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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Me and my gf have a great relationship but she tends to tease me on the size of my willy. It's not small but not huge, about 6" and quite thick. She's had few partners in the past and does brag at times about some of the let's say larger guys. However she does say she is happy with mine and our relationship is great. But little voices in the back of my mind saying I think she would love to have bigger. I've asked outright if she does but she goes round houses saying happy with what we have but I don't get a straight answer. How on earth do I get overthinking out my head |
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"Me and my gf have a great relationship but she tends to tease me on the size of my willy. It's not small but not huge, about 6" and quite thick. She's had few partners in the past and does brag at times about some of the let's say larger guys. However she does say she is happy with mine and our relationship is great. But little voices in the back of my mind saying I think she would love to have bigger. I've asked outright if she does but she goes round houses saying happy with what we have but I don't get a straight answer. How on earth do I get overthinking out my head "
You need to stop asking her for confirmation that you're good enough. If her answers aren't changing there's no need to keep asking. She's said she's happy albeit in a roundabout way you need to accept that and accept that you're good enough. |
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By *D123Man
over a year ago
Kings Heath and Estepona |
"I would have given the thread title a little more thought if I'd been you OP.
I was expecting a thread about how your GF used to be a man  "
Must admit. That was my thought as well!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me and my gf have a great relationship but she tends to tease me on the size of my willy. It's not small but not huge, about 6" and quite thick. She's had few partners in the past and does brag at times about some of the let's say larger guys. However she does say she is happy with mine and our relationship is great. But little voices in the back of my mind saying I think she would love to have bigger. I've asked outright if she does but she goes round houses saying happy with what we have but I don't get a straight answer. How on earth do I get overthinking out my head "
Not sure why she feels the need to tease you about it or brag about other guys. She sounds very insecure and is trying to put you down to make herself feel better about herself. You can't change your penis so if it was me I'd tell her if she doesn't like to to sling her hook!
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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago
Near Kettering |
Being not well endowed myself I can understand why teasing you about your size would make you feel a little self conscious but is she really teasing you?
It sounds like she is trying to tell you she is happy with what you have together.
From my perspective I know im not huge, however when me and the wife have sex there is a mental connection and that knowledge of each other that allows us to have great sex. Now when she eventually has sex with a someone a litle larger im sure it will be great for her but I know at that point its only sex and he wont be able to do things for her I can do instinctively.
In short enjoy the physical variety swinging has offer and then enjoy the intimacy at home your relationship has to offer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actions speak louder then words... she's with you isn't she?
Is she wasn't happy... then she would be looking elsewhere.
Just have a word with her saying your previous had bigger boobs then her or a tighter Pussy.. and when she looks at you shocked.. just say.. "it's a joke.. but it still hurts doesn't it"
Hope she gets the message then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If she tells you its all good, then you have to take her at her word. Keep asking the same question though, and I fear it will start to wear a bit thin. Equally though, if she does often comment on past partners and their size etc, that's not really what you need to be hearing if she already knows you have insecurities in that area. |
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Next time you're between her legs, licking her out, just shout Hello! And follow up with a comical Hello..hello...hello, like an echo, and say "Never got that with any of my previous girlfriends " and see what she says  |
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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago
Near Kettering |
"Next time you're between her legs, licking her out, just shout Hello! And follow up with a comical Hello..hello...hello, like an echo, and say "Never got that with any of my previous girlfriends " and see what she says "
LMAO
I have done that as a joke to the wife. Its a good job my sense of humour is part of what she loves about me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actions speak louder then words... she's with you isn't she?
Is she wasn't happy... then she would be looking elsewhere.
Just have a word with her saying your previous had bigger boobs then her or a tighter Pussy.. and when she looks at you shocked.. just say.. "it's a joke.. but it still hurts doesn't it"
Hope she gets the message then "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me and my gf have a great relationship but she tends to tease me on the size of my willy. It's not small but not huge, about 6" and quite thick. She's had few partners in the past and does brag at times about some of the let's say larger guys. However she does say she is happy with mine and our relationship is great. But little voices in the back of my mind saying I think she would love to have bigger. I've asked outright if she does but she goes round houses saying happy with what we have but I don't get a straight answer. How on earth do I get overthinking out my head "
Is this a cuckold relationship? Do you like her telling you about larger dicks??
If not she SHOULD NOT be "bragging" about the endowment of her previous partners. Thats a massive red flag and, if you feel so inclined, I would simply return the favor by bragging about the attributes of your own previous partners which she does not have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on the small side myself and when we meet guys my wife likes to have a bigger one it's not better it's just different that's all and after all swinging is after something different. If I was you just get on with your relationship and be happy that she wants you ......just my opinion |
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"Next time you're between her legs, licking her out, just shout Hello! And follow up with a comical Hello..hello...hello, like an echo, and say "Never got that with any of my previous girlfriends " and see what she says
LMAO
I have done that as a joke to the wife. Its a good job my sense of humour is part of what she loves about me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does she mention cock size during sex as a type of talking dirty or fantasy? Or she might be unaware of the (presumably) negative effect it has on you, in which case she needs telling in no uncertain terms of the effect it has on you. It seems pretty mean if she is aware - but on the other hand she is with you so cock size isn't everything. You must be doing something right with what you have.
With my Devils Advocate hat on (its the red one with plastic horns and goggles) if it is taunting during the heat of the moment it might be she enjoys the thought of cucking you. Perhaps this is something you could discuss even if you have no intention of taking it further - the brain being the biggest sexual organ and all that.
I'm not so sure but I think this might be the first time I've said anything considered this year - makes me feel all grown up and everyfing. |
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If you're relationship with your girlfriend is really so great then you should feel no need of any outside reassurance.
PS Might you be just a little paranoid that your partner is going behind your back? After all, you're sort of cheating on her by advertising yourself as a single guy seeing what you can get up to. .. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I would have given the thread title a little more thought if I'd been you OP.
I was expecting a thread about how your GF used to be a man "
Well, atleast it has all been sorted out now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does she mention cock size during sex as a type of talking dirty or fantasy? Or she might be unaware of the (presumably) negative effect it has on you, in which case she needs telling in no uncertain terms of the effect it has on you. It seems pretty mean if she is aware - but on the other hand she is with you so cock size isn't everything. You must be doing something right with what you have.
With my Devils Advocate hat on (its the red one with plastic horns and goggles) if it is taunting during the heat of the moment it might be she enjoys the thought of cucking you. Perhaps this is something you could discuss even if you have no intention of taking it further - the brain being the biggest sexual organ and all that.
I'm not so sure but I think this might be the first time I've said anything considered this year - makes me feel all grown up and everyfing."
This is a pretty good point actually |
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"If only. Talks about it but upset when keep bringing it up to move it on"
Use the Quote function
Personally I think it's really unkind of her and if it was the other way round people would be calling you and abusive bastard.
Have you told her that it upsets you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And now having looked at your profile maybe she does it because she knows that you don't really love her?"
Like I said; perhaps she'd like to swing too  |
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"Next time you're between her legs, licking her out, just shout Hello! And follow up with a comical Hello..hello...hello, like an echo, and say "Never got that with any of my previous girlfriends " and see what she says
LMAO
I have done that as a joke to the wife. Its a good job my sense of humour is part of what she loves about me. "
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By *andH83Couple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Does she know that you are on here ??? Im sure u she can find bigger here if thats the case ....
Hope things work out"
Point exactly , what's with all the single guy profiles who say they have a gf ????? |
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"Next time you're between her legs, licking her out, just shout Hello! And follow up with a comical Hello..hello...hello, like an echo, and say "Never got that with any of my previous girlfriends " and see what she says "
Hilarious
I doff my cap |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me and my gf have a great relationship but she tends to tease me on the size of my willy. It's not small but not huge, about 6" and quite thick. She's had few partners in the past and does brag at times about some of the let's say larger guys. However she does say she is happy with mine and our relationship is great. But little voices in the back of my mind saying I think she would love to have bigger. I've asked outright if she does but she goes round houses saying happy with what we have but I don't get a straight answer. How on earth do I get overthinking out my head "
Tell her to fuck off and find a guy with a bigger dick!
If you don't, she will keep on bullying you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me and my gf have a great relationship but she tends to tease me on the size of my willy. It's not small but not huge, about 6" and quite thick. She's had few partners in the past and does brag at times about some of the let's say larger guys. However she does say she is happy with mine and our relationship is great. But little voices in the back of my mind saying I think she would love to have bigger. I've asked outright if she does but she goes round houses saying happy with what we have but I don't get a straight answer. How on earth do I get overthinking out my head
You need to stop asking her for confirmation that you're good enough. If her answers aren't changing there's no need to keep asking. She's said she's happy albeit in a roundabout way you need to accept that and accept that you're good enough."
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Maybe accommodate her occasionally "doing" a guy with a large penis - let her wallow - then life will be complete for her. She is presumably happy with you, because she's there. Leave it that she hasn't any unfulfilled thoughts...??? |
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"Me and my gf have a great relationship but she tends to tease me on the size of my willy. It's not small but not huge, about 6" and quite thick. She's had few partners in the past and does brag at times about some of the let's say larger guys. However she does say she is happy with mine and our relationship is great. But little voices in the back of my mind saying I think she would love to have bigger. I've asked outright if she does but she goes round houses saying happy with what we have but I don't get a straight answer. How on earth do I get overthinking out my head
Not sure why she feels the need to tease you about it or brag about other guys. She sounds very insecure and is trying to put you down to make herself feel better about herself. You can't change your penis so if it was me I'd tell her if she doesn't like to to sling her hook!
Ruby"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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6''Is jus under average.
Anything less and you are classed as Penis-plaegic.
Luckily I'm 7.5 - 8" which is bang on.
Anything bigger is a waste and harder to get proper rock hard dick.
If asked if wanted more id homestly say no way
(Ok ffs id have 20" gnarly one sewn in, and wear nothing but Speedos and a hat)?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think she's being unkind, maybe tell her if she wants a bigger Willy then fk off and find someone else. Then she will realise you don't like the constant references to other blokes cocks and will shut up. X |
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