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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey all I been trying to get to know people and meet people but I feel like no one wants to meet me I been truefull about myself about having autism and asking in the right way but sofar notting  |
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It's not only you. I get messages but when it comes to meeting I get ignored. Sadly although this is a swinging site there are too many on here that don't actually know what that means. They think they can mess people around, just get kicks from wind ups Perving on your pics etc. Or the ones that message as they come out of a club because they haven't pulled - they want a booty call |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I have the opposite problem, the men seem to just want a quick fuck with minimum effort, so yes plenty of messages but not from people who show any respect, therefore I go without as I don't want to meet people like that  |
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OP most single men struggle on here. The biggest problem you have is purely the very large proportion of men on here. A few people may be put off by you having autism but I don't think it is that much of a problem.
You could tweak your profile a bit and try some new pictures. I would definitely recommend removing some of your cock pics - too many is a turn off to a lot of people.
The more successful men on here don't just rely on messaging people. They go to organised social events (there is a forum for this), they visit clubs and get involved in the chatrooms and forums on here. The secret for a lot of guys is to just get yourself known amongst the swinging community. Once people find out you're a nice guy who is reliable and will turn up as arranged etc things should improve. |
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"I just redone my profile what you think"
You appear friendly guy and have some nice public photos. Maybe add some more details about what you like to try and how you would like to make people feel, without being to explicit. |
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"you should never get ignored you have very beautiful body I would meet you "
Bless you, thanks. Autism should not be a block, my daughter had aspergers and never had a problem getting guys. Many liked her quirky nature. You'll be fine. Find a friend to go to a club with, that'll help x |
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it might not be down to your autism, could be other things. most guys struggle on here and are not autist.
