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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
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Well....
There are straight men that aren't, straight women that aren't even female and one person couples!
But with patience and searching long and hard through the mire, I'm sure you'll find what your looking for. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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Yes its very hard.
The problem is you have to appeal to both partners. Often that doesn't happen in the cold light of day.
Very different if they are both in the mood at the time and your in a club together. Although sometimes they can regret that after, if both of their needs were not met in the way they wanted. Couples have complex dynamics.
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over a year ago
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"Yes its very hard.
The problem is you have to appeal to both partners. Often that doesn't happen in the cold light of day.
Very different if they are both in the mood at the time and your in a club together. Although sometimes they can regret that after, if both of their needs were not met in the way they wanted. Couples have complex dynamics.
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Nail on the head ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"Yes its very hard.
The problem is you have to appeal to both partners. Often that doesn't happen in the cold light of day.
Very different if they are both in the mood at the time and your in a club together. Although sometimes they can regret that after, if both of their needs were not met in the way they wanted. Couples have complex dynamics.
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Perhaps if I put in my profile "Can match complex dynamics" that should sort it? |
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Perhaps if I put in my profile "Can match complex dynamics" that should sort it?"
Perhaps putting BI in your profile might help you meet a "genuine bi couple", which was the theme of this thread. |
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Greater London's a huge place, so people may be looking more locally and not travelling the larger distances that some people may do outside of London.
Bisexuality is a marked characteristic on Fab, where not everyone is fully open, due to inhibition - this can mean that searches don't reveal the reality of who's really out there.
It does mean that if single guys aren't searchable as bi, then they'll also not show up to couples/others.
I think it's wise to go along to clubs and meet people in person, getting to know them - many have bi/curious nights. |
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