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Face pic etiquette!
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So this might sound like a bit of a rant and apologies to the forum police, but this has happened to us numerous times now we just felt as though we had to post something up. We've been asked to chat, after a few too and froeing we've asked for face pics to be met with, you first. Seriously?
We don't block newbies who are photo verified, as we all know everyone starts from somewhere, but to be so rude to reply back with "you first", it's really offputting!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So this might sound like a bit of a rant and apologies to the forum police, but this has happened to us numerous times now we just felt as though we had to post something up. We've been asked to chat, after a few too and froeing we've asked for face pics to be met with, you first. Seriously?
We don't block newbies who are photo verified, as we all know everyone starts from somewhere, but to be so rude to reply back with "you first", it's really offputting!
Should there be a brief do's and dont's section when signing up?" If they message you first they should send face pics first. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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Is it a matter of etiquette? People can do what they want, but in the scenario you describe, you are asking them to send you face pics, so why shouldn't they expect you to send pics first with your request, if you are wanting to see theirs?
If people don't reply in a way that suits you that is a big clue they aren't for you, but Fab etiquette is pretty much in the eye of the beholder anyway. People will always act how they want here, there's no mileage in trying to enforce a rule over who sends who pics first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We go by the rule that if we message first we will send a face pic. If they are interested, we expect a face pic to be sent in return. If a face pic is not returned we assume they are either not interested or not playing fair, either way there is no point in pursuing the conversation. If it is them that message first we expect to see a face pic with first message. If there isn't one we won't pursue. We will never ask for a face pic. If we are interested following being sent a face pic, then we will send ours in return. If we are not interested then obviously we won't. Alternatively we might just 'friend them which gives access to our clear face pics. That is what we consider to be face pic etiquette. If people want to be awkward about face pics that not really our problem, as we have enough friends on the swing scene.
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think there are any rules to this one. However if someone pisses me off in a message for any reason its unlikely the meet will go ahead, so its up to the OP whether they take it further. Are the people worth a risk? Then go for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's sometimes down to people's personal situations. I know myself, I always ask to see other people's face pictures first because of discretion. |
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Why do you find it unreasonable OP?
I don't exchange face pics with anyone until I have decided that I want to meet them, if they opt to send me one sooner that is their choice. However, if I was the one asking for a face pic I would send mine with the request, to me that just seems "right". You seem to deem it some kind of right to receive them without showing yours, is that fair? |
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"Why do you find it unreasonable OP?
I don't exchange face pics with anyone until I have decided that I want to meet them, if they opt to send me one sooner that is their choice. However, if I was the one asking for a face pic I would send mine with the request, to me that just seems "right". You seem to deem it some kind of right to receive them without showing yours, is that fair?" I think it's unreasonable because I don't wanna waste my motherfucking time playing email ping pong to realise I wouldn't meet them anyway. |
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By *SPrincessWoman
over a year ago
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This is a problem I have encountered a lot particularly with couples (not couples bashing, just my experience). They often ask for a face pic without having sent one first, even though they've messaged me first.
Those who do this give me the vibe that they feel a bit superior, after all why is it their right to demand one from me without having offered one? It's like they are shopping for the best option and just assume if they like me then it's a done deal. |
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"Why do you find it unreasonable OP?
I don't exchange face pics with anyone until I have decided that I want to meet them, if they opt to send me one sooner that is their choice. However, if I was the one asking for a face pic I would send mine with the request, to me that just seems "right". You seem to deem it some kind of right to receive them without showing yours, is that fair? I think it's unreasonable because I don't wanna waste my motherfucking time playing email ping pong to realise I wouldn't meet them anyway."
Fair enough if that's how you feel but we don't all select our meets solely on a face!! |
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"I've always thought that if no one has face pics public, then the person sending the initial message should attach a face pic with that first message."
Agreed |
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"Why do you find it unreasonable OP?
I don't exchange face pics with anyone until I have decided that I want to meet them, if they opt to send me one sooner that is their choice. However, if I was the one asking for a face pic I would send mine with the request, to me that just seems "right". You seem to deem it some kind of right to receive them without showing yours, is that fair? I think it's unreasonable because I don't wanna waste my motherfucking time playing email ping pong to realise I wouldn't meet them anyway.
Fair enough if that's how you feel but we don't all select our meets solely on a face!!" Oh you are blind date swingers |
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"Whoever messages first must send a face pic........
Must?"
It just shows they are not looking to waste your time... think about your best meets ever.... did you have to fight them for a face pic or number?
My first message is always with a face... I'm not looking to waste anyone's time.... if you like my pic you will respond, if not block me.
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"Why do you find it unreasonable OP?
I don't exchange face pics with anyone until I have decided that I want to meet them, if they opt to send me one sooner that is their choice. However, if I was the one asking for a face pic I would send mine with the request, to me that just seems "right". You seem to deem it some kind of right to receive them without showing yours, is that fair? I think it's unreasonable because I don't wanna waste my motherfucking time playing email ping pong to realise I wouldn't meet them anyway."
I don't class exchanging messages as wasting my time. I need to exchange messages to see if I like their personality. The physical appearance comes secondary. But that's just how I do things. |
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"Why do you find it unreasonable OP?
I don't exchange face pics with anyone until I have decided that I want to meet them, if they opt to send me one sooner that is their choice. However, if I was the one asking for a face pic I would send mine with the request, to me that just seems "right". You seem to deem it some kind of right to receive them without showing yours, is that fair? I think it's unreasonable because I don't wanna waste my motherfucking time playing email ping pong to realise I wouldn't meet them anyway.
I don't class exchanging messages as wasting my time. I need to exchange messages to see if I like their personality. The physical appearance comes secondary. But that's just how I do things. " you are a timewaster |
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"Why do you find it unreasonable OP?
I don't exchange face pics with anyone until I have decided that I want to meet them, if they opt to send me one sooner that is their choice. However, if I was the one asking for a face pic I would send mine with the request, to me that just seems "right". You seem to deem it some kind of right to receive them without showing yours, is that fair? I think it's unreasonable because I don't wanna waste my motherfucking time playing email ping pong to realise I wouldn't meet them anyway.
Fair enough if that's how you feel but we don't all select our meets solely on a face!! Oh you are blind date swingers "
To reiterate: "I don't exchange face pics with anyone until I have decided that I want to meet them"
Like playful minx I prefer to make my judgements based on more than just what somebody looks like. |
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"Why do you find it unreasonable OP?
I don't exchange face pics with anyone until I have decided that I want to meet them, if they opt to send me one sooner that is their choice. However, if I was the one asking for a face pic I would send mine with the request, to me that just seems "right". You seem to deem it some kind of right to receive them without showing yours, is that fair? I think it's unreasonable because I don't wanna waste my motherfucking time playing email ping pong to realise I wouldn't meet them anyway.
I don't class exchanging messages as wasting my time. I need to exchange messages to see if I like their personality. The physical appearance comes secondary. But that's just how I do things. "
I don't think messaging is a waste of my time either, which is why I don't exchange face pics until I have chatted with a guy and established whether we have a rapport. It takes more than a face/body to make me want to meet |
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"Why do you find it unreasonable OP?
I don't exchange face pics with anyone until I have decided that I want to meet them, if they opt to send me one sooner that is their choice. However, if I was the one asking for a face pic I would send mine with the request, to me that just seems "right". You seem to deem it some kind of right to receive them without showing yours, is that fair? I think it's unreasonable because I don't wanna waste my motherfucking time playing email ping pong to realise I wouldn't meet them anyway.
Fair enough if that's how you feel but we don't all select our meets solely on a face!! Oh you are blind date swingers
To reiterate: "I don't exchange face pics with anyone until I have decided that I want to meet them"
Like playful minx I prefer to make my judgements based on more than just what somebody looks like. " So what happens if the guy is 1 charming motherfucker but looks like the elephant man you don't feel you wasted your time? You are giving false hope also which isn't nice. |
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"So this might sound like a bit of a rant and apologies to the forum police, but this has happened to us numerous times now we just felt as though we had to post something up. We've been asked to chat, after a few too and froeing we've asked for face pics to be met with, you first. Seriously?
We don't block newbies who are photo verified, as we all know everyone starts from somewhere, but to be so rude to reply back with "you first", it's really offputting!
Should there be a brief do's and dont's section when signing up?"
Why would you ask for a face pic without sending one first? If you've been chatting for a while and get on then just send a pic. If they like the look of you then they'll send one back. It's really that simple.
I can't believe you've got the nerve to rant over such a hypocritical situation that you've created. |
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Tend to ignore the requests for a pic without their's attached now. Far too many timewasters/pic collectors/nosey peeps/ and the people that would never meet you unless you looked like Brad Pitt.
(Yes I do.. if you squint at me from behind)
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If we message someone we always attach a face pic with the very first message- then they don't even have to respond if they're not interested.
We would then appreciate theirs on their return message (if there is one) but if they don't then after a few messages, and no pic, we would usually ask for them then. Majority tend to reply with a pics without us asking though.
If someone messages us first, regardless of whether or not they've attached a pic, we also then reply with our pics.
To me the sooner face pics are exchanged the better as it saves wasting time messaging back and forth if either/both/or ends up not interested.
What annoys me most though is when we send face pics, and then the couple replies asking for our email address to send theirs as they can't/won't send theirs via fab that's irritating but not so much that I would rant on about it.
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"We don't send them but normally tell people that and explain we don't expect theirs either. We prefer chat on phone first to see others who they say they are and take it from there.
Amy and Gareth"
How has this worked out for you guys? |
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"If we message someone we always attach a face pic with the very first message- then they don't even have to respond if they're not interested.
We would then appreciate theirs on their return message (if there is one) but if they don't then after a few messages, and no pic, we would usually ask for them then. Majority tend to reply with a pics without us asking though.
If someone messages us first, regardless of whether or not they've attached a pic, we also then reply with our pics.
To me the sooner face pics are exchanged the better as it saves wasting time messaging back and forth if either/both/or ends up not interested.
What annoys me most though is when we send face pics, and then the couple replies asking for our email address to send theirs as they can't/won't send theirs via fab that's irritating but not so much that I would rant on about it.
Sassy "
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"If we message someone we always attach a face pic with the very first message- then they don't even have to respond if they're not interested.
We would then appreciate theirs on their return message (if there is one) but if they don't then after a few messages, and no pic, we would usually ask for them then. Majority tend to reply with a pics without us asking though.
If someone messages us first, regardless of whether or not they've attached a pic, we also then reply with our pics.
To me the sooner face pics are exchanged the better as it saves wasting time messaging back and forth if either/both/or ends up not interested.
What annoys me most though is when we send face pics, and then the couple replies asking for our email address to send theirs as they can't/won't send theirs via fab that's irritating but not so much that I would rant on about it.
Sassy " you are genuine swingers |
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We get guys messaging us saying they will send a face pic if we are interested. But we think we don't know if we are interested if we don't know what they look like. I supppose some would say chat first and see if there is a connection that way. But I don't really like on-line chatting. In all honesty the only times we've ever arranged a meet is when I see a face that I really really fancy. It's different in clubs or parties - I can become attracted to someone based on their personality which may override their looks. But I feel all I have when on line is the face. So the face I must see. |
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For all those saying 'i only ask/send a face pic if I'm interested in meeting them'. How long do you wait to ask. Like, call me shallow but I don't wanna get into deep conversation if they send a pic and I'm like 'hellllll noooooo'. That makes for an awkward predicament.
I'd rather them just got it over with from the get go! |
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"For all those saying 'i only ask/send a face pic if I'm interested in meeting them'. How long do you wait to ask. Like, call me shallow but I don't wanna get into deep conversation if they send a pic and I'm like 'hellllll noooooo'. That makes for an awkward predicament.
I'd rather them just got it over with from the get go! " Yes rejection is best done quickly without false hope. |
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We are not always looking to meet, so when some people say hi and want a facepic. Whether we liked them or not it could be months before we met.
I think this thread demonstrates there is no standard etiquette for face pics.
From the OP down, everyone has different expectations. |
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"So this might sound like a bit of a rant and apologies to the forum police, but this has happened to us numerous times now we just felt as though we had to post something up. We've been asked to chat, after a few too and froeing we've asked for face pics to be met with, you first. Seriously?
We don't block newbies who are photo verified, as we all know everyone starts from somewhere, but to be so rude to reply back with "you first", it's really offputting!
Should there be a brief do's and dont's section when signing up?"
Who contacted who first?
Personally I think whoever made the first contact should be the one who shows face pics first. |
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"We get guys messaging us saying they will send a face pic if we are interested. But we think we don't know if we are interested if we don't know what they look like. I supppose some would say chat first and see if there is a connection that way. But I don't really like on-line chatting. In all honesty the only times we've ever arranged a meet is when I see a face that I really really fancy. It's different in clubs or parties - I can become attracted to someone based on their personality which may override their looks. But I feel all I have when on line is the face. So the face I must see. "
Me too |
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"I've always thought that if no one has face pics public, then the person sending the initial message should attach a face pic with that first message."
Agree |
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"Why do you find it unreasonable OP?
I don't exchange face pics with anyone until I have decided that I want to meet them, if they opt to send me one sooner that is their choice. However, if I was the one asking for a face pic I would send mine with the request, to me that just seems "right". You seem to deem it some kind of right to receive them without showing yours, is that fair? I think it's unreasonable because I don't wanna waste my motherfucking time playing email ping pong to realise I wouldn't meet them anyway.
I don't class exchanging messages as wasting my time. I need to exchange messages to see if I like their personality. The physical appearance comes secondary. But that's just how I do things. you are a timewaster "
Yes I know. I'm all talk and no action. I never meet anyone |
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I agree, normally first break the ice should send first, I would also say from my experience you as a couple are in the driving seat, and someone like myself on the single side should and want to provide, especially after a few messages.
I would then like to mention as happened once and was so gutted. If face pic not your cup of tea or someone you know/ recognise and don't want too go there, if been messages always worth message just saying not for us etc. |
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"So this might sound like a bit of a rant and apologies to the forum police, but this has happened to us numerous times now we just felt as though we had to post something up. We've been asked to chat, after a few too and froeing we've asked for face pics to be met with, you first. Seriously?
We don't block newbies who are photo verified, as we all know everyone starts from somewhere, but to be so rude to reply back with "you first", it's really offputting!
Should there be a brief do's and dont's section when signing up?"
We had the same with a couple recently despite us being far more verified than they are.
They asked to take the convo to kik to exchange pics which we don't like to do but we did nonetheless..
They then said 'you first' when the kil convo was started. Annoying but we sent the picture. They sent back a face pic that was unclear and didn't show the full faces. They then said they are wary of sending face pics so would rather not send another.
That was a 'no thanks' for us.
Shalln't be messing around anymore.
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"For all those saying 'i only ask/send a face pic if I'm interested in meeting them'. How long do you wait to ask. Like, call me shallow but I don't wanna get into deep conversation if they send a pic and I'm like 'hellllll noooooo'. That makes for an awkward predicament.
I'd rather them just got it over with from the get go! "
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I was talking to someone on here (only a few messages back and forth) they asked for my face pic so i sent it them. Never thought of myself as ugly until they blocked me
So i send my facepic in first message now. Better for the ol ego |
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We never send face pics. We always meet socially first to see if we all want to play and then arrange the meet. Often we meet at clubs anyway so obviously see what the person is like.
It works well for us and has never neen a problem to the guys we meet |
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Generally when we ask for face pics we send ours on the msg asking. Our face pictures prove othing they can do what they want with them. So we don't see the harm in sending them, if they don't reply or do t send theirs then clearly they're not interested.
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"I've always thought that if no one has face pics public, then the person sending the initial message should attach a face pic with that first message."
Yep, me too. I don't send many first messages but if I do, I attach my face picture. I don't have any conversation without seeing a face. |
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"We never send face pics. We always meet socially first to see if we all want to play and then arrange the meet. Often we meet at clubs anyway so obviously see what the person is like.
It works well for us and has never neen a problem to the guys we meet " yup that's how we do things also.far to many weirdo blokes on here trying to pass themselves as females or couples.if you like the feel of the situation just meet them and if they aren't what you are looking for just don't take things further and enjoy your nite regardless. |
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"I've always thought that if no one has face pics public, then the person sending the initial message should attach a face pic with that first message.
Yep, me too. I don't send many first messages but if I do, I attach my face picture. I don't have any conversation without seeing& a face."
Agree, I find it very strange having a conversation with someone when I don't know what they look like. To me that's unnatural.
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"We never send face pics. We always meet socially first to see if we all want to play and then arrange the meet. Often we meet at clubs anyway so obviously see what the person is like.
It works well for us and has never neen a problem to the guys we meet yup that's how we do things also.far to many weirdo blokes on here trying to pass themselves as females or couples.if you like the feel of the situation just meet them and if they aren't what you are looking for just don't take things further and enjoy your nite regardless."
For us, our time is way too limited to risk meeting someone that we may not fancy. When we meet, we meet to eventually play. If we get it wrong that's a waste of babysitting that could have been used for play with someone else. So we have to know what they look like. Besides we would hate to go through all the effort of getting ready, arranging babysitting, juggling our diary, saying no to other possibilities, only to find we don't fancy them.
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"We never send face pics. We always meet socially first to see if we all want to play and then arrange the meet. Often we meet at clubs anyway so obviously see what the person is like.
It works well for us and has never neen a problem to the guys we meet yup that's how we do things also.far to many weirdo blokes on here trying to pass themselves as females or couples.if you like the feel of the situation just meet them and if they aren't what you are looking for just don't take things further and enjoy your nite regardless.
For us, our time is way too limited to risk meeting someone that we may not fancy. When we meet, we meet to eventually play. If we get it wrong that's a waste of babysitting that could have been used for play with someone else. So we have to know what they look like. Besides we would hate to go through all the effort of getting ready, arranging babysitting, juggling our diary, saying no to other possibilities, only to find we don't fancy them.
Mrs" yep know where you are coming from we have been let down a couple times.that's why when we are ment to be meeting.....I know this sounds a bit shallow but we have a back up. (someone we have met a couple times so know what to expect). |
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"We never send face pics. We always meet socially first to see if we all want to play and then arrange the meet. Often we meet at clubs anyway so obviously see what the person is like.
It works well for us and has never neen a problem to the guys we meet yup that's how we do things also.far to many weirdo blokes on here trying to pass themselves as females or couples.if you like the feel of the situation just meet them and if they aren't what you are looking for just don't take things further and enjoy your nite regardless.
For us, our time is way too limited to risk meeting someone that we may not fancy. When we meet, we meet to eventually play. If we get it wrong that's a waste of babysitting that could have been used for play with someone else. So we have to know what they look like. Besides we would hate to go through all the effort of getting ready, arranging babysitting, juggling our diary, saying no to other possibilities, only to find we don't fancy them.
Mrsyep know where you are coming from we have been let down a couple times.that's why when we are ment to be meeting.....I know this sounds a bit shallow but we have a back up. (someone we have met a couple times so know what to expect)."
Don't think we would get away with that. We have 2 guys we play with who we consider reliable. I don't think they'd ever be free at the last minute though. |
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"So this might sound like a bit of a rant and apologies to the forum police, but this has happened to us numerous times now we just felt as though we had to post something up. We've been asked to chat, after a few too and froeing we've asked for face pics to be met with, you first. Seriously?
We don't block newbies who are photo verified, as we all know everyone starts from somewhere, but to be so rude to reply back with "you first", it's really offputting!
Should there be a brief do's and dont's section when signing up?"
There is a challenge with text talk I think. It is very easy to sound rude or aggressive by simply being economical with words, that being said, if they had been lucky enough to get a text chat going with you then I think they should have been brave enough to send a face pic when you requested it. |
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"We never send face pics. We always meet socially first to see if we all want to play and then arrange the meet. Often we meet at clubs anyway so obviously see what the person is like.
It works well for us and has never neen a problem to the guys we meet yup that's how we do things also.far to many weirdo blokes on here trying to pass themselves as females or couples.if you like the feel of the situation just meet them and if they aren't what you are looking for just don't take things further and enjoy your nite regardless.
For us, our time is way too limited to risk meeting someone that we may not fancy. When we meet, we meet to eventually play. If we get it wrong that's a waste of babysitting that could have been used for play with someone else. So we have to know what they look like. Besides we would hate to go through all the effort of getting ready, arranging babysitting, juggling our diary, saying no to other possibilities, only to find we don't fancy them.
Mrsyep know where you are coming from we have been let down a couple times.that's why when we are ment to be meeting.....I know this sounds a bit shallow but we have a back up. (someone we have met a couple times so know what to expect).
Don't think we would get away with that. We have 2 guys we play with who we consider reliable. I don't think they'd ever be free at the last minute though." u need to find yourselfs a guy who works night shift and is olso the boss so can be "on call" haha.a rare find. |
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"So this might sound like a bit of a rant and apologies to the forum police, but this has happened to us numerous times now we just felt as though we had to post something up. We've been asked to chat, after a few too and froeing we've asked for face pics to be met with, you first. Seriously?
We don't block newbies who are photo verified, as we all know everyone starts from somewhere, but to be so rude to reply back with "you first", it's really offputting!
Should there be a brief do's and dont's section when signing up?"
If you wanted to see our face pics I would expect a message with your face pics first asking to then see ours, if we wanted to see yours we would send ours with the same message |
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