics etc until something pops up that you can actually have a conversation about... and make sure the message subject line is to do with the message content. No one is interested in opening messages that start with "hey" "
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"The best way to not get lost in the crowd of "fancy a fucks" is to only message when you actually have something of interest to say.
If you see someone you like and nothing immediately sticks out to message them about, hotlist them, keep an eye on status changes/new pics etc until something pops up that you can actually have a conversation about... and make sure the message subject line is to do with the message content. No one is interested in opening messages that start with "hey" "
I like the hotlist idea - good tip, cheers. I seem to get chatting just as girls are getting fed up with it all and they leave fab a few days later - (Or do I just have that affect on women - lol !) |
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"The best way to not get lost in the crowd of "fancy a fucks" is to only message when you actually have something of interest to say.
If you see someone you like and nothing immediately sticks out to message them about, hotlist them, keep an eye on status changes/new pics etc until something pops up that you can actually have a conversation about... and make sure the message subject line is to do with the message content. No one is interested in opening messages that start with "hey" "
Great advice
All men need to read this! |
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"The best way to not get lost in the crowd of "fancy a fucks" is to only message when you actually have something of interest to say.
If you see someone you like and nothing immediately sticks out to message them about, hotlist them, keep an eye on status changes/new pics etc until something pops up that you can actually have a conversation about... and make sure the message subject line is to do with the message content. No one is interested in opening messages that start with "hey" "
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