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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just saw someone I know, who is a friend of a friend. Not sure whether to tell them we know them or maybe chat a bit more to see if meet would be possible, what you think? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im presuming you mean youve seen a profile on here of a person you recognise ...
..... tread carefully at first .. not everyone is open about being on fab  "
Know what you mean but their face pics are not hidden. |
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"Im presuming you mean youve seen a profile on here of a person you recognise ...
..... tread carefully at first .. not everyone is open about being on fab Know what you mean but their face pics are not hidden."
Doesn't mean they want someone from their real life contacting them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just saw someone I know, who is a friend of a friend. Not sure whether to tell them we know them or maybe chat a bit more to see if meet would be possible, what you think?"
There really is only one way to find out. It's a decision you will have to make
Sorry for being no help at all! x |
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Depends how into them you are? Tbh I'd be very wary as if there open enough to post there face pics they may be open to others about there lifestyle IE people u may also know.
Tread carefully as it's not always best to shit on your doorstep  |
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We don't advertise as such to every 1 we are swingers yet we get messages off random people saying they know us. We politely say they have got it wrong but we don't meet locals and thanks any ways for the interest. But people don't take subtle hints. We had 1 young lad saying he helped fit a bedroom window in our house a couple of years ago and knew where 1 of our sons work. Wether they are correct or not. They should take the subtle hint lol lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just saw someone I know, who is a friend of a friend. Not sure whether to tell them we know them or maybe chat a bit more to see if meet would be possible, what you think?"
If youre going to say you know them make it very clear who you are right away.
Because the whole "i know you" thing when they dont know who you are is super creepy and uncomfortable. |
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"Just saw someone I know, who is a friend of a friend. Not sure whether to tell them we know them or maybe chat a bit more to see if meet would be possible, what you think?"
Not someone I really knew but I was persuaded by a guy on here and to cut a very long story short turned out he was a bf of a tgirl I wasn't aware of who lived in same street ,spooky eh lol  |
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"What if I know say a very close neighbour, who I don't think knows I know..."
I always think if we're not interested in meeting them or they wouldn't be interested in meeting us discretion is the best option. |
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"Im presuming you mean youve seen a profile on here of a person you recognise ...
..... tread carefully at first .. not everyone is open about being on fab Know what you mean but their face pics are not hidden.
Doesn't mean they want someone from their real life contacting them."
sorry just got to say
this is real life .. we only have one ..
if people want to be secretive that's their choice
but we are not living some quantum leap ..
if you are on here its who you are it is real unless you dobt meet then it's a fantasy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just saw someone I know, who is a friend of a friend. Not sure whether to tell them we know them or maybe chat a bit more to see if meet would be possible, what you think?"
Really wishing it was me  |
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We would avoid them, personally. For us swinging and 'real life' are two different worlds. Meeting someone who is linked to everyday life wouldn't be right for us.
But, it depends how you feel about that. Also consider how the person you have spotted might feel about it. |
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I try and keep my worlds seperate. Say something happen while swinging that colours your view of them.....how do you explain the fact you're a bit stand-offish, to your mutual friend?
I once had a friend off here bump into me in a work context. Her friend who was with her was very keen to know why this apparent stranger and her were like best mates! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Myself personally would block them and move on. I'd be horrified (and frankly shit myself!) if somebody recognised me on here from real life. "
^ this, the only caveat being that if you know them well enough to know their sexual preferences then maybe contact them |
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"Just saw someone I know, who is a friend of a friend. Not sure whether to tell them we know them or maybe chat a bit more to see if meet would be possible, what you think?"
Personally in these sort of situations I feel discretion is the better part of valour. |
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By *unisfunMan
over a year ago
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many years ago i had spent a few weeks chatting online with a couple, we had arranged to meet at a club at the weekend, i arrived at the club first and decided to jump in the hot tub after about 10 minutes the male half of the couple stuck his head round the door and introduced himself, shortly after that both him and his wife joined me in the hot tub, the second i saw her i thought she looked familiar then after chatting for a bit it turned out she was the lollipop lady at my daughters school (she was only 40 before any one asks lol) it did gove us all a giggle when we relieased didnt stop us playing thou  lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just found out that someone I'm very distantly related to is on here. "
My Nephew is on here..
Turned on who's near while staying with my sister and up he pops.... quick hide profile 
He was logged in and upstairs  |
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pay rise for you haha x
