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Being genuine gets you nowhere if you want to meet people but will if you want to make online friends only.
The female to male ratio is awful. Therefore if you aren't good looking you aren't getting a reply.
Replies that are meet orientated are kind goldust |
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over a year ago
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Fab has taught me that not everything that glitters is gold. You cannot polish a turd. Guys with tell you anything to get your knickers off. Full of fantasist and bullshitters. However saying that there are a few hidden gems and I have made some lovely friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab has taught me that not everything that glitters is gold. You cannot polish a turd. Guys with tell you anything to get your knickers off. Full of fantasist and bullshitters. However saying that there are a few hidden gems and I have made some lovely friends "
Actually yeah that sounds about right too! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab has taught me that there are some right odd people in this world on here yet there are some genuinely lovely people on here who can make me smile and laugh.
It's also taught me to love what I have on offer and that somewhere there is someone who likes it all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab has taught me that not everything that glitters is gold. You cannot polish a turd. Guys with tell you anything to get your knickers off. Full of fantasist and bullshitters. However saying that there are a few hidden gems and I have made some lovely friends "
Thanks that saved me typing lol. This exactly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabs has taught us that the majority of people that message assume you want to meet them by replying to their message"
Forgot this gem! And the fact that I should be grateful for any interaction with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That I don't need to be someone else,being me and be accepted for who I am!
Made great friendships and with them I can be open and even have holidays together!
This site is not only full of rubbish like you read on the status! I may leave fab but always return because I know that have real people looking for fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab has taught us that whilst everyone is online bitching about not getting to meet people all the other people are in clubs fucking themselves senseless.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab has taught me that having a positive outlook tends to reflect positivity back to me. Being a whiney, sulky pants who diva strops and stamps like a three year old who's had his dummy taken away tends to make people step bravely away in the opposite direction pretty swiftly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab has taught me that not everything that glitters is gold. You cannot polish a turd. Guys with tell you anything to get your knickers off. Full of fantasist and bullshitters. However saying that there are a few hidden gems and I have made some lovely friends
Actually yeah that sounds about right too! X"
Yep very well put xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab has taught me (not through experience) standards do not exist in so many cases... and guys will fuck anyone!
Ooh that makes me feel special!! 
Roo "
Oh Roo don't be silly.... besides our time is yet to come |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab has taught me (not through experience) standards do not exist in so many cases... and guys will fuck anyone!
Ooh that makes me feel special!!
Roo
Oh Roo don't be silly.... besides our time is yet to come"
Mmmm and I can't wait! 
Roo |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Fab has taught me that it is insane to take a website geared towards meeting people for sex seriously, and when you start getting angry about not getting meets its time to get off the internet. It has also taught me that what men think they want and what they actually want are two completely different things (I can't comment on women or couples, as I don't meet them).
Fab has also taught me about Fab-time, where every meet starts at least 30 mins after it was arranged for, and Fab-speak, where no-one means what they say. But it has also told me that people here are humans, with all their faults and features, and there are always lovely people around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab has taught me (not through experience) standards do not exist in so many cases... and guys will fuck anyone!
Ooh that makes me feel special!!
Roo
Oh Roo don't be silly.... besides our time is yet to come
Mmmm and I can't wait!
Roo "
You and me both with P thrown in too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Self confidence
Manners are more important on here - there free after all so what not use them
To be yourself
And ever expect fab fun play - if it doesn't happen no big deal but at the end of the day your getting to like minded sexy folks on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab has taught me that there are some right odd people in this world on here yet there are some genuinely lovely people on here who can make me smile and laugh.
It's also taught me to love what I have on offer and that somewhere there is someone who likes it all "
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
Not fab per se. But the forums.
They have shown me how many self opinionated, keyboard warriors there are out there.
It's supposed to be fun, but bloody hell, some people come across so aggressive. Would we meet these people ? In a word or 2 "NO" "NEVER" .....
Chill, have fun, and stop snapping at people with a differing opinion. Xxxxx suzi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"that most men have really low sex drives. i'm now asking men what they mean by regular meets, once a month...haha regular?"
Really? I'd have thought they'd be gagging for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hasn't taught me much really. I'm well aware that anything online is deceptive. I'm aware that women are the gatekeeper's for sex so they will get a lot of attention. I'm aware of the double standards of swinging. I'm aware peoples standards go out the window when it comes to NSA sex. I'd say it has taught me to know you're place accept it's just the way it is that's all. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"that most men have really low sex drives. i'm now asking men what they mean by regular meets, once a month...haha regular?
Really? I'd have thought they'd be gagging for it"
already getting it off someone else i reckon. dunno, don't care, that's not enough for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"that most men have really low sex drives. i'm now asking men what they mean by regular meets, once a month...haha regular?
Really? I'd have thought they'd be gagging for it
already getting it off someone else i reckon. dunno, don't care, that's not enough for me."
Regular for me is at least once a week |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"that most men have really low sex drives. i'm now asking men what they mean by regular meets, once a month...haha regular?
Really? I'd have thought they'd be gagging for it
already getting it off someone else i reckon. dunno, don't care, that's not enough for me.
Regular for me is at least once a week"
several times a week for me. once a month is laughable.
i don't want the whole site to penetrate me while wrapped in plastic bags. sick of swinging, it's shit waiting for a 'turn'. |
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"Fab has taught me that not everything that glitters is gold. You cannot polish a turd. Guys with tell you anything to get your knickers off. Full of fantasist and bullshitters. However saying that there are a few hidden gems and I have made some lovely friends "
Here here ! |
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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago
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Some very nice genuine guys who will not mess you about or waste your time .......and a few that will mess you about when you have other things to do. People do have a life away from FAB and have to fit FAB in around normal everyday situations....rant over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab taught me that there are single men wanting nsa sex that after meeting a couple will try anything to persuade the woman to leave their hubby as they can give them everything that they desire.
Also taught me that Wales has its fair share of hotties!
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has made me question recently whether some men on here actually like women 
But that the majority of people are nice."
I'd love to spend some time with you but unless I get a contract in Scotland there is no chance xxx |
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What has Fab thought me?
Well:
Sky remotes are not for turning on and controlling your satellite TV but are in fact a bona-fide measurement of penis size.
Every man, except my self and that guy with a 1.25 inch penis, have monster penis sizes as well as an indepth working knowledge of photoshop
97.62 % of the male population have all of a sudden become bisexual/curious
A little confidence can go a long way to turning some people into arseholes.
Single men can't actually read, predominantly sentences that include "no single males wanted" or variations there of.
There are some lovely people on here but then there are a load of Cockshutt as well.
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"What has Fab thought me?
Well:
Sky remotes are not for turning on and controlling your satellite TV but are in fact a bona-fide measurement of penis size.
Every man, except my self and that guy with a 1.25 inch penis, have monster penis sizes as well as an indepth working knowledge of photoshop
97.62 % of the male population have all of a sudden become bisexual/curious
A little confidence can go a long way to turning some people into arseholes.
Single men can't actually read, predominantly sentences that include "no single males wanted" or variations there of.
There are some lovely people on here but then there are a load of Cockshutt as well.
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Fab has also taught us that if you reply with a polite no thank you message you can either expect abuse or a lot of questions why not and if you don't reply/block you're considered rude and will have a status written about you being a time waster because you're not attracted to them |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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That there are more people on here who don't actually want to meet with anyone ever.
That the average bloke does know what all fifty plus of your pics look like but doesn't know what the second line of your profile says 
As others have said, there's also a nice number of nice people here but they are massively outgunned by the massively awful ones.
S |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab has taught us that whilst everyone is online bitching about not getting to meet people all the other people are in clubs fucking themselves senseless.
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Hahaha... definitely this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That there are more people on here who don't actually want to meet with anyone ever.
That the average bloke does know what all fifty plus of your pics look like but doesn't know what the second line of your profile says
As others have said, there's also a nice number of nice people here but they are massively outgunned by the massively awful ones.
S"
Sad fact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab has taught me that it is insane to take a website geared towards meeting people for sex seriously, and when you start getting angry about not getting meets its time to get off the internet. It has also taught me that what men think they want and what they actually want are two completely different things (I can't comment on women or couples, as I don't meet them).
Fab has also taught me about Fab-time, where every meet starts at least 30 mins after it was arranged for, and Fab-speak, where no-one means what they say. But it has also told me that people here are humans, with all their faults and features, and there are always lovely people around."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab has taught me that not everything that glitters is gold. You cannot polish a turd. Guys with tell you anything to get your knickers off. Full of fantasist and bullshitters. However saying that there are a few hidden gems and I have made some lovely friends "
Exactly this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab as taught us ,that some couples are vain and think of themselves as the posh and becks . Most single guys can only look at pictures and not read words . Swinging is like the lottery , your balls don't always win ,and you know next week you will be back in the game . |
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"Fab has taught me that not everything that glitters is gold. You cannot polish a turd. Guys with tell you anything to get your knickers off. Full of fantasist and bullshitters. However saying that there are a few hidden gems and I have made some lovely friends "
Couldn't agree more! Just wasted 2 weeks of my life chatting with a bullshitter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not been here that long tbh and only spoken to a couple of people ..But I will tell you this ...MEN cannot read !!.....ok so my inbox isn't busy but when it is it's men even though I state I'm straight ...so ladies I hear you ...come on guys stop letting the male of the species down here ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being genuine gets you nowhere if you want to meet people but will if you want to make online friends only.
The female to male ratio is awful. Therefore if you aren't good looking you aren't getting a reply.
Replies that are meet orientated are kind goldust "
Beauty is in the Eye of The Beholder
Mind ? Imagination ?
Humour ?
What Size are These
Proportionate to Lust & Friendship ?
Chin up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab has taught me that it is insane to take a website geared towards meeting people for sex seriously, and when you start getting angry about not getting meets its time to get off the internet. It has also taught me that what men think they want and what they actually want are two completely different things (I can't comment on women or couples, as I don't meet them).
Fab has also taught me about Fab-time, where every meet starts at least 30 mins after it was arranged for, and Fab-speak, where no-one means what they say. But it has also told me that people here are humans, with all their faults and features, and there are always lovely people around.
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Nobel Prize to you
What A Gent
Fab whingers !
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fab has taught me that it's not really any different to the real world....The people are the same, there's the good the bad and the ugly in similar proportions.
Your input is proportional to the output. Some days are great and some are crap. There are some who will help and support, then there are the others.
It's no different... Sometimes we just want it to be different....It's not if we're honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab has taught me that it's not really any different to the real world....The people are the same, there's the good the bad and the ugly in similar proportions.
Your input is proportional to the output. Some days are great and some are crap. There are some who will help and support, then there are the others.
It's no different... Sometimes we just want it to be different....It's not if we're honest. "
Sagely Wisdom
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being genuine gets you nowhere if you want to meet people but will if you want to make online friends only.
The female to male ratio is awful. Therefore if you aren't good looking you aren't getting a reply.
Replies that are meet orientated are kind goldust "
I must be stunning then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab has taught me to be proud of my sex drive....and I get hornier as I get older ....qnd there are lots of lovely people on here who genuinely meet for sexy experiences not always involving pentration.m x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fab has taught me that sex sites are not actually for sex! They are for occasionally talking about it and how everyone loves it so much but not actually doing it.
This site is full of timewasters and women who seem to have developed ridiculously high standards for the chiselled adonis with a 19 inch cock. The blame is probably not all theirs due to the excruciatingly high men to women ratio though.
Women also complain about how many men message them for sex, what one earth did they think was going to happen when they signed up to a sex site?! I think a bit of leniency on men on this site is called for.
There are, of course, exceptions to rules. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab has taught me that sex sites are not actually for sex! They are for occasionally talking about it and how everyone loves it so much but not actually doing it.
This site is full of timewasters and women who seem to have developed ridiculously high standards for the chiselled adonis with a 19 inch cock. The blame is probably not all theirs due to the excruciatingly high men to women ratio though.
Women also complain about how many men message them for sex, what one earth did they think was going to happen when they signed up to a sex site?! I think a bit of leniency on men on this site is called for.
There are, of course, exceptions to rules."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a swingers website which people seem to forget it'd not a free sex site.
I go to clubs and organisated social meets and I don't meet from this site full of timewasters etc.
Take this site with a pinch of salt not really worth getting your knickers in a twist for lol
P's o don't wear knickers prefer none specially on meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That all most men are tarred with the same brush, that most men appear to not read a profile, that being polite is better than having a cock pic, that discreet and discrete don't live on the same page and that I use the word that too often |
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Fab has taught me that 99% of guys who won't spend a few minutes reading a profile and another few minutes sending a message with a bit of effort are not worth meeting.
And fab has taught me that it's REALLY easy for single guys to stand out and get meets... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fab has taught me (or confirmed anyway) that most guys are idiots with a basic lack of manners, that the literacy standards in this country are horrendously poor and that despite all of this, that some of us kinks, perverts and sex mad nymphos are actually lovely people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The people in Fab has opened my eyes to a lot. And taught me more than I expected.
But fab isn't everything and all.
There's much to learn everywhere and with everyone.
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"Fab has taught me that 99% of guys who won't spend a few minutes reading a profile and another few minutes sending a message with a bit of effort are not worth meeting.
And fab has taught me that it's REALLY easy for single guys to stand out and get meets... "
*some..... |
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"Being genuine gets you nowhere if you want to meet people but will if you want to make online friends only.
The female to male ratio is awful. Therefore if you aren't good looking you aren't getting a reply.
Replies that are meet orientated are kind goldust "
It's taught me that peepettes you wouldn't give a second glance if you saw them on the street are almost revered as Deities when on here over a few well put together pix.Not saying there aren't any proper hotties on here as there are but most of the 9's and up on here are 4's in the harsh reality of everyday life. |
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