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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it me or are there loads of fakes on here and people with all talk and no balls.
Seem to say they wanna meet but chat first, I am happy with that. Chat for a couple of days get intimate. Suggest meeting either block or ignore.
Just don't get it any help would be appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Am not pushy at all an letting everyone make the first move in the conversation,about which way it takes. They have said let's chat first before a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can be frustrating i suggest arranging to go for a drink and chat then see if they want to go further at end of the day they need to feel safe in your company as your a complete stranger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe when chatting to them you said something that they found offputting so they no longer want to chat to you.
Often i find it's easier to block or ignore such guys rather than try to explain why I'm no longer interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could it be that they just decide you aren't for them.
A conversation does not guarantee a fuck but it seems you are the common factor here.
What is it about your approach that make people change their minds? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I realise that just talking does not guarantee sex. I enjoy getting to know people. When you chat for 3 hours solid in one evening getting all intimate. Giving them what they want to hear in a non pushy way.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I realise that just talking does not guarantee sex. I enjoy getting to know people. When you chat for 3 hours solid in one evening getting all intimate. Giving them what they want to hear in a non pushy way.
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What's the common denominator in all these conversations? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I realise that just talking does not guarantee sex. I enjoy getting to know people. When you chat for 3 hours solid in one evening getting all intimate. Giving them what they want to hear in a non pushy way.
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your one and only messages to me implies otherwise. although i do feel it isn't pushy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Giving them what they want to hear in a non pushy way.
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Maybe they realise that you are just saying anything to get in their pants and don't come across as genuine |
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It might be that they are confused that you describe yourself as straight but have a verification from a tv/ts and maybe chat a while to gauge compatibility. Don't worry about it. There's nothing you can do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Giving them what they want to hear in a non pushy way.
Maybe they realise that you are just saying anything to get in their pants and don't come across as genuine"
I guess that could be taken that way. But am answering as genuine and honest as possible. Am not one to lie to get what I want |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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I don't know what a realistic timescale is between initial,messages and actually meeting someone. However real life for most takes over and many have to plan in advance. That doesn't make them a timewaster or a fantasist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I realise that just talking does not guarantee sex. I enjoy getting to know people. When you chat for 3 hours solid in one evening getting all intimate. Giving them what they want to hear in a non pushy way.
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Then the next day you ask them to meet, they give you a valid reason for not being able to meet immediately and possibly suggest another day etc when they can meet....are they time wasting or are you because damn it you want to meet now not in a weeks time!! |
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It's possible they just got cold feet, when the fantasy starts to become real it can be scary for some, doesn't mean they are fake , I suppose you could say they are wasting your time but might not be intentional by them.
Happens to us couples all the time too |
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