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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?
I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.
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"So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?
I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.
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don't compromise on your own safety rules would be my advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?
I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.
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We have looked into this pretty carefully and we can accept the much lower level of risk associated with oral. Anal and vaginal are always with a condom because there is a significant level of risk attached to them. |
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"So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?
I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.
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don't do it with out a condom its to risky |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?
I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.
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Oral: low risk; not, no risk
Vaginal: could end up dead
Anal: gotta be kiddin'
Everything is risky; how much risk to take is individual choice and decision |
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I always insist on condoms and safe sex if I am being penetrated. No glove , no love.
Oral is a different matter. I gave a guy a blow job once whilst he had a condom on & within a few minutes I told him to take it off as it didn't feel right and felt horrible. Plus I am a bit of a dirty girl and like to feel his cum hit the back of my throat when he orgasm's  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?
I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.
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you are correct to think it is unsafe with an unknown partner; here are a few of the infections you can pick up very easily if your partner is infected;
.•chlamydia.
•herpes – type 1 and type 2, which can cause cold sores around the mouth and on the genitals or anus.
•genital warts.
•gonorrhoea.
•hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C.
•HIV.
•syphilis
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good luck if anyone chooses to go without
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Its just a simple matter of risk assessment and how much risk v reward you want to take. Pretty much like anything you do in life (assuming your thought process if anything like mine). And to a certain extent that risk level depends on the person and your knowledge of them.
Simply only do what you are comfortable with and level of risk your happy with. Never compromise your happiness and feeling of safety. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?
I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.
Oral: low risk; not, no risk
Vaginal: could end up dead
Anal: gotta be kiddin'
Everything is risky; how much risk to take is individual choice and decision"
this
I think most of us know that there is a risk with unprotected oral but i am not going to suck cock or make someone use a dental dam..
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A quick Google search will tell you that you have a 0.04% of catching Hiv receiving anal sex from an unknown status gay male partner per encounter with a condom. The risk is between 0% and 0.04% giving oral with out a condom. So pretty much the same risk kinda.
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The risk increases by a factor 20 for receiving unprotected anal from a gay man of unknown status to 0.82% per encounter. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?
I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.
Oral: low risk; not, no risk
Vaginal: could end up dead
Anal: gotta be kiddin'
Everything is risky; how much risk to take is individual choice and decision this
I think most of us know that there is a risk with unprotected oral but i am not going to suck cock or make someone use a dental dam..
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I think the risk is greater to the 'suckee'
It is a moot point for me as I don't engage in oral sex; but I can bite it off; using a dental dam, ofcourse  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I just find it bizzare takes all sorts on fab strangers one was the guy that wanted me to punish him and make him clean my bathroom. You get some weird requests "
Can he do Saturdays 1 pm - 3 pm? Send him over  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A quick Google search will tell you that you have a 0.04% of catching Hiv receiving anal sex from an unknown status gay male partner per encounter with a condom. The risk is between 0% and 0.04% giving oral with out a condom. So pretty much the same risk kinda.
Side note:
The risk increases by a factor 20 for receiving unprotected anal from a gay man of unknown status to 0.82% per encounter."
The clinic states a much higher rate for anal and vaginal sex risks compared to oral.
I do ask frequently x |
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"I just find it bizzare takes all sorts on fab strangers one was the guy that wanted me to punish him and make him clean my bathroom. You get some weird requests
Can he do Saturdays 1 pm - 3 pm? Send him over "
and Mine. I'll even reschedule! |
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"I just find it bizzare takes all sorts on fab strangers one was the guy that wanted me to punish him and make him clean my bathroom. You get some weird requests
Can he do Saturdays 1 pm - 3 pm? Send him over
and Mine. I'll even reschedule! "
Yeah I told him come round I will get the flash ready he never replied and left the site. |
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"A quick Google search will tell you that you have a 0.04% of catching Hiv receiving anal sex from an unknown status gay male partner per encounter with a condom. The risk is between 0% and 0.04% giving oral with out a condom. So pretty much the same risk kinda.
Side note:
The risk increases by a factor 20 for receiving unprotected anal from a gay man of unknown status to 0.82% per encounter.
The clinic states a much higher rate for anal and vaginal sex risks compared to oral.
I do ask frequently x"
We're you comparing condom anal to unprotected oral. Stats show there is little difference. There is a huge difference if both unprotected obviously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A quick Google search will tell you that you have a 0.04% of catching Hiv receiving anal sex from an unknown status gay male partner per encounter with a condom. The risk is between 0% and 0.04% giving oral with out a condom. So pretty much the same risk kinda.
Side note:
The risk increases by a factor 20 for receiving unprotected anal from a gay man of unknown status to 0.82% per encounter.
The clinic states a much higher rate for anal and vaginal sex risks compared to oral.
I do ask frequently x
We're you comparing condom anal to unprotected oral. Stats show there is little difference. There is a huge difference if both unprotected obviously."
that is different to what the clinic advise. |
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"A quick Google search will tell you that you have a 0.04% of catching Hiv receiving anal sex from an unknown status gay male partner per encounter with a condom. The risk is between 0% and 0.04% giving oral with out a condom. So pretty much the same risk kinda.
Side note:
The risk increases by a factor 20 for receiving unprotected anal from a gay man of unknown status to 0.82% per encounter.
The clinic states a much higher rate for anal and vaginal sex risks compared to oral.
I do ask frequently x
We're you comparing condom anal to unprotected oral. Stats show there is little difference. There is a huge difference if both unprotected obviously. that is different to what the clinic advise. "
Perhaps they were advising for all stds. My post only related to Hiv transmission risks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A quick Google search will tell you that you have a 0.04% of catching Hiv receiving anal sex from an unknown status gay male partner per encounter with a condom. The risk is between 0% and 0.04% giving oral with out a condom. So pretty much the same risk kinda.
Side note:
The risk increases by a factor 20 for receiving unprotected anal from a gay man of unknown status to 0.82% per encounter.
The clinic states a much higher rate for anal and vaginal sex risks compared to oral.
I do ask frequently x
We're you comparing condom anal to unprotected oral. Stats show there is little difference. There is a huge difference if both unprotected obviously. that is different to what the clinic advise.
Perhaps they were advising for all stds. My post only related to Hiv transmission risks."
yeah although they said although they quote it as 0.something % for oral there is almost a zero chance of catching hiv from oral.
There advise is obviously for the whole spectrum of stds. But it annoys me that many arent being offered it as I dont know anyone that uses comdoms for oral.. |
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