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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do you singles vanilla date after fab ? I'm suspicious over everything any guy tells me , I'm always honest and I must be so gullible to think that guys do too, but how do you tell ? |
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"How do you singles vanilla date after fab ? I'm suspicious over everything any guy tells me , I'm always honest and I must be so gullible to think that guys do too, but how do you tell ? "
Does he love me I wanna know
How can I tell if he loves me so
Is it in his eyes?
Oh no you'll be deceived
Is it in his eyes?
Oh no he'll make believe
If you wanna know if he loves you so
It's in his kiss
That's where it is
Or is it in his face?
Oh no it's just his charms
In his warm embrace?
Oh no that's just his arms
If you wanna know if he loves you so
It's in his kiss
That's where it is
Woah It's in his kiss
That's where it is
Woah hug him and squeeze him tight
Find out what you want to know
If it's love if it really is
It's there in his kiss
How 'bout the way he acts?
Oh no that's not the way
And you're not listenin' to all I said
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Honesty is the best policy.
Which is ironic, because when I lay my freak cards down, and mention my swinging experiences, some assume I can't stop and will be shagging anyone I can.
If I didn't reveal it, it would be easier to get away with cheating, if I wanted to.
Last girlfriend was fine with my past, then suggested we go to a bdsm munch.
So that was good. We split up over something else. |
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"How did you date before fab ? Xxxx Suzi " I didn't was together 20 years and married 13 years still swinging as a couple first time single since I was 17 |
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"Honesty is the best policy.
Which is ironic, because when I lay my freak cards down, and mention my swinging experiences, some assume I can't stop and will be shagging anyone I can.
If I didn't reveal it, it would be easier to get away with cheating, if I wanted to.
Last girlfriend was fine with my past, then suggested we go to a bdsm munch.
So that was good. We split up over something else." always faithful in marriage and never cheated it's not me that needs to be honest, some just think they have to lie to get anywhere |
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I've always been honest about my swinging. In fact, two partners have gotten into it because of my experiences!
The first one I ended it because she cheated, and the second... Well, she's been putting up with me for over 7 years now!
Honesty is always the best policy. You never know, great things may come from it |
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"How do you singles vanilla date after fab ? I'm suspicious over everything any guy tells me , I'm always honest and I must be so gullible to think that guys do too, but how do you tell ? "
What you mean after fab ? You are here right? People here have feelings like anybody else!you think any less of you? I don't! X |
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"How do you singles vanilla date after fab ? I'm suspicious over everything any guy tells me , I'm always honest and I must be so gullible to think that guys do too, but how do you tell ?
What you mean after fab ? You are here right? People here have feelings like anybody else!you think any less of you? I don't! X" I mean iv never dated only swung , suppose I'm trying to find my worth . Am I happy just swinging/casual sex thing ? |
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Was going to post a topic about Vanilla dates.
Had one blind vanilla date last night.
After being set up by a female friend, she passed on my nr. We texted for 4 days. If he'd been on fab he'd been told not interested after the 3rd message. He uses awful text language, I asked him nicely several times not to. Still did. So after working all day. I made an effort. Dressed nice.did my hair.bandaged up my badly cut fingers. Drove 25 min.I was told he is very good looking. A catch. Wanted to make my own opinion. So I thought okay maybe not a stallion (she said it not me) but a thoroughbred. Nervous. Could hardly talk. Goat came to mind. After 30-45 min I just wanted to leave. Told him nicely not interested. Broke his heart. He was nearly begging. I am not kidding. I know I sound cold and not nice. I am not. Don't know if fab has spoiled me or if my standards have changed. |
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"Was going to post a topic about Vanilla dates.
Had one blind vanilla date last night.
After being set up by a female friend, she passed on my nr. We texted for 4 days. If he'd been on fab he'd been told not interested after the 3rd message. He uses awful text language, I asked him nicely several times not to. Still did. So after working all day. I made an effort. Dressed nice.did my hair.bandaged up my badly cut fingers. Drove 25 min.I was told he is very good looking. A catch. Wanted to make my own opinion. So I thought okay maybe not a stallion (she said it not me) but a thoroughbred. Nervous. Could hardly talk. Goat came to mind. After 30-45 min I just wanted to leave. Told him nicely not interested. Broke his heart. He was nearly begging. I am not kidding. I know I sound cold and not nice. I am not. Don't know if fab has spoiled me or if my standards have changed. "
No good pretending ....I've had vanilla dates like that..as soon as you see them you know it's not going to work and you wish the floor would open up and take you..... |
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"Was going to post a topic about Vanilla dates.
Had one blind vanilla date last night.
After being set up by a female friend, she passed on my nr. We texted for 4 days. If he'd been on fab he'd been told not interested after the 3rd message. He uses awful text language, I asked him nicely several times not to. Still did. So after working all day. I made an effort. Dressed nice.did my hair.bandaged up my badly cut fingers. Drove 25 min.I was told he is very good looking. A catch. Wanted to make my own opinion. So I thought okay maybe not a stallion (she said it not me) but a thoroughbred. Nervous. Could hardly talk. Goat came to mind. After 30-45 min I just wanted to leave. Told him nicely not interested. Broke his heart. He was nearly begging. I am not kidding. I know I sound cold and not nice. I am not. Don't know if fab has spoiled me or if my standards have changed. "
Does fab have to be the reason? Before fab would you have dated someone you felt no spark with? Surely, whether it's a fab meet or a vanilla date it all comes down to chemistry initially? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was going to post a topic about Vanilla dates.
Had one blind vanilla date last night.
After being set up by a female friend, she passed on my nr. We texted for 4 days. If he'd been on fab he'd been told not interested after the 3rd message. He uses awful text language, I asked him nicely several times not to. Still did. So after working all day. I made an effort. Dressed nice.did my hair.bandaged up my badly cut fingers. Drove 25 min.I was told he is very good looking. A catch. Wanted to make my own opinion. So I thought okay maybe not a stallion (she said it not me) but a thoroughbred. Nervous. Could hardly talk. Goat came to mind. After 30-45 min I just wanted to leave. Told him nicely not interested. Broke his heart. He was nearly begging. I am not kidding. I know I sound cold and not nice. I am not. Don't know if fab has spoiled me or if my standards have changed.
Does fab have to be the reason? Before fab would you have dated someone you felt no spark with? Surely, whether it's a fab meet or a vanilla date it all comes down to chemistry initially?"
To be very honest before fab Yes I would have dated him. I find fab has taught me a few things about myself. Good and bad. |
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