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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey can i ask straight guys a question about how they feel during mmf 3 sums about the other guy.Do they feel awkward or just block out he's there.Also in lot of pics women are rubbing guys cocks together is that just something you have to be ok with ? |
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"Hey can i ask straight guys a question about how they feel during mmf 3 sums about the other guy.Do they feel awkward or just block out he's there.Also in lot of pics women are rubbing guys cocks together is that just something you have to be ok with ? "
It isn't often a problem. There's plenty of holes to play with without having to share the same one at the same time. If you're a straight guy meeting a couple with a bi male or a single bi male meeting a straight couple it's something you'd be best to cover before arranging to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i don't see a difference between the other guy and just another sex toy.
Had meets with bi couples and they knew I was straight and no problems.
The other guy might be getting off, but only the same as me enjoying watching the woman smoking before and after we play as I have a bit of a smoking fetish.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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always some confusion on that.
I believe in the strictest sense, DP is one in pussy, one in arse, with DVP being double vaginal penetration.
Either is fun though! You just need good rhythm to stop one of the cocks being pushed out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a straight guy,we only ever play with straight guys,so both guys are taking as much care as the other not to get....err......too intimate.
Can do DP no problem but could never do DV or have my cock rubbing against another,that would result in me losing the horn PDQ. 
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Hey can i ask straight guys a question about how they feel during mmf 3 sums about the other guy.Do they feel awkward or just block out he's there.Also in lot of pics women are rubbing guys cocks together is that just something you have to be ok with ? "
We do straight MFM.
Obviously DP or two in a mouth will bring contact of some sort with the mens cocks.
But from our experience the only contact apart from the above between with the men seems to be with arms or legs.
Rubbing cocks together for the men wouldn't happen in our MFM though, as Mr Rugby wouldn't want that, and I am guessing the other male too if he is straight.
Share your concerns and bounderies with the couple you might be meeting before you get to the meet, and then there wont be any awkwardness on the meet itself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey can i ask straight guys a question about how they feel during mmf 3 sums about the other guy.Do they feel awkward or just block out he's there.Also in lot of pics women are rubbing guys cocks together is that just something you have to be ok with ? "
Well as a bi bloke who enjoys all the fun with women and some fun with men...
If the meet is for me to be straight, then that what happens, it's all agreed before in the email and chats.
I find it hard, if not impossible not to touch the other man (Not sexually) in a MMF, MFM, FMM or what ever you want to call it. I guess if you have issues with a man touching you or your cock touching the other man (accidently)etc etc, maybe MMF, MFM, FMM is not for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must admit that when I had my first MMF session, I was thinking about what the other guy would be doing/feeling. But once you are in that situation, it doesn't become a worry at all. As long as you know beforehand what sort of things you will do/not do, then the 'heat of the moment' takes over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hmm good question , i dont block them out , but for me it helps if i know them , sometimes im really nervous about it and i think experience is the ksy , as for rubbing cocks no it does not bother me in the slghtest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Amazes me why people read so much into it
If you are having group sex of course you will at sometimes touch the male
And if you having dvp of course your cocks will touch
What the problem really is is that a lot of men think that touching makes them bi sexual or gay or that if they touch the other bloke even acidently then maybe he will think they are bi or agy
It dont work like that people so just enjoy why worry? xx  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Amazes me why people read so much into it
If you are having group sex of course you will at sometimes touch the male
And if you having dvp of course your cocks will touch
What the problem really is is that a lot of men think that touching makes them bi sexual or gay or that if they touch the other bloke even acidently then maybe he will think they are bi or agy
It dont work like that people so just enjoy why worry? xx "
I think thats the key isn't it, when you are all having fun what does it matter if an odd touch happens, you just move away if it bothers you, and I am sure no one would even notice.
Just discuss your bounderies beforehand, and go with the flow, being too worried about things like this might spoil the experience for you. |
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It's a massive double standard and it makes me laff every time!
Presumably no guy would have any problem if two women ended up touching bodies, rubbing breasts/whatever?!!
If you're going to do mmf or similar there are going to be erect penises other than yours, there's going to be some male male contact. It doesnt mean your gay, or bi, it doesnt mean anything!
I met a lovely couple recently, her thing was double vaginal penetration, both her hubby and i are straight, but did it without question, and enjoyed it. I didnt wake up in the morning with a burning desire to watch Judy Garland movies!
What if the other guy has a much bigger cock than you, are you just going to slink off?
This is an adult site for adult fun, if you're going to be uncomfortable around naked people, it's not gonna work for you!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its got nothing to do with being uncomfortable around naked people.
Its to do with another guy getting off by rubbing his cock on yours and vice versa,which I for one aren't comfortable with.
Female bisexuality has always been more acceptable.
When straight vanilla women kiss and cuddle each other no one bats an eyelid.
Aunties,sisters,etc,we've all been brought up with womens open displays of affection towards each other.
Girl on girl is seen by many guys as the ultimate in femininity.
On the other hand male on male is seen by many straight guys as the ultimate turn off.
Especially guys of a certain age,brought up in societies where its instilled in you that its dirty,wrong and something to be avoided.
So,for the most part it has nothing to do with the fear of being touched up by another guy or becoming bi/gay by assocciation.
Sure,there are lots of guys who don't mind rubbing their cock on another,good luck to them if thats their thing.
Bottom line is, for many straight guys the thought of another guy touching their cock,in any way shape or form, is a definate turn off.
Nothing more,nothing less.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just brought it up beacause you see a lot of it in pics thought maybe it was something that was required,or that it would be something women enjoyed so had to do double blow jobs etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just brought it up beacause you see a lot of it in pics thought maybe it was something that was required,or that it would be something women enjoyed so had to do double blow jobs etc."
End of the day mate no means no in swinging if you are not comfortable with something say so lol majority of people will understand
And the ones that dont then you just avoid  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say, when I had my first 3some, I was very nervous because I didn't know if i would freak if there was another guy there, what if he was bigger than me, what if he tried to touch me etc... Once she had my cock in her mouth things were pretty much A Okay! 
You will always feel worried doing something new, but I just jump in with both feet, try it and if i don't like it, try it a few more times to be sure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"look at a rugby game are all the guys in a scrum gay when they touch ?
just concentrate on the lady.
in some positions there will be some contact when two men play with one lady"
Never seen a rugby game yet where the guys rub their cocks together but then I support Wales,so its probably an English thing!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"look at a rugby game are all the guys in a scrum gay when they touch ?
just concentrate on the lady.
in some positions there will be some contact when two men play with one lady
Never seen a rugby game yet where the guys rub their cocks together but then I support Wales,so its probably an English thing!
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That made me laugh my head off lol |
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"look at a rugby game are all the guys in a scrum gay when they touch ?
just concentrate on the lady.
in some positions there will be some contact when two men play with one lady
Never seen a rugby game yet where the guys rub their cocks together but then I support Wales,so its probably an English thing!
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PMSL!
Good one! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i don't see a difference between the other guy and just another sex toy.
Had meets with bi couples and they knew I was straight and no problems.
The other guy might be getting off, but only the same as me enjoying watching the woman smoking before and after we play as I have a bit of a smoking fetish.
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fancy lighting me cig |
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I have to say, if you're worried about another guy being there, clearly you aren't actually interested in an MMF threesome, so what would you be doing in that position? And if you do cross swords, which, depending on the activity, ranges from inevitable to probable, remember that the only differences between that and touching feet, say, are the connotations inside your own head. |
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We always establish the boundaries before we play. As a straight guy,I have no problems playing in a group with other guys present, even if they are bi, so long as they know what my limits are.
Just a thought tho, how many of the guys who have posted on here to say "some contact is inevitable" or "you shouldnt play MMF if you cant handle M2M contact" are actually bi? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Have to say never really understood that "keep that cock way from me" mentality 
If you genuinely full swap and inter mingle as that scenario would suggest, unless separate room is your bag, then the odd cock touch is inevitable.
If you are genuinely secure in your own sexuality this will of course be no problem but for those that fear this perhaps some introspection is in order
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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Lol, DV or DP - I've tried it and can only say its down to all participants involved how comfortable they are.
Ignoring any other participants' bi tendencies (which should be clarified if the other guy is) the focus should be on the lady in the DP/DV (or DA ??) in question.
Right - peeps must be thinking am a dirty fecker |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have to say never really understood that "keep that cock way from me" mentality
If you genuinely full swap and inter mingle as that scenario would suggest, unless separate room is your bag, then the odd cock touch is inevitable.
If you are genuinely secure in your own sexuality this will of course be no problem but for those that fear this perhaps some introspection is in order
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I think the issue here is not so much accidental touching as accidentaly on purpose touching!  |
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"We always establish the boundaries before we play. As a straight guy,I have no problems playing in a group with other guys present, even if they are bi, so long as they know what my limits are.
Just a thought tho, how many of the guys who have posted on here to say "some contact is inevitable" or "you shouldnt play MMF if you cant handle M2M contact" are actually bi? "
I am straight, and I've enjoyed mmf threesomes. I honestly wonder why someone would have one if they were seriously worried about having another man there, since that is the defining factor of an mmf. The only motivation I can see, with respect, is desperation.
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"We always establish the boundaries before we play. As a straight guy,I have no problems playing in a group with other guys present, even if they are bi, so long as they know what my limits are.
Just a thought tho, how many of the guys who have posted on here to say "some contact is inevitable" or "you shouldnt play MMF if you cant handle M2M contact" are actually bi?
I am straight, and I've enjoyed mmf threesomes. I honestly wonder why someone would have one if they were seriously worried about having another man there, since that is the defining factor of an mmf. The only motivation I can see, with respect, is desperation."
That's a little harsh, the guy was asking a perfectly legitimate question - doesn't sound like he's totally scared to death but I respect the fact that he wasn't sure about something and asked - I would agree with the majority of the other comments here from more experienced people that he needs to be clear as to other peoples boundaries - at the end of the day the best thing to do it talk a little - then experiment! |
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"look at a rugby game are all the guys in a scrum gay when they touch ?
just concentrate on the lady.
in some positions there will be some contact when two men play with one lady
Never seen a rugby game yet where the guys rub their cocks together but then I support Wales,so its probably an English thing!
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pmsl !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well i'm straight and have done mmf,wasn't planned and was one of the best sexual experiences i.ve had, saw the other guy sort himself while i had her legs in the air and didn't turn me on and didn't turn me off. Tried to dp but the the f said no. We were all straight and sure we must have brushed each other but it was no different from brushing by someone in the pub.if he grabbed me then i would've pulled back as no means no. If it's something you wanna do and don't mind accidental touching then go for it,it's a great experience. If it worries you that a guy may look ,watch or even want to touch then it's not for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont think you need to worry about other men
You need to worry about yourself and you need to be sure of your sexuality.these things happen if you have any doubts about your own sexuality.
Good luck and enjoy the evening and then let us know how it went. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say I really dont think about the other bloke when we play. Its nice to watch shagging in front of your face, but purely in the voyeuristic sense( like porn, you cant take part in lol.) Have done DP & DV and it really doesnt bother me, I'm not there for the other man, I'm there for the pleasure of the woman in the middle. As long as everyone knows there boundries theres never been a problem. Going on to much, off now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We always establish the boundaries before we play. As a straight guy,I have no problems playing in a group with other guys present, even if they are bi, so long as they know what my limits are.
Just a thought tho, how many of the guys who have posted on here to say "some contact is inevitable" or "you shouldnt play MMF if you cant handle M2M contact" are actually bi?
I am straight, and I've enjoyed mmf threesomes. I honestly wonder why someone would have one if they were seriously worried about having another man there, since that is the defining factor of an mmf. The only motivation I can see, with respect, is desperation.
That's a little harsh, the guy was asking a perfectly legitimate question - doesn't sound like he's totally scared to death but I respect the fact that he wasn't sure about something and asked - I would agree with the majority of the other comments here from more experienced people that he needs to be clear as to other peoples boundaries - at the end of the day the best thing to do it talk a little - then experiment!"
Mr P has a good point though a lot of singles really need to ask themselves "do I want a threesome or an easy fuck?" couples will have more fun with the former |
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