FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Support and Advice > Anyone fallen for someone following a meet?
Anyone fallen for someone following a meet?
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
as long as you both feel the same i dont see any problems with it, but you will need to sit down and have a serious chat about it and if you do whether you'll continue swinging and stuff |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"are you both single and available? Will anyone else get hurt by your actions?
If the answers are yes and no respectively what problems will you create?"
We are both single so us getting together won't affect anyone. X |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I saw someone for a couple of months from here.
It does happen and if you are both feeling the same then go for it! Hoping something similar happens for me. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Sounds good to me, I've had relationships with people I've met on here before. At least you get the sexual compatibility bit sorted before anything else, that can be the toughest thing to achieve.
Good luck! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Just wondering how many times you've met? That would have an effect on the advice I would give."
Just once...which is absolutely crazy, but we talked a lot before we met and have not stopped talking to each other (constantly) since x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Just wondering how many times you've met? That would have an effect on the advice I would give.
Just once...which is absolutely crazy, but we talked a lot before we met and have not stopped talking to each other (constantly) since x"
Then id take a step back and wait. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I met the man in my life through Fab. At the first meet we knew something was different. We didn't want to leave. 5 and a half years in and its better than ever. Go for it and enjoy every moment of a fab and vanilla life with each other x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves? "
Please take this with the spirit intended.
Many couples have found happiness on here and it's lovely
My observations over the years, the ones who take time for them do well,
The ones who declare in the forums and rush to couple profiles, less so.
Good luck  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Me and mrs met through here. We met once and it just felt different. It felt right. We have been an item now for well over two years x shes very lucky she found me lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
You're only going to create a problem for yourselves if you're not completely truthful with each other.
You've only just met each other, could be an endorphin overload. My advice would be to chill and enjoy the journey. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Sorry to burst your bubble but after one meet id wait.....had the same thing happen last year ended up with the guy just stringing me along for weeks then going off with some one else pmsl. After one meet its just lust. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Just wondering how many times you've met? That would have an effect on the advice I would give.
Just once...which is absolutely crazy, but we talked a lot before we met and have not stopped talking to each other (constantly) since x"
Then I wouldn't rush into doing anything serious yet, incl making a couples profile. I would suggest you meet up a few more times and see how you feel after that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'd be very wary. Some men will say and do anything to snare a woman to use for bait on a couples profile. "
This is a good point, especially as you've only met him once |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"are you both single and available? Will anyone else get hurt by your actions?
If the answers are yes and no respectively what problems will you create?
We are both single so us getting together won't affect anyone. X"
Then you have found the perfect solution....go for it! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Yes this has happened a few times. Usually with regulars who were in sexless and affection less marriages. I'm not a marriage breaker though so I put an end to it if that happens. They need to understand swinging is swinging. Also happened twice to me with married men with whom I had crazy chemistry and amazing sex, but I ended it to stop falling in love completely. It's one of the main reasons I make myself out to be a much bigger slut than I actually am. Difficult to get attached when there is almost no talking during a quickie and where the man knows he's expected to leave as soon as he cums and not stick around. As soon as you start cuddling and chatting it becomes risky. My two longest relationships (5 and 2 years) both started as regular hookups and after a while fell in love. That's not a problem. The problem is when one is already taken. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Just wondering how many times you've met? That would have an effect on the advice I would give.
Just once...which is absolutely crazy, but we talked a lot before we met and have not stopped talking to each other (constantly) since x"
Careful, you might catch that thing called feelings  It's terrible, leads to things like living together and marriage |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We've discussed having a couple's profile x"
Very good luck my lovely!
Speaking for myself - if I met someone here and we fell for each other - I'd suggest we both take a few months away from swinging to establish our relationship and THEN come back with a couples profile as a secure couple!
I think that would help to quell the insecurities than an open/swinging relationship could cause!
Good luck anyway op. Very happy for you!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I met my fella on another swinging site. We werent looking for love but it happened. We swing together now. We have been together for over 9 years, married for 4 years |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"are you both single and available? Will anyone else get hurt by your actions?
If the answers are yes and no respectively what problems will you create?
We are both single so us getting together won't affect anyone. X"
those were my questions so do whatever makes you both happy |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"are you both single and available? Will anyone else get hurt by your actions?
If the answers are yes and no respectively what problems will you create?
We are both single so us getting together won't affect anyone. X"
in that case go for it. If your happiest together then maybe it was meant to be |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...
You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships
Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
The way I see... if it's meant to be it will.
to make a relationship work it takes more then phenomenal sex.
You don't know each other yet.. that only comes with time.
Just enjoy each other and get to know and learn about each other.
Good luck and hope it works out for the both of
You x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...
"
soooo its a place to meet partners on ???? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I'd say take a breath, step back and decide if it's the endorphin rush of whatever or something more long term.
I had a meet 3 years ago that I wrote about at the time on here -will see if i can find it- and wasn't long term but did point me in the right direction |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If you value their friendship then stay FB's, you'll never get that friendship back if the relationship don't work out. believe me..."
Sounds like you've had some very poor relationship experiences in the past. I personally wouldn't assume that everyone loses friendships once they start sleeping with and dating people. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...
soooo its a place to meet partners on ???? "
People tend to forget that unfortunately . I like reading happy stories on the forums..... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...
soooo its a place to meet partners on ????
People tend to forget that unfortunately . I like reading happy stories on the forums..... "
yes i like it too when that happens but you said its what the site intended for - and i disagree on that score
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...
soooo its a place to meet partners on ???? "
Plenty do |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...
You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships
Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people
"
I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...
You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships
Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people
I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site. "
Yes I know that's not primarily what Fab is for.... but with all the negative posts on the forums... it's nice to hear someone post something happy...
It's like someone stepping in dog poop and finding a diamond ring
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...
soooo its a place to meet partners on ????
People tend to forget that unfortunately . I like reading happy stories on the forums.....
yes i like it too when that happens but you said its what the site intended for - and i disagree on that score
"
The site is intended for people to meet others who are into swinging.
What they meet them for is between them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...
You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships
Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people
I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site.
Yes I know that's not primarily what Fab is for.... but with all the negative posts on the forums... it's nice to hear someone post something happy...
It's like someone stepping in dog poop and finding a diamond ring
"
I'm arranging a meet with a guy that I've been chatting to for years . We're going to meet and fuck each other silly and then go on our merry way and back to reality. That's a happy ending in my book  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...
You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships
Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people
I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site.
Yes I know that's not primarily what Fab is for.... but with all the negative posts on the forums... it's nice to hear someone post something happy...
It's like someone stepping in dog poop and finding a diamond ring
I'm arranging a meet with a guy that I've been chatting to for years . We're going to meet and fuck each other silly and then go on our merry way and back to reality. That's a happy ending in my book "
A happy ending is if his wife or girlfriend doesn't hunt you down a week later  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...
You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships
Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people
I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site.
Yes I know that's not primarily what Fab is for.... but with all the negative posts on the forums... it's nice to hear someone post something happy...
It's like someone stepping in dog poop and finding a diamond ring
I'm arranging a meet with a guy that I've been chatting to for years . We're going to meet and fuck each other silly and then go on our merry way and back to reality. That's a happy ending in my book
A happy ending is if his wife or girlfriend doesn't hunt you down a week later "
I'll take that chance. It's never happened in 8 years and since I don't give personal info I'll be impressed if they do! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...
You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships
Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people
I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site.
Yes I know that's not primarily what Fab is for.... but with all the negative posts on the forums... it's nice to hear someone post something happy...
It's like someone stepping in dog poop and finding a diamond ring
I'm arranging a meet with a guy that I've been chatting to for years . We're going to meet and fuck each other silly and then go on our merry way and back to reality. That's a happy ending in my book "
Absolutely |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...
soooo its a place to meet partners on ???? "
To be fair, swinging does usually mean some sort of relationship. Not exclusive though. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves? "
If you're asking that question then you need to have a very long conversation about it. It could go either way but at least no one will get hurt in the long run. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Thank you so much everyone for your replies.....we've both been reading them and have agreed that there is a lot to talk about xx
Much love to you all |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Thank you so much everyone for your replies.....we've both been reading them and have agreed that there is a lot to talk about xx
Much love to you all "
Good luck to you both jojo you might even develop a stronger relationship than those of us that have had one the normal way. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
One of my friends had a meet with a guy from here, after the first meet they knew there was a spark between them and started dating within a week.
A year later they were married, that was 4 years ago, and they are both still very much in love with each other.
It can definitely happen from here |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"The way I see... if it's meant to be it will.
to make a relationship work it takes more then phenomenal sex.
You don't know each other yet.. that only comes with time.
Just enjoy each other and get to know and learn about each other.
Good luck and hope it works out for the both of
You x"
Totally agree....enjoy time together to get to know eachother first...best of luck |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Enjoy the friendship, and enjoy the swinging.
The "acid test" will come when he sees you shagging someone else for the first time, if he's uncomfortable with that, then you have to ask "Can we both give up swinging and make a go of a relationship based on how we feel now?"
If you cant both say "Yes" honestly... then just stay friends. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Go for it! It could be a great relationship, particularly as you are both 'on the same page' with things...,
We know several couples (including us!) who met through sites/clubs etc and have brilliant relationships and have been together for a long time now.!
Think it's a good idea to take some time out for a while to build on your relationship first, then when you feel ready you can try things together.
Good luck! X |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"A relationship coming from fab will not work as feelings getting stronger and jealously will rage just keep it as fun my advice"
Are you serious? Jealousy ? Many people are here not just for a fuck but because they are truly swingers! I meet at least 6 couples they meet here and some are happily married or engaged! Why the relationship from here is not like any other? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...
You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships
Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people
I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site.
Yes I know that's not primarily what Fab is for.... but with all the negative posts on the forums... it's nice to hear someone post something happy...
It's like someone stepping in dog poop and finding a diamond ring
I'm arranging a meet with a guy that I've been chatting to for years . We're going to meet and fuck each other silly and then go on our merry way and back to reality. That's a happy ending in my book
A happy ending is if his wife or girlfriend doesn't hunt you down a week later "
Why would they ? negativity yet again. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...
You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships
Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people
I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site.
Yes I know that's not primarily what Fab is for.... but with all the negative posts on the forums... it's nice to hear someone post something happy...
It's like someone stepping in dog poop and finding a diamond ring
I'm arranging a meet with a guy that I've been chatting to for years . We're going to meet and fuck each other silly and then go on our merry way and back to reality. That's a happy ending in my book "
My whole life on here is happy. I wouldn't be here if it wasn't. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If you've fallen for each other then why not give the relationship time to grow away from swinging
See how long it lasts "
Why is that smart pants?If they are both here is because they like this life style! I meet this couple on Friday they are together 15 years and swinging almost that time! Sometime I think people think swinging is an issue dismisses the fact that is they life style! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
If it is to be, then it will be.
There is no need to rush it, just take things slowly communicate honestly and openly with each other and see where the road takes you.
If you are both taking it at the same pace I don't really see why it would cause a problem for anyone. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Hi op
Jack and I met here as singles,we weren't looking for more, but it just happened.
We hid our profiles and took time away from fab for a few months,then decided to do it as a couple.
Go for it and good luck xx
Miss |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"A relationship coming from fab will not work as feelings getting stronger and jealously will rage just keep it as fun my advice"
I disagree, if both parties communicate and tell the other how they feel, then there is no reason why jealousy should be a problem in a relationship developed on FAB rather than one developed elsewhere. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hi op
Jack and I met here as singles,we weren't looking for more, but it just happened.
We hid our profiles and took time away from fab for a few months,then decided to do it as a couple.
Go for it and good luck xx
Miss"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"A relationship coming from fab will not work as feelings getting stronger and jealously will rage just keep it as fun my advice
I disagree, if both parties communicate and tell the other how they feel, then there is no reason why jealousy should be a problem in a relationship developed on FAB rather than one developed elsewhere. "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hi op
Jack and I met here as singles,we weren't looking for more, but it just happened.
We hid our profiles and took time away from fab for a few months,then decided to do it as a couple.
Go for it and good luck xx
Miss"
We did the same
Mrs xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves? "
The only problem is if you aren't single. I got involved for 11 months. Had to part. Was very traumatic. If you want it. Enjoy and good luck |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves? "
No. I had a 3 year relationship following a meet. It was brilliant. It was complicated though and had to end. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I have had it and it has caused some issues so u walked away.
I have a a relationship already- being on this site is just for friendship and playing.
I guess it depends if you are both free and single really as to whether its an issue..... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I think you gotta realise that if you do get together he may wanna still be involved in the swinging scene depends if you could cope with him meeting other people or not |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves? "
Nope! If you both feel the same then it sounds perfect!
Ruby |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *nimalsCouple
over a year ago
home |
"I'd be very wary. Some men will say and do anything to snare a woman to use for bait on a couples profile. "
This
So he wants a couples profile ?? lol he's just bullshitting you so he can get more meets I'm afraid |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Just wondering how many times you've met? That would have an effect on the advice I would give.
Just once...which is absolutely crazy, but we talked a lot before we met and have not stopped talking to each other (constantly) since x
Then id take a step back and wait. "
This xxx although I felt the same with my now hubby after meeting once. Was a a few weeks before we went from fab friends  and that was doing 'normal' stuff like food and cinema to becoming a couple x one meet is not enough to start a couples profile up xx
Sorry hadn't read all messages before posting my last message! B xxx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We met as singles on here and after a while decided to try and find more fun so got a couple profile to do it together !
Have met some fab ppl and hope to meet many more but our main thing is that we both still enjoy each other ?
Which after 2 years we most certainly do !!
I feel lucky to have her as my friend with amazing benefits !! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I have, it was absolutely not something I wanted to do.
Wrong time, too many broken pieces. So head and heart battle one another and my wall will go up. I become distant which isn't really fair as we're the best of friends but it's how I cope. I run.
Fight or flight....it's a fight I will never win, and a fight I'm not prepared to even be a contender in.
It's down to me to give myself that slap and talking to. Down to me to remind myself the other person never signed up for anything long term (nor did I!)
I wish you the best of luck, and hope the planets align for you so it all works out. I fucking love a happy ending |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
•+• Access Denied •+• |
a few times. wouldn't go for making a couples profile straight away though. i'd concentrate on building something with them first...and if they don't care to then there's always other guys coming along all the time.
i could do polygamy. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Just take it easy and do what feels natural. Do plan too far ahead and make expectations. Just carry on seeing each other and talking. If it's right it will just all naturally slot into place.
Plus I sort of like the backwards dating option FAB gives you. Sexaul compatability is a big deal to me (and I assume all of us). In the vanilla world you can spend a long time dating before you get to play in the bedroom. So after all that investment it could turn out that you are sexual opposites (reminds me of the Lilly Allen song, not fair). I think sexaul compatability is a good indication of relationship compatability. After all there is no better team work than great sex. So I am a bit of a fan of shag first and if it feels right explore relationship options later. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves? "
As long as you are both single, I can't see how it would be a problem
I met someone from here over a year ago; neither one of us was looking but we ended up in an open relationship. We have met the parents, been on holidays, spend our weekends together and also meet others, together or separately, for fun |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I fell for a guy, but I kicked myself in touch after a few days thankfully. Discovered he's full of male cow poo anyway.
I NEVER want that to happen again.
However, if there's something between you both and nothing in the way, go for it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves?
As long as you are both single, I can't see how it would be a problem
I met someone from here over a year ago; neither one of us was looking but we ended up in an open relationship. We have met the parents, been on holidays, spend our weekends together and also meet others, together or separately, for fun"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aysmitMan
over a year ago
walsall |
"Sorry to burst your bubble but after one meet id wait.....had the same thing happen last year ended up with the guy just stringing me along for weeks then going off with some one else pmsl. After one meet its just lust."
I agree |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
