So 2017 hasn't been a good start dating wise.
Most my messages on fab get read and deleted besides being tailored and not copy and paste.
I've used some vanilla dating sites where I've swapped numbers with a few women where we speak most days.. one randomly blocked me on the day of meeting, the other messaged on day of meet saying sorry I've met someone else.
It's all pretty frustrating especially as I'm not one of those men who messages everyone with a pulse.
I'm bored of being single but seem to be getting nowhere
What to do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So 2017 hasn't been a good start dating wise.
Most my messages on fab get read and deleted besides being tailored and not copy and paste.
I've used some vanilla dating sites where I've swapped numbers with a few women where we speak most days.. one randomly blocked me on the day of meeting, the other messaged on day of meet saying sorry I've met someone else.
It's all pretty frustrating especially as I'm not one of those men who messages everyone with a pulse.
I'm bored of being single but seem to be getting nowhere
What to do?"
join my club xx exactly the same x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try meeting people in real life away from the internet, strike up conversations with women at work, the gym, a bar or even the tube and see how it goes.
Things happen when you least expect it so go out and enjoy life, try new hobbies and maybe the rest will all fall into place. |
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Hey pretty boy
Your trying too hard mate
You really are
I can tell you how you will meet someone
Trust me
Chances are you won't do this
But if you do
And after 6 months you haven't met anyone then come back to me
Right
Go and do some voluntary work
Start searching for opportunities in your area that need volunteers
And you will be rewarded with love and romance |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So 2017 hasn't been a good start dating wise.
Most my messages on fab get read and deleted besides being tailored and not copy and paste.
I've used some vanilla dating sites where I've swapped numbers with a few women where we speak most days.. one randomly blocked me on the day of meeting, the other messaged on day of meet saying sorry I've met someone else.
It's all pretty frustrating especially as I'm not one of those men who messages everyone with a pulse.
I'm bored of being single but seem to be getting nowhere
What to do?"
Not just you!! I'm taking the chance to just have some fun for the moment and stop looking so hard, it saves the disappointment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dude, have you actually looked at your profile picture. Theres probably a good amount of self conscious girls running a mile just because of your body. They won't stop to read your profile if you call yourself pretty boy and put model esque shots up, regardless of whether or not you say you like pawgs.
You'll get attention at clubs though, as you can actually look interested in them face to face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you really want to meet someone to be in a relationship with then don't rely on t'interweb.
Get out into the real world and start actually talking and flirting with people  "
That sounds way too scary.. |
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"Dude, have you actually looked at your profile picture. Theres probably a good amount of self conscious girls running a mile just because of your body. They won't stop to read your profile if you call yourself pretty boy and put model esque shots up"
I was just about to make the same point. Your profile screams 'I'm gorgeous and I know it'. It's the classic 'hot girl' problem where no one approaches them because they're so good looking they just assume they'll get turned down. And then a less attractive guy tries it on with the hot girl and she jumps at the chance because she doesn't get approached. 
If you were a woman on here you'd get a million dick pics and 'wanna fuck?' messages but not many meets.
Your strength lies in meeting people in person without them having had chance to see you as out of their league online. Go to clubs or socials instead of messaging on here. |
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You're a good looking man so that's not the problem. I have a couple of single woman friends who have the same problem you do. They don't mix outside of work, gym and their female friends so effectively fish in a very limited pond.
I think a possible solution is to extend your social life somehow. Voluntary work has been suggested which is a great idea but not everyone's cup of tea, if you have an interest maybe join a club dedicated to that, evening classes all the old cliched suggestions.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dude, have you actually looked at your profile picture. Theres probably a good amount of self conscious girls running a mile just because of your body. They won't stop to read your profile if you call yourself pretty boy and put model esque shots up, regardless of whether or not you say you like pawgs.
You'll get attention at clubs though, as you can actually look interested in them face to face. "
Agree . If anyone messages me looking like a fitness model then I'd instantly delete. It's nothing personal, but I couldn't do a meet worrying about wobbly and dimply bits the entire time.
However if we'd chatted face to face, and you aren't the stereotype that instantly flashes up whenever I see a hot bod, then much more likely to want to meet.
Definitely give clubs or meets a try, I have no doubt you wouldn't be short of attention x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Read different profiles.
Stop getting hung up on the ones that aren't looking for someone like you. Because they aren't looking for someone like you.
Go to a yoga class (packed with women,) strike up a conversation with someone and invite them for a coffee in Costa.
Then show them a picture of your dick on your smartphone. If they haven't dropped their knickers within ten minutes, I'm a monkeys' uncle. |
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"Read different profiles.
Stop getting hung up on the ones that aren't looking for someone like you. Because they aren't looking for someone like you.
Go to a yoga class (packed with women,) strike up a conversation with someone and invite them for a coffee in Costa.
Then show them a picture of your dick on your smartphone. If they haven't dropped their knickers within ten minutes, I'm a monkeys' uncle."
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"This is a swingers site...not a dating one. If you're looking to find a partner get your butt down to a club or bar. Good luck "
I found my partner through the scene. Not fab directly but at a swinging club. You can find love in oh so many places |
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