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By *lwaysup4it69 OP Couple over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

This is mainly for those who like bareback sex on meets. What was it that made you decide to play bare?

For us it was something we decided from the start. Both love the feeling of bare sex. Janine loves cum being shot inside her pussy and arse. We have never used protection together, and decided that's the way we wanted to play when we joined the lifestyle

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By *awtymarkyMan over a year ago

chester

"This is mainly for those who like bareback sex on meets. What was it that made you decide to play bare?

For me the first time was by accident where a social led from one thing to another with a couple. Also was my first time feeling a creampie which felt amazing.

I do enjoy feeling the wetness around me not too mention the sensation when it leaking out all over you.

Hope to meet you both one day

Mark

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I realised fairly early on that sex with a condom just left me feeling flat - no matter how good it was.

Hard to explain, but it's the emotional side of it, knowing that I've been filled, and that I'm going home with someone's cum inside my belly... whichever hole gets to receive it...

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By *.1079Man over a year ago

caistor

I'm not into bare sex last time boo boo went off his tits went he caught me fucking yogy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some are elergic to condom others the feel of when it squirts inside

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to admit, I hate wearing condoms. Bareback is my default preference everytime.

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By *uicy jonesMan over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

I prefer it , feels more natural , but it's not to everyone's taste

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fuck yeah x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer it but my fwb and I play bare and am not willing to put him at risk, let alone me, so anybody else I play with has to wrap up and he does when he plays with others too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to agree there is nothing that beats the feeling of bare. But I only do bare with trusted partners.

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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i hate condoms. might as well be fucking a carrier bag.

i'm pretty much only up for no penetration now, don't want to risk myself with genital STIs.

thing is, warts and herpes can be passed on using condoms. so i reckon most people have got those anyway. main reason why i'm not doing penetrative sex. but if i was i reckon most people have got this stuff anyway...seems obvious to me.

other diseases, well i'll take my chances and be very selective about who i have penetrative sex with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You will always get some that bareback is irresponsible and some that will always enjoy it. As far as we are concerned everyone has the right to choose. Yes we have played bare with 2 couples who we trust but the rest of the time it's safer.

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By *pl28indCouple over a year ago

glasgow

What ever you do actual touch of a skin, the warmth you get when you feel the warm pussy juice flowing on your cock is not something you will ever be able to replace.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can I just say as a woman who plays bare often and never had an std btw (luck maybe) that most guys you think wrap up don't, lots I've seen says safe sex is a must blah blah....just be aware most lie lol

But each to their own

To answer your question it is probably the naughtiest thing you can do , let somebody cum in you, that's probably why I love it so much.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't go bareback all the time, only with people I am in a relationship with.

There is a such a difference in experience when you use a condom. You do lose a lot of sensation, it takes a lot longer for me to cum.

Going bareback you get all the friction of skin on skin. Also, I like the feeling of warmth on my cock when I am inside a partner.

Real sex should be messy, it's part of the pleasure. I like seeing my spunk oozing out of an orifice after a good fuck.

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By *irty-milfCouple over a year ago

edinburgh

We love it too. We don't play bareback every time but to be honest the most sensational sexual experiences ALL were bareback.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My partner and I go bareback and we both love it!

He loves to fill me up and I love to be filled up

I just love having him shoot his load deep inside me! I want to feel him, not a condom.....

I am on contraception though

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By *cotbbtopMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"I have to admit, I hate wearing condoms. Bareback is my default preference everytime. "

Same here

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

Condoms are a little bit of a spoiler for me. Things feel far more intense, intimate and hot bare back. But sadly on a practical note safety trumps. I have a duty to keep my self and others I play with disease free. Also I love the kids I got but don't want anymore (although as soon as I get time I will be heading for the snip). So bareback is only something I do with people I know well and truly trust. But yes bareback is by far the best.

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By *allenangeluk1Couple over a year ago

Chorley

Hell yes. the only way we want to do it.

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By *est_Mids_Nice_GuyMan over a year ago

willenhall

I once was so turned on and relaxed with a meet that thinks got out of control fast. One minute we were kissing the next I was kneeling between between her legs with my cock resting on her pussy.

We both practised safe sex but there was something different that night. It was like an animal urge and we ended up going bare. It was the best fuck of my life and when I eventually cum deep inside her the went into a frenzy of orgasms

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've always used condoms but did have a meet with a couple that was meant to of been a social meet we all hit it off and we ended up playing no one had condoms and a secret fantasy of ours was to try bareback. We both enjoyed that meet more than any others. Yes we've been tested and all clean. We have often talked about it and thought about doing it again. It suited us more as mrs gets very dry with condoms and mr struggles to keep a hard on. But get worried about doing it again due to people's attitude towards bareback and also worried about sti's

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By *iscreet UnicornWoman over a year ago

Windsor-ish

We never ever play bare other than with each other but we are a married couple so it would feel wrong.

My question is this; If you play bare usually, would having to use condoms prevent you from meeting someone?

I ask because I was invited to play with someone who plays bare all the time and when i said no thanks i play safe the person got a bit shitty with me...

Wifey xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some will some don't. Just like the other way round or like couples / women meeting guys that are bi or turn out to be bi.

If someone gets shitty block and move on is my motto

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By *uddyandhouseCouple over a year ago

liverpool

We do either. Prefer bare but don't turn people away just because they want to use condoms. Unless your profile states bareback only then I think it's a bit shitty that someone gets a bit shitty lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some will some don't. Just like the other way round or like couples / women meeting guys that are bi or turn out to be bi.

If someone gets shitty block and move on is my motto "

Nice to see you back

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By *iscreet UnicornWoman over a year ago

Windsor-ish

Yeah i must admit i am becoming fond of the old block button lol

I do totally agree i much prefer the feeling of bareback which is why my husband and i dont use condoms so i totally understand others prefering it.

Thanks for answering my question peeps xx

Wifey xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't mind it. I used to have a mate called mowgli who used to have a fb called baloo. Me and mowgli used to takes turns going up in baloo bare

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By *baanymoreMan over a year ago

fife/Coatbridge/glasgow

For me it's being allergic to latex and got used to having sex with females bare and feels sooo much better love the rush u get from it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have always gone bare with each other & also with others. We much prefer the feeling.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS over a year ago

Bristol

Bare just feels so much better...

Feekiny someone cum inside you or cumming inside someone when bare just feels lush... And you connect so much more while bare... No doubt.

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By *ekneCouple over a year ago

London

Only bareback for us. The feeling is much better and we cant like the smell and the taste of condom.

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By *baanymoreMan over a year ago

fife/Coatbridge/glasgow

Anyone up for a bareback meet love to feel a tight hole on my cock makes it feel amazing mail me if up for it love eating pussy before finger fucking it and then fucking it xxxx

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

I only go bare with my fwb. Everyone else it's condoms.

Agree the feeling is lush when bare, more feeling and a closer connection

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Since I was castrated I struggle to be hard enough for penetrative sex,however when play with fb or in mmf bareback as I love eating cream pie.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is a fantasy that I'm finding hard to fulfil. My friend and I would like to try a couple of scenarios. I.e. Me arriving at his with a pussy full of cum. Or him dropping me somewhere. Waiting. Then driving me home feeling cum. But I really don't know where to start finding someone. That

A - appeals

B - likes fucks and go

C - bare backs

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By *lwaysup4it69 OP Couple over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"This is a fantasy that I'm finding hard to fulfil. My friend and I would like to try a couple of scenarios. I.e. Me arriving at his with a pussy full of cum. Or him dropping me somewhere. Waiting. Then driving me home feeling cum. But I really don't know where to start finding someone. That

A - appeals

B - likes fucks and go

C - bare backs "

B and C should be easy to find on here x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A - appeals

B - likes fucks and go

C - bare backs

B and C should be easy to find on here x"

I think b & c are what I'm finding difficult. Mainly because of me lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We love bareback with trusted couples. Maximum pleasure and it's just a waste of Cum if it just ends up in a condom x

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By *lwaysup4it69 OP Couple over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

A - appeals

B - likes fucks and go

C - bare backs

B and C should be easy to find on here x

I think b & c are what I'm finding difficult. Mainly because of me lol. "

Trust me bareback with a stranger is amazing x

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By *LCCCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

we always play bare together

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By *baanymoreMan over a year ago

fife/Coatbridge/glasgow

A - appeals

B - likes fucks and go

C - bare backs "

Sounds good to me

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By *awtymarkyMan over a year ago

chester

Trust me bareback with a stranger is amazing x"

Even better when your topping up on another load

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A - appeals

B - likes fucks and go

C - bare backs

B and C should be easy to find on here x

I think b & c are what I'm finding difficult. Mainly because of me lol. "

Surprised your inbox hasn't melted down

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By *lwaysup4it69 OP Couple over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Trust me bareback with a stranger is amazing x

Even better when your topping up on another load

This will be happening on our next meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its a life style choice , and hatters just seem to get pissy with post on here . Life is to short so enjoy it and swing away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its a life style choice , and hatters just seem to get pissy with post on here . Life is to short so enjoy it and swing away "

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By *awtymarkyMan over a year ago

chester

Trust me bareback with a stranger is amazing x

Even better when your topping up on another load

This will be happening on our next meet"

I hope I can have an invite to that meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is mainly for those who like bareback sex on meets. What was it that made you decide to play bare?

I do not indulge, too risky!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bareback is a cringe word for me yukko.

Anyone who risks a disease is a complete numpty

Why has this got its own "name?" ... bareback lol ... its having sex without protection against Sti s. Its not a "thing", ffs lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only bareback with my man but then he's the only guy I play with, so no worries there on either of our sides. The first time we played it wasn't intended to be bare but my condom just wasn't working, we were both nervy being our first meet even though we'd chatted for a good 2years before hand. It was amazing, felt right with him and every time he fills me up.. it makes my day!

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By *arebackSpunkerMan over a year ago

Hinckley, Nuneaton, Rugby & surounding

Hinckley Leicestershire central Midlands

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A - appeals

B - likes fucks and go

C - bare backs

B and C should be easy to find on here x

I think b & c are what I'm finding difficult. Mainly because of me lol.

Surprised your inbox hasn't melted down"

Nope strangely not lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe i would appeal for B & C?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Since I was castrated I struggle to be hard enough for penetrative sex,however when play with fb or in mmf bareback as I love eating cream pie."

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By *otgirl32Woman over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"This is mainly for those who like bareback sex on meets. What was it that made you decide to play bare?

I've not had protected sex in nearly 4 years. Before that I was a safe sex girl until an event happened during a group meet the long and short of it is that I unintentionally ended up having a bareback fuck and was spunked in. The feeling was so erotic and amazing and the sensation of him cumming in me such a turn on that I was hooked almost instantly. Since then I've only played BB and since I'm open with it I frequently get some nasty messages but who cares. I get tested regularly and so far I'm still standing ! I love it and not afraid to admit it.

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By *lwaysup4it69 OP Couple over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"This is mainly for those who like bareback sex on meets. What was it that made you decide to play bare?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't beat bareback play.. but we always play safe on meets.

Only bareback once with a couple we know and trust

Adam.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Creampies tho

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By *iss InnocenceWoman over a year ago

Coventry/Bristol

Love bb wiv my regular partner and cream pies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We started off strictly safe sex - but found that condoms were a huge turn off for us both (we'd never used them as a couple in many years). So we gave up playing for several years.

It was only after that break that we talked about playing without condoms. We don't play often at all, we much prefer repeat meets with people we play with and we choose to limit risk that way. It makes the whole swinging experience so much sexier for us both as that feeling of cum in a pussy, or cumming into a pussy, is what gets us both going and makes it so much more fulfilling for us.

When you 'click' with a couple/person also into it - it is incredible and more intense and as a result, immensely more satisfying and horny. However finding that is extremely rare sadly.

It seems to us that the whole idea of swinging nowadays seems to be the notion of "shagging as many people as possible" despite what many claim. That is not our goal at all. We'd rather 10 repeat meetings with the same couple/person, than 1 meet with 10 different couples as we feel the sex gets better as you get to know each others likes, desires, wants, needs and kinks.

It is hard to admit you like it on here because of the negativity you receive (as is shown on this thread already). However, it is staggering the number of people who claim "safe sex" on their profile, but who in a message whisper quietly they "will do bareback".

It is those we tend to avoid the most as if you can't be honest about enjoying it, what else are you not telling the truth about? Both to us as a couple, or perhaps more worryingly, those who you claim you practise "safe sex" to and who also state "Safe sex" and who agree to meet you?

For an an 'open-minded' group of people, the level of dishonesty in the name of getting your cock sucked or tits felt is somewhat staggering at times.

But stigmatise a group, and that is what tends to happen.

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By *otgirl32Woman over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"We started off strictly safe sex - but found that condoms were a huge turn off for us both (we'd never used them as a couple in many years). So we gave up playing for several years.

When you 'click' with a couple/person also into it - it is incredible and more intense and as a result, immensely more satisfying and horny. However finding that is extremely rare sadly.

For an an 'open-minded' group of people, the level of dishonesty in the name of getting your cock sucked or tits felt is somewhat staggering at times.

But stigmatise a group, and that is what tends to happen.

Nice to see a sensible post

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We started off strictly safe sex - but found that condoms were a huge turn off for us both (we'd never used them as a couple in many years). So we gave up playing for several years.

When you 'click' with a couple/person also into it - it is incredible and more intense and as a result, immensely more satisfying and horny. However finding that is extremely rare sadly.

For an an 'open-minded' group of people, the level of dishonesty in the name of getting your cock sucked or tits felt is somewhat staggering at times.

But stigmatise a group, and that is what tends to happen.

Nice to see a sensible post

Very true

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By *uzzzaMan over a year ago

leeds

Ultimately it all comes down to personal, everybody on here is an adult and able to make their own informed decisions. Why one side would then choose to admonish and be abusive to the other for the choice they make is completely senseless.

For me I'm happy to meet bareback couples not for the leaving a load, but for the pleasure I get from cleaning up another's creampie. For me there is something so erotic seeing a guy unload either in or over a juicy pussy or arse and then go down and clean it all up.

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By *iamond dave 18Man over a year ago

Wigan

Bareback is risky but a great turn on! Leaving your cum dripping out a girl wow!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We started off strictly safe sex - but found that condoms were a huge turn off for us both (we'd never used them as a couple in many years). So we gave up playing for several years.

When you 'click' with a couple/person also into it - it is incredible and more intense and as a result, immensely more satisfying and horny. However finding that is extremely rare sadly.

For an an 'open-minded' group of people, the level of dishonesty in the name of getting your cock sucked or tits felt is somewhat staggering at times.

But stigmatise a group, and that is what tends to happen.

Nice to see a sensible post

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

With various clubs have special nights we wonder how successful a bareback only night would be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We started off strictly safe sex - but found that condoms were a huge turn off for us both (we'd never used them as a couple in many years). So we gave up playing for several years.

When you 'click' with a couple/person also into it - it is incredible and more intense and as a result, immensely more satisfying and horny. However finding that is extremely rare sadly.

For an an 'open-minded' group of people, the level of dishonesty in the name of getting your cock sucked or tits felt is somewhat staggering at times.

But stigmatise a group, and that is what tends to happen.

Nice to see a sensible post

Very true"

Agreed.

I can only seeing it work with complete honesty and trust.

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By *smfuncplCouple over a year ago

WESTON SUPER MARE

Love bareback the feeling when a guy shoots inside is heaven

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is mainly for those who like bareback sex on meets. What was it that made you decide to play bare?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i hate condoms. might as well be fucking a carrier bag.

i'm pretty much only up for no penetration now, don't want to risk myself with genital STIs.

other diseases, well i'll take my chances and be very selective about who i have penetrative sex with."

Most people have herpes and warts?

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"i hate condoms. might as well be fucking a carrier bag.

i'm pretty much only up for no penetration now, don't want to risk myself with genital STIs.

other diseases, well i'll take my chances and be very selective about who i have penetrative sex with.

Most people have herpes and warts? "

probably. the virus for it anyway. nobody tests for this stuff until they have symptoms so we won't know.

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By *LCCCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

Most people have herpes and warts? "

If you have ever had a coldsore then you have a version of the herpes virus.

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By *hic EventsWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

A I D S

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By *even inchesMan over a year ago

nottingham

Would you snuggle up to your playmate both wrapped in cling film

Up to the individual I was in the adult industry for a number of years all sex was bareback never ever had a problem at all all performers were tested every month and had to produce Certs

Yes in reality there were risks and if people want to take that chance it's up to them

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By *hic EventsWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Would you snuggle up to your playmate both wrapped in cling film

Up to the individual I was in the adult industry for a number of years all sex was bareback never ever had a problem at all all performers were tested every month and had to produce Certs

Yes in reality there were risks and if people want to take that chance it's up to them

irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We started off strictly safe sex - but found that condoms were a huge turn off for us both (we'd never used them as a couple in many years). So we gave up playing for several years.

When you 'click' with a couple/person also into it - it is incredible and more intense and as a result, immensely more satisfying and horny. However finding that is extremely rare sadly.

For an an 'open-minded' group of people, the level of dishonesty in the name of getting your cock sucked or tits felt is somewhat staggering at times.

But stigmatise a group, and that is what tends to happen.

Nice to see a sensible post

Very true

Agreed.

I can only seeing it work with complete honesty and trust. "

But you can't find those on Fab

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By *ishopstippleMan over a year ago

Purley

"Would you snuggle up to your playmate both wrapped in cling film

Up to the individual I was in the adult industry for a number of years all sex was bareback never ever had a problem at all all performers were tested every month and had to produce Certs

Yes in reality there were risks and if people want to take that chance it's up to them

irrelevant "

Not if they exchange certificates prior to playing and they have notorised proof of not playing BB with anyone else since being tested.

Love to see this in a club scene

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"We started off strictly safe sex - but found that condoms were a huge turn off for us both (we'd never used them as a couple in many years). So we gave up playing for several years.

When you 'click' with a couple/person also into it - it is incredible and more intense and as a result, immensely more satisfying and horny. However finding that is extremely rare sadly.

For an an 'open-minded' group of people, the level of dishonesty in the name of getting your cock sucked or tits felt is somewhat staggering at times.

But stigmatise a group, and that is what tends to happen.

Nice to see a sensible post

Very true

Agreed.

I can only seeing it work with complete honesty and trust.

But you can't find those on Fab"

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By *ranfondoMan over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I sometimes do with Married ladies... who are playing away...Mostly they are the safest bet ...

As a mature snipped guy and also clean D&D free and selective... I always socially meet with potential swingers and get to know them first.... any doubts then I cover up....

Add me to the Yes list.. and I'm snipped too and prefer Married ladies..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We both play bareback, it's a much better feel.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well i never done bareback every so i do not know whats it like

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By *hic EventsWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

Omg some of these comments

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldnt bareback with random meets. Only a partner i trusted and they trusted me. Forget STIs and stuff like that it HIV and AIDS you need to watch out for especially on sex sites. People fking all sorts all the time spreading it round and most dont know they even have it. I was talking to a nurse at a pub she lives near me and she was saying how the casses if HIV and AIDS is up 1000% in the hospital she works in. She was saying its due to the fact that lots of people go to places like Thialand and treat it like their local town centre and fk around bareback. They come back with all sorts and then they are back out in their towns pulling and barebacking spreading it all over. For me this is a really scray and real thing and im not sure why people risk this.

PS im not judging anyone you can do what you like its your body amd nothing to do with me.

Also sorry for bad spelling. Its 3am so let me off lol

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By *unover40Couple over a year ago

yeovil

we wouldnt every time but definetly prefer bare, much more intimate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Omg some of these comments

I know right. That one comment where someone just wrote 'AIDS' without any actual context or follow-up just made me facepalm.

It's like they wanted shock value but just managed to look silly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Great thread for who to avoid.

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple over a year ago

Stockport

Surprised the moralistic police aren't all over this thread raining on everyone's parade with finger wagging.

I don't think anyone is silly enough not to know the risks...

A bit like when you cross the road not using a pedestrian crossing.

Live and let live, imho!

Flames

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surprised the moralistic police aren't all over this thread raining on everyone's parade with finger wagging.

I don't think anyone is silly enough not to know the risks...

A bit like when you cross the road not using a pedestrian crossing.

Live and let live, imho!

Flames"

Don't you know though, that be engaging in bare sex. You'll instantly be marked with 'UNCLEAN' on your forehead at best? At worst, you'll spontaneous combust while reciting 'The power of Durex compels you'

More words of wisdom from late Mr N (1976-2008)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not into bare sex last time boo boo went off his tits went he caught me fucking yogy."

Bear! And don't you mean Yogi!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reading through some of the comments there definitely seems a higher proportion of 40/45+ players that consider bare in certain circumstances more acceptable.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS over a year ago

Bristol.

"I wouldnt bareback with random meets. Only a partner i trusted and they trusted me. Forget STIs and stuff like that it HIV and AIDS you need to watch out for especially on sex sites. People fking all sorts all the time spreading it round and most dont know they even have it. I was talking to a nurse at a pub she lives near me and she was saying how the casses if HIV and AIDS is up 1000% in the hospital she works in. She was saying its due to the fact that lots of people go to places like Thialand and treat it like their local town centre and fk around bareback. They come back with all sorts and then they are back out in their towns pulling and barebacking spreading it all over. For me this is a really scray and real thing and im not sure why people risk this.

PS im not judging anyone you can do what you like its your body amd nothing to do with me.

Also sorry for bad spelling. Its 3am so let me off lol"

Hmm. I find your comments a bit scary and poorly informed..perhaps anxiety increases at 3 a.m!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Great thread for who to avoid."

This!!! ^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All these threads attract the posts from folk going 'this is a great list of those to avoid'

They you look at their profiles and their verifications and see they have played with profiles who shall we say take a more pragmatic view to safer sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't mind other who enjoy bareback...after all who doesn't. But joining a comunity of swingers means we need to look out for each other too.

I suppose regular checks at the clinics could help with this and a certification of being clean...it may be an added hassle, but at least you can have fun with peace of mind. Not sure how this would work in practice, but we should all be responsible for our health, since it could affect others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's more astounding on this thread is the predictable endless moralising from those who choose not to play bareback, desperately clamouring to get on their high horse and label those they deem unclean as unworthy, foolish, misguided, stupid, dangerous or worse.

You choose to play your way. That's fine. That doesn't mean your way is the RIGHT way. It is the way you choose to play. Any sexual interaction contains inherent risk. Condoms split and come off and I've direct experience of both of those.

So if you want to fuck 10, 100 or 1000 people all using condoms and accept those risks, then fine. Good for you. But why stigmatise a group simply so you can make pathetic, ill-informed, inflammatory comments designed to make yourselves feel so much better and superior?

You choose not to sleep with people who bareback, that's fine. I choose not to sleep with those who like to denigrate others because they think they know the swinging rulebook better than anyone else, and are doing it "right" and like to moralise to others about it. Even when their opinion and sarcastic observations are not actually what the OP was asking for or about.

You also make massive generalisations about people that Bareback and perhaps assume they are as active on the scene as some people who are apparently fucking several people a night, several nights a week, every week of the year. That's wholly inaccurate in many cases. But why let facts get in the way of a good bullying and feeling superior session?

I don't condone or promote Bareback. Anyone deciding to joining this lifestyle, even if they wanted to play with us, I would suggest they started using condoms in every case without exception. In our case, we know the risks. We take steps to minimise them and we accept them based on our choices. I'm willing to bet there's a lot of people out there who have had more "meaningful relationships" with people and had unprotected sex with those partners, than we have had bareback sex with others (still well inside single digit figures in over 10 years playing).

See that's the problem. Making sweeping generalisations without knowing all the facts. It's ugly and unnecessary and reflects more on you, than it does on those you seek to belittle and humiliate.

Perhaps the most worrying thing is that these attitudes will continue to drive people who do play bare underground, so that they lie on their profiles about it. Which then, by association, puts those who choose to play safe, more at risk. At least if people are open about it, you can choose to avoid them. That's why we state it on our profile. There's hundreds, thousands on here who will and do play bare that don't and who click the "Safe Sex" option. And attitudes and comments like that displayed on here are precisely why that is the case.

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By *hic EventsWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

Great thread for who to block

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Great thread for who to block

Please feel free - saves us the bother...

Thank you very much..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Great thread for who to block

Because no one ever barebacks at your parties.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Great thread for who to block

Please feel free - saves us the bother...

Thank you very much..

Nicely done. Always block people who put shit like that on a thread. They are more than welcome to block us...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only bareback for us. The feeling is much better and we cant like the smell and the taste of condom."

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By *irty-milfCouple over a year ago

edinburgh

"Great thread for who to block

You are correct. It works both ways.

Bye.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive never seen the problem with condoms...makes no difference in the slightest for me....wouldnt meet anyone who plays bareback...not that im judging as everyone is free to make their own desicions...i just find it off putting and i couldnt relax thinking if i just put my dick in my coffin

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Great thread for who to block

Because no one ever barebacks at your parties."

So you don't think any of the gazillion couples listed for her next party ever bareback

Must say it's not my thing, so as long as no-one tries to bareback with me it's all good, folk can do as they like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i hate condoms. might as well be fucking a carrier bag.

i'm pretty much only up for no penetration now, don't want to risk myself with genital STIs.

other diseases, well i'll take my chances and be very selective about who i have penetrative sex with.

Most people have herpes and warts?

probably. the virus for it anyway. nobody tests for this stuff until they have symptoms so we won't know."

Herpes and warts always show symptoms so I'm sure I've never had them.

Never had a cold sore either

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By *100Man over a year ago

Essex

I've always been in long relationships and had good control if in doubt pull it out so never had an accident and have fathered 4 children, so it's worked for me and feels lovely.

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By * O .TV/TS over a year ago

watford

I know it's naughty, but the feeling of a man inside me bareback is so totally more intense that I take the risk, and get xhecked all the time.

I don't know what it is, but there seems a much more powerful almost electric sensation and of course, when he cums inside me I can feel his taste in my mouth. Candy x x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surprised the moralistic police aren't all over this thread raining on everyone's parade with finger wagging.

I don't think anyone is silly enough not to know the risks...

A bit like when you cross the road not using a pedestrian crossing.

Live and let live, imho!

Flames

More words of wisdom from late Mr N (1976-2008)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I enjoy safe sex but I have cream pied a pussy and done bareback and it feels better than wearing a condom

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am looking for my first bareback meet with a couple so if any out there can help drop me a message x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

With women it's putting the dam thing on an wen reciving it off guys id love the ridges of a cock

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By *allenangeluk1Couple over a year ago

Chorley

We, as a couple, love bareback. We say so on our profile. But we also get tested regularly. I wouldn't enjoy sex without feeling the guy come, sean couldn't clean up afterwards and I love seeing Sean's cum inside another woman.

We wouldn't enjoy doing what we do otherwise. But, like has been said in previous posts, people on here are so judgemental - but if you don't like it don't message us saying so - just walk on by

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never every done bareback in my life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd be too worried about impregnation

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By *irty brunetteCouple over a year ago

Essex

We've struggled to find bareback meets. It's what hubby prefers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We've struggled to find bareback meets. It's what hubby prefers"

there are a lots on here who i think like bareback on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never, we don't want aids or pregnancy. We love bareback together, but it's too risky.

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By *ucklingsCouple over a year ago

Rugby

"We've struggled to find bareback meets. It's what hubby prefers"

what do you prefer?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We've struggled to find bareback meets. It's what hubby prefers

what do you prefer? "

who you taking too

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By *ucklingsCouple over a year ago

Rugby

"We've struggled to find bareback meets. It's what hubby prefers

what do you prefer?

who you taking too

Dirty brunette, as quoted their statement

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love bareback and spunky creampie fun....Any couples or females interested let me know

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By *annyLovesLynneMan over a year ago

carlisle glasgow

I enjoy it as it is sex as nature intended and only 1 lady from here has not wanted it with me so I think more ladies like it than they let on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd be too worried about impregnation"

There's a lot more to worry about other than just babies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never every done bareback in my life

Have you never been married or fathered children ???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never every done bareback in my life

Have you never been married or fathered children ???"

no is that wrong were i work more then played in my young days

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never every done bareback in my life

Have you never been married or fathered children ???

no is that wrong were i work more then played in my young days"

Not wrong I was just asking!

I'm all for protection, bareback whilst swinging is definitely not for me but I've been married and have children so when I with solely with 1 person for years I thought bareback was fine. Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never every done bareback in my life

Have you never been married or fathered children ???

no is that wrong were i work more then played in my young days

Not wrong I was just asking!

I see that fine as for me since moving back i finding hard to restart it swinging or finding some one who would want sex with me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never every done bareback in my life

Have you never been married or fathered children ???

no is that wrong were i work more then played in my young days

Not wrong I was just asking!

Exactly this. I have indulged in bareback before and enjoyed but they were long term partners. Condoms are for when I play with others here. That is my choice and I respect those who want to play without, I just clearly wouldn't play with them.

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

I always have condoms and use them when having a play from here

For me it shows that do I not only care about my own health, also others

I must say, I would not be supprised if some of the people inhave played with have bareback with others. For that risk of the uncertainty I use condoms

I must say if a couple says they play bareback I must say I would have less than an inclination to meet them, but again that's my choice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always use a condom and always bring my own .But I'm amazed at how many men don't carry them on them .just been a observation over the time been on here .Few have but mostly not .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always use a condom and always bring my own .But I'm amazed at how many men don't carry them on them .just been a observation over the time been on here .Few have but mostly not .

Our feeling is most men will play bareback given the chance.

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By *AM2214Man over a year ago

Manchester Area

"We never ever play bare other than with each other but we are a married couple so it would feel wrong.

My question is this; If you play bare usually, would having to use condoms prevent you from meeting someone?

I ask because I was invited to play with someone who plays bare all the time and when i said no thanks i play safe the person got a bit shitty with me...

Wifey xxx"

Your choice..if they cant agree simple things how the hell could you trust them with anything elses?

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

"I always use a condom and always bring my own .But I'm amazed at how many men don't carry them on them .just been a observation over the time been on here .Few have but mostly not .

Our feeling is most men will play bareback given the chance."

I wouldn't

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By *az1Man over a year ago

Birmingham

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't believe no one has mentioned that old chestnut 'Russian roulette'. Oh! Wait...........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It seems completely foolish and irresponsible going bareback with a stranger.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems completely foolish and irresponsible going bareback with a stranger. "

Apparently not everybody thinks that!

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple over a year ago

coventry

We only play bareback with each other and safe with anyone else!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always use a condom and always bring my own .But I'm amazed at how many men don't carry them on them .just been a observation over the time been on here .Few have but mostly not .

I would agree with this statement

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love bare back play so much more fun than having to stop to put condom on. And love feeling end result xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bareback all the way. Feels better and the feeling knowing she's getting your cum is shit hot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very hot feeling guy shooting inside mmmmmm

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By *uninlondon69Man over a year ago

Tower Bridge South

"Very hot feeling guy shooting inside mmmmmm"

Feels great for the guy too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always use a condom and always bring my own .But I'm amazed at how many men don't carry them on them .just been a observation over the time been on here .Few have but mostly not .

Our feeling is most men will play bareback given the chance.

I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems completely foolish and irresponsible going bareback with a stranger. "

It seems completely foolish & irresponsible, with a lot of things in life, but people do it, maybe the excitement, that they know it's wrong

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By *hic EventsWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

"Bareback all the way. Feels better and the feeling knowing she's getting your cum is shit hot"

And then you get up in a few days pissing razor blades

That shit hot now turns into a shit day!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Herpes and warts always show symptoms so I'm sure I've never had them.

Never had a cold sore either "

They don't always show symptoms. You can be asymptomatic. Carrying but not showing. Like someone said previously they don't test for herpes unless you are showing symptoms in which case they will swab the sores.

If you ever have a smear and it comes back with anomalies then chances are it's HPV humanpapillomavirus ie warts. There are a multitude of strands of HPV some more benign than others. Warts are very common and most, YES MOST, people are infected at some point or another.

I do know a lot about other things also and not just STI's

The number of people that make comments thinking they are well informed well in reality.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bare back all the way - love to feel spunk shooting up me yes please sir xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

“Every sperm is sacred”

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First time with us was totally by accident mrs M was riding her playmate cowgirl and i decided she needed to take DP so i slid into her arse, after a few thrusts by me our playmate shot a huge load into her pussy, it was the horniest night!! We love bareback and creampies now!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bare back all the way - love to feel spunk shooting up me yes please sir xxx"

That goes for me too...!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely unless you know someone v well its a bit silly to do ? perhaps if they are willing to show they are tested regularly and clean disease free going 'bare' without either of those is a bit irresponsible I guess .. dangerous even ..love the feeling if cumming in a woman without sox on but in this day and age ? each to their own I guess :/

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By *lwaysup4it69 OP Couple over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"Surely unless you know someone v well its a bit silly to do ? perhaps if they are willing to show they are tested regularly and clean disease free going 'bare' without either of those is a bit irresponsible I guess .. dangerous even ..love the feeling if cumming in a woman without sox on but in this day and age ? each to their own I guess :/ "

Each to there own really. We play bare, you play safe. All that means is you wouldn't meet us and we wouldn't meet you

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By *lwaysup4it69 OP Couple over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"Bare back all the way - love to feel spunk shooting up me yes please sir xxx"

Bareback is great. I love to shoot in a women and Janine loves a arrangers cum in all holes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surely unless you know someone v well its a bit silly to do ? "

I tend to see sky-diving, rowing across the Atlantic, climbing Everest and BASE jumping as "silly things to do" - but I wouldn't dream of telling people that they shouldn't do it....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love feel of bare cock up me mmmmm xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And it running out after yummy xx

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By *edicinneedMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

I always look in a woman's eyes when I cum in them. And then revive the old man to fuck in a nice warm juicy spunky pussy is just heaven. Bb is the only way. I also get tested every 6 weeks. I am very open in my approaches.

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By *hic EventsWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

"I always look in a woman's eyes when I cum in them. And then revive the old man to fuck in a nice warm juicy spunky pussy is just heaven. Bb is the only way. I also get tested every 6 weeks. I am very open in my approaches. "

So macho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So macho

And romantic.

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By *areback communityMan over a year ago

Liverpool (mainly) Leicester bham and London

We set this profile up so we could get in contact with other bareback players , when we used to advertise bare or sticky meets on our old cpls prilfile we were bombarded with abuse and idiots,

We have found since using this one we can get into contact with other players like us and we know who ever contacts us on her is into the same so no need for the normal tricky questions. We use two other reg guys to org gb for us too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

See bareback REALLY turns me on. Pregnant girls turn me on a lot more.

Perhaps it's the fertility thing.

I'd NEVER say no to a pregnant girl.

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By *rben112Man over a year ago

worcester

Fantasy of mine but scared to make it reality other than with partner

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By *htcMan over a year ago

love bareback

condoms give me a itch for about a week, wont let me cum, and cause my dick to get soft. but wont do with anyone, trust and truth required before considering.

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By *heblackmacMan over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

Had bareback sex couple of times with female FB ,after few days went to the medical center to get checked for STI ,good news I'm ok no trace of such STI deaseas.happy to crack on with bareback sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

better without condoms xxx

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By *lwaysup4it69 OP Couple over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"better without condoms xxx"

Love bareback can't beat filling a pussy with spunk x

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple over a year ago

luton

Russian roulette with std's post basically.... it's nice to have bare sex with a partner. More so than having to wear a condom, we all know that. However, on today's society and the risks that are about. .. it is just completely irresponsible of so to speak adults to be swinging bareback... simples ..

If this offends? Then ok, please feel very free to block us and save us the bother...

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

"love bareback

condoms give me a itch for about a week, wont let me cum, and cause my dick to get soft. but wont do with anyone, trust and truth required before considering. "
have you tried skyns? Might be the latex - I had the same problem feeling itchy and sore down below - switched from latex and no more probs x

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By *edonismproMan over a year ago

Essex

The risks are overstated, simple as...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is mainly for those who like bareback sex on meets. What was it that made you decide to play bare?..."

I didn't have a choice. I met with a couple who were 'safe sex only', my condoms on the bedside, and the wife was on top kissing me when she slipped me into her warm cum filled pussy. The sensation was amazing and I came immediately

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By *ilthy fun bareCouple over a year ago

Ripon

"better without condoms xxx

Love bareback can't beat filling a pussy with spunk x"

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By *aughtynice23Couple over a year ago

South West

Of course BB sex is nicer, how could it not be ? We dislike condoms, definitely nicer without. But, they serve a purpose, and there is no way we would take the risk of penetrative sex without one, other than with each other. Each to their own, but for us safety is paramount.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bareback is better. The feeling is amazing. I've never been able to finish with a condom on, but unless it's someone I trust and have been with a few times, I'd rather wear one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is mainly for those who like bareback sex on meets. What was it that made you decide to play bare?

I trusted the person 100%

they trusted me 100%

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