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Not so much interaction, whats the catch?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Im finding it quite hard to get a reply from single ladies on here.. I understand that there will be alot of competition with young single guys but most ladies don't even tend to open? unless its the bi male half of a couple

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Whats the catch? Is there a secret codeword that I dont know :S Are single guys just not desirable

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im finding it quite hard to get a reply from single ladies on here.. I understand that there will be alot of competition with young single guys but most ladies don't even tend to open? unless its the bi male half of a couple

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Whats the catch? Is there a secret codeword that I dont know :S Are single guys just not desirable"
Single guys considered lowest of the low. Man up an get to a club easy to obtain veris there. You only get out of this what you put in. Takes patience, hardworking, an outgoing personality to be a successful single guy on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Whats the catch? Is there a secret codeword that I dont know :S Are single guys just not desirable Single guys considered lowest of the low. Man up an get to a club easy to obtain veris there. You only get out of this what you put in. Takes patience, hardworking, an outgoing personality to be a successful single guy on here. "

pretty much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

I'll correct that for you. SOME single guys are considered the lowest of the low. Many of them are lovely chaps. It's simple supply and demand, the supply far outstrips the demand so woman and couples can afford to cherry pick the best.

Just go to the club OP, we were all first timers once.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Just go to the club OP, we were all first timers once.

"
No I still beg to differ you can stand out more as a respectful, successful single guy but you are still lowest of the low in the swinging hierarchy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

True I suppose when you say supply on demand as I can imagine there are tons of single guys on here. Suppose ill have to delve into a local club and earn myself some veris

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

I never thought of that, just spat out my lunch.. so thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

I never thought of that, just spat out my lunch.. so thank you

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

I never thought of that, just spat out my lunch.. so thank you

Sorry

You nasty

I will take the name change into consideration for sure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

I thought the exact same thing!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

I never thought of that, just spat out my lunch.. so thank you

Sorry

You nasty

I will take the name change into consideration for sure

I bet many more thought the same, me included

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

I never thought of that, just spat out my lunch.. so thank you

Sorry

You nasty

I will take the name change into consideration for sure

I bet many more thought the same, me included"

Ouch, Many must have thought that king bummer was looking to slay his prey. Hmm now to find a new name..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

I never thought of that, just spat out my lunch.. so thank you

Sorry

You nasty

I will take the name change into consideration for sure

I bet many more thought the same, me included

Ouch, Many must have thought that king bummer was looking to slay his prey. Hmm now to find a new name.."

not quite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

I never thought of that, just spat out my lunch.. so thank you

Sorry

You nasty

I will take the name change into consideration for sure

I bet many more thought the same, me included

Ouch, Many must have thought that king bummer was looking to slay his prey. Hmm now to find a new name.."
Tanned dick?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

I never thought of that, just spat out my lunch.. so thank you

Sorry

You nasty

I will take the name change into consideration for sure

I bet many more thought the same, me included

Ouch, Many must have thought that king bummer was looking to slay his prey. Hmm now to find a new name..

not quite

Ok maybe a little worse then what I said

just glad and humbled that you kind ladies were honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

I never thought of that, just spat out my lunch.. so thank you

Sorry

You nasty

I will take the name change into consideration for sure

I bet many more thought the same, me included

Ouch, Many must have thought that king bummer was looking to slay his prey. Hmm now to find a new name.. Tanned dick?

St. Tropez Dick - That'll rub off for sure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

I never thought of that, just spat out my lunch.. so thank you

Sorry

You nasty

I will take the name change into consideration for sure

I bet many more thought the same, me included

Ouch, Many must have thought that king bummer was looking to slay his prey. Hmm now to find a new name.. Tanned dick?

St. Tropez Dick - That'll rub off for sure"

Or..you know.. not mention your dick at all? That could work

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Or..you know.. not mention your dick at all? That could work

Oh I quite like this concept

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or..you know.. not mention your dick at all? That could work

Oh I quite like this concept

"
having a memorable name is good, think of films etc try to come up with 1 that you can relate or suits you.

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By *loria JamesTV/TS over a year ago

Durham

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

Pmsl xx

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

I thought the same thing

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By *exatooCouple over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

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By *heaspieswingerMan over a year ago

Peak District

Tonight's film stars Bill Murray, and will be endlessly repeated forever...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

I never thought of that, just spat out my lunch.. so thank you

Sorry

You nasty

I will take the name change into consideration for sure

I bet many more thought the same, me included"

And me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

I never thought of that, just spat out my lunch.. so thank you

Sorry

You nasty

I will take the name change into consideration for sure

I bet many more thought the same, me included

And me. "

Its abit of a shocking revelation tbh. Never did I think

Never mind, my 2 fav films are shaft and in too deep, its all relevant

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Off putting username, first line of the profile is negative.

Blocked single guys but then has to talk about gay guys.

No veris, yes we can see that.

It's a boring profile with negative overtones and all I could see that you have to offer is that you want to talk about yourself

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Never mind, my 2 fav films are shaft and in too deep, its all relevant

Relevant because we're expected to know your two favourite films?

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Whats the catch? Is there a secret codeword that I dont know :S Are single guys just not desirable"

If I were not getting to meet attractive people from here but was successful "offline" only, then that is where I'd remain. Why would anyone want to get frustrated by doing the exact opposite?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Whats the catch? Is there a secret codeword that I dont know :S Are single guys just not desirable

If I were not getting to meet attractive people from here but was successful "offline" only, then that is where I'd remain. Why would anyone want to get frustrated by doing the exact opposite?"
Oh come on you know that's what they all say

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Whats the catch? Is there a secret codeword that I dont know :S Are single guys just not desirable

Now you've spoilt it. I was waiting for a BS reason

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Whats the catch? Is there a secret codeword that I dont know :S Are single guys just not desirable

Now you've spoilt it. I was waiting for a BS reason"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Purely because I'm curious.....you say you've got your own accommodation, but you've ticked that you can't/won't accommodate? Which is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Whats the catch? Is there a secret codeword that I dont know :S Are single guys just not desirable

Now you've spoilt it. I was waiting for a BS reason"

Criticism welcomed, I have thick skin

why would anyone want to be a part of the fabswingers community ? Is it because you are not so successful offline? I doubt it as I see you are a good looking and charismatic group of people which I would like to eventually be a part of. So the point of your response im not so sure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Whats the catch? Is there a secret codeword that I dont know :S Are single guys just not desirable

Now you've spoilt it. I was waiting for a BS reason

Criticism welcomed, I have thick skin

"
forget her she is a troublemaker that 1

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Whats the catch? Is there a secret codeword that I dont know :S Are single guys just not desirable

Now you've spoilt it. I was waiting for a BS reason

Criticism welcomed, I have thick skin

Yep, that is me.

Nobody gives me the the time of day "offline". You on the other hand are much in demand in the 'out there' but aren't getting a look in 'ere; so why, oh why?

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Whats the catch? Is there a secret codeword that I dont know :S Are single guys just not desirable

Now you've spoilt it. I was waiting for a BS reason

Criticism welcomed, I have thick skin

forget her she is a troublemaker that 1

Shhhhh

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Purely because I'm curious.....you say you've got your own accommodation, but you've ticked that you can't/won't accommodate? Which is it? "

I can and changed it, im a full time parent also so will that in the profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Whats the catch? Is there a secret codeword that I dont know :S Are single guys just not desirable

Now you've spoilt it. I was waiting for a BS reason

Criticism welcomed, I have thick skin

forget her she is a troublemaker that 1

Noticed at first sight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Whats the catch? Is there a secret codeword that I dont know :S Are single guys just not desirable"

If as, your opening post says, it is single ladies you want, you probably will find it hard-going on this site, largely because there are too many men to go round. I've said on many of my posts that's mathematically it's not possible for every punter to get lucky. However a lot of guys say they find more one-on-one sex from casual dating sites, as opposed to a swinging site. This is presumably because the ratios are more reasonable on a dating site. If however you are on this site because you are interested in swinging, for example threesomes, orgies, sex parties, then your best bet is to get yourself known and build up your experience. It's quite hard for a single man to penetrate the swing scene, and very few really understand what it's about.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Just go to the club OP, we were all first timers once.

No I still beg to differ you can stand out more as a respectful, successful single guy but you are still lowest of the low in the swinging hierarchy. "

We don't think so. The type of single guys that I like to play with are most certainly not the lowest of the low. They are the most important feature at a party, and without a decent single guy who understands swing etiquette then I probably won't get to play.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Just go to the club OP, we were all first timers once.

No I still beg to differ you can stand out more as a respectful, successful single guy but you are still lowest of the low in the swinging hierarchy.

Mrs"
No women are most important at a party surely! I think you are a bit biased but I respect your opinion. I have been a successful single guy infact you winked my other profile but it has gone against me and I've had some bad experiences unfair treatment which would not of happened if it wasn't for the fact I am a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I would...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Just go to the club OP, we were all first timers once.

No I still beg to differ you can stand out more as a respectful, successful single guy but you are still lowest of the low in the swinging hierarchy.

Mrs No women are most important at a party surely! I think you are a bit biased but I respect your opinion. I have been a successful single guy infact you winked my other profile but it has gone against me and I've had some bad experiences unfair treatment which would not of happened if it wasn't for the fact I am a single guy."

The men are the most important ones for me at a club or party. They're the only ones I am interested in meeting in those situations.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Just go to the club OP, we were all first timers once.

No I still beg to differ you can stand out more as a respectful, successful single guy but you are still lowest of the low in the swinging hierarchy.

The men are the most important ones for me at a club or party. They're the only ones I am interested in meeting in those situations."
Women attract the men to go though. Unless it's a gay bar.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Just go to the club OP, we were all first timers once.

No I still beg to differ you can stand out more as a respectful, successful single guy but you are still lowest of the low in the swinging hierarchy.

It wasn't an opinion. It is a fact - we prefer single guys. I agree that most couples play with couples and ladies and only occasionally single men.

No idea who you are, but we very rarely wink, so you must have looked good,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Just go to the club OP, we were all first timers once.

No I still beg to differ you can stand out more as a respectful, successful single guy but you are still lowest of the low in the swinging hierarchy.

It wasn't an opinion. It is a fact - we prefer single guys. I agree that most couples play with couples and ladies and only occasionally single men.

No idea who you are, but we very rarely wink, so you must have looked good, "
No it's not a fact, women are the draw. Yeah I like to think so, just distance and interests

I'll pm you my name so you can see I always tell the truth even when I lie.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Just go to the club OP, we were all first timers once.

No I still beg to differ you can stand out more as a respectful, successful single guy but you are still lowest of the low in the swinging hierarchy.

It wasn't an opinion. It is a fact - we prefer single guys. I agree that most couples play with couples and ladies and only occasionally single men.

No idea who you are, but we very rarely wink, so you must have looked good, "
scratched that you would have to pm me if you wanna know it won't let me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Just go to the club OP, we were all first timers once.

No I still beg to differ you can stand out more as a respectful, successful single guy but you are still lowest of the low in the swinging hierarchy.

It wasn't an opinion. It is a fact - we prefer single guys. I agree that most couples play with couples and ladies and only occasionally single men.

No idea who you are, but we very rarely wink, so you must have looked good, No it's not a fact, women are the draw. Yeah I like to think so, just distance and interests

I'll pm you my name so you can see I always tell the truth even when I lie."

I meant what I said about myself and my husband was a fact not an opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've quite alot of text on my profile, don't have a problem offline as im tall and handsome..

no veris yet but have to start somewhere?

I'm not quite brave enough to go to a club until i've a few meets on here.

Just go to the club OP, we were all first timers once.

No I still beg to differ you can stand out more as a respectful, successful single guy but you are still lowest of the low in the swinging hierarchy.

It wasn't an opinion. It is a fact - we prefer single guys. I agree that most couples play with couples and ladies and only occasionally single men.

No idea who you are, but we very rarely wink, so you must have looked good, No it's not a fact, women are the draw. Yeah I like to think so, just distance and interests

I'll pm you my name so you can see I always tell the truth even when I lie.

I meant what I said about myself and my husband was a fact not an opinion. "
Sorry, read it wrong. Not even occasionally with some though like trying to get blood out of a stone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 01/02/17 22:36:33]

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

haha apart from the name and the line that says you have a degreee in oral i think you just need to get out to a social and meet some - mcr socials happen often and check the meets lists - people often in town for a drink and a night out - a couple of verifications of that sort wouldnt go against you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women attract the men to go though. Unless it's a gay bar."

And the women wouldn't be there without the men. If only women were there, they wouldn't spontaneously turn into lesbians.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women attract the men to go though. Unless it's a gay bar.

And the women wouldn't be there without the men. If only women were there, they wouldn't spontaneously turn into lesbians."
are you sure

nearly every woman in this swinging is bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

At risk of being slated

Any ideas on names? i've come to a sticky point..

Dick Turpin

Nice guy

hmm.

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By *ucyfur77Woman over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Your user name doesn't exactly work in your favour either sorry, maybe try a new one?

Is what it says on the tin

First thing it made me think was that you were over enthusiastic with the anal

Yeah any username that makes my face go

is not great

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You will find, OP, that many people will look at your profile before they even consider reading your message.

If they aren't impressed with what they see, they may either delete it with or without reading it, or simply ignore it, leaving it sitting there in their inbox.

Many have advised / suggested that you don't look at your 'sent items' folder to avoid disappointment, but that, of course, is entirely up to you.

Now you may, or may not, be aware that there is the option of browsing in 'stealth mode'. In other words, you can opt to be able to look at others profiles without showing up in 'Looked at me'

There is also the option, when reading a message, of marking it as unread once you have read it.

With all of this said, my advice to you would be to not dwell on those who aren't receptive to you (ignore your messages etc) and focus more on those who you are most likely to appeal to.

I haven't looked at your profile, since you haven't specifically asked for profile critique / advice - and unless you do so, we aren't permitted to provide any (under forum rules), though one thing I would say is to ask yourself if your profile is the best that it can possibly be.

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