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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I got to clubs and play ect but trying to get more meets I send long chatty messages but get very little return
Always read people's profiles before messaging
Any tips from women and couples on how to up my results
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Ok, here goes:
1. Look at what people are looking for. Only message if you feel you genuinely meet their criteria.
2. Don't suggest anything sexual in your first mail. Everyone's here for the same reason, don't worry.
3. Say something that makes it obvious you've read the profile.
4. Send a face pic and a full body pic.
5. Don't send a cock pic.
6. Use good spelling, punctuation and grammar.
7. Don't use c&p messages.
Hope that helps! |
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By *ulu99Couple
over a year ago
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We delete messages with poor grammar and spelling. An odd mistake is ok, but when there are lots of errors it's just not attractive.
Single word messages = delete.
Cock pics = delete, unless accompanied by face and body pics.
No profile pic + no verification/ photo id = delete.
Even as a couple solely looking for a bi man we are inundated with messages (mostly from men claiming to be straight on their profiles). |
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"We delete messages with poor grammar and spelling. An odd mistake is ok, but when there are lots of errors it's just not attractive.
Single word messages = delete.
Cock pics = delete, unless accompanied by face and body pics.
No profile pic + no verification/ photo id = delete.
Even as a couple solely looking for a bi man we are inundated with messages (mostly from men claiming to be straight on their profiles)."
Exactly the same for us. We look for people to stimulate us in all ways and if you can't construct a coherent sentence that doesn't bode well.
Ditto as a couple looking (occasionally) for bi guys; it's amazing how many chaps claim to be bi when they think they might get a meet.
There's probably an ironic typo here somewhere... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe your just a minger! 
I would send some photos but it won't let me as I am out your age range lol"
''Twas just kidding Hun.
I'm sure you're beautiful , your profile looked decent enough.  |
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