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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Me and my partner have talked about swinging I'm up for it so to speak but she says she just wants it to stay fantasy,how do I convince her to take that extra step... Any tips would be welcome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Worse thing you could do is force or 'persuade' her to try it. Its not for everyone. If you value your relationship, and she wants to leave it as a fantasy, then that's the best way to leave it.
Pushing the issue could end up doing serious damage to your relationship, so ask yourself.... if a few hours of fun worth the pain it might cause!! You both have to want to do it together or else accident looking for somewhere to happen!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think she is up for it, talked about it a lot, its not something we have decided in last couple of weeks,been talking about it for couple of years now. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Me and my partner have talked about swinging I'm up for it so to speak but she says she just wants it to stay fantasy,how do I convince her to take that extra step...
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You don't, you respect her wishes |
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Swinging as a couple takes honesty & respect of each other's boundaries....it is not something you can persuade someone to do without the risk of damaging the relationship. Both parties need to have the desire to do this.
Paul had started swinging 16 years before meeting me & even though it was something that intrigued me it took months of discussion before he introduced me to it. We took things at my pace...and still do 2 years down the line  |
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