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By *imale38 OP   Man  over a year ago

Barnsley

Ladies. How would you react if you found out your 'straight' husband enjoyed cross dressing and wearing a cock cage??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would hope he felt he could talk to me about this and not hide it from me for fear of my reaction.

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By *imale38 OP   Man  over a year ago

Barnsley

But what would you do if you found it??

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By *imale38 OP   Man  over a year ago

Barnsley

Anyone else??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But what would you do if you found it??"

It would depend on what he has done behind my back.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't have an issue with it. He'd still be the same man.

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By *eavenscentitCouple  over a year ago

barnstaple

Wouldn't bother me, I would hope he could chat about it

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By *ustMe06Woman  over a year ago

...the naughty spot.

To me, the dressing, and cock cage aren't the problem....hiding it is. I'd be very hurt, I'd want to know why he can't be honest with me, and what had been going on. Then I'd expect to talk and sort out where we went from there...

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

I'd be sad he'd not trusted me to tell me but then I'd be fine with it.

But not all women will be. I know someone who had this happen to her and she freaked and dumped him.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"To me, the dressing, and cock cage aren't the problem....hiding it is. I'd be very hurt, I'd want to know why he can't be honest with me, and what had been going on. Then I'd expect to talk and sort out where we went from there..."

yeah I think I'd react like that.

I had this conversation with some friends once and they all said they would leave their husband over it. They thought I was odd because I didn't condemn it as disgusting.

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By *ysnomiaMan  over a year ago

Preston


"Ladies. How would you react if you found out your 'straight' husband enjoyed cross dressing and wearing a cock cage??"
Are you going to see how cross dressing goes down, and depending on that then show her your profile on here?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ladies. How would you react if you found out your 'straight' husband enjoyed cross dressing and wearing a cock cage??Are you going to see how cross dressing goes down, and depending on that then show her your profile on here?"

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By *imale38 OP   Man  over a year ago

Barnsley

I'd love to be able to tell her about me being on here and being bi but I think that would def be a divorce. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd love to be able to tell her about me being on here and being bi but I think that would def be a divorce. Lol"

Remember this statement when it comes to dealing with women you love...... it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But what would you do if you found it??"

I'd be disappointed that he felt he couldn't talk to me about it.

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By *imale38 OP   Man  over a year ago

Barnsley

Were not an 'open' couple when it comes down to sexual matters. Lol.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

Is there more to this op than just the dressing and cock cage? Such as enjoying sex with others, when she's not aware of it (that's an assumption that you wan to, not that you have)?

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By *imale38 OP   Man  over a year ago

Barnsley

Yes. I love playing with guys.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would hope he felt he could talk to me about this and not hide it from me for fear of my reaction."

This should be the response every time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Were not an 'open' couple when it comes down to sexual matters. Lol. "

Perhaps you need to reconsider if you're right for each other, because it seems like you're into very different things.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In fact I recently started crossdressing and was able to tell a trusted female friend

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By *imale38 OP   Man  over a year ago

Barnsley

A few female friends know all about it.

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By *eavenscentitCouple  over a year ago

barnstaple


"Were not an 'open' couple when it comes down to sexual matters. Lol. "

When N told me he sucked and wanked men, I can't remember being shocked. I was intrigued and a little turned on. I want us to be able to discuss things. It made me feel closer to him to be honest. I would hate him to have to hide it from me

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Were not an 'open' couple when it comes down to sexual matters. Lol. "

Is that both of you or has one of you tried being open and been shut down?

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By *imale38 OP   Man  over a year ago

Barnsley

We literally have sex maybe once every few months. She knows I wank on my own but she doesn't fancy it. I'm starting to think it's me.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"We literally have sex maybe once every few months. She knows I wank on my own but she doesn't fancy it. I'm starting to think it's me. "

We can't solve this for you. Talking to your partner is the only way this is going to move forward. It's difficult to bring the subject up if you're not normally open about sex but it's that or carry on as you are.

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By * SCARED x STIFF xCouple  over a year ago

west midlands


"We literally have sex maybe once every few months. She knows I wank on my own but she doesn't fancy it. I'm starting to think it's me. "

Well it definitely takes 2 people to make a good sex life.

Some advice if you are open to it,

Put fab and cross dressing on hold for 1 month, the time you normally would spend on here spend it with her or planning things for her, woo her and seduce her like you would if you had just met , start to talk about sex more , we are one month away from valentines night , plan something special and build towards it , tell her you want a fresh start , life's too short for a boring existence , if you are no better off after a month then fair enough carry on as you are , but as one half of a couple that has rediscovered our passion for each other I implore you to give it a go, otherwise you may never understand true happiness.

If you both have mobile phones check out the app "ipassion" it's a stupid little game you can play while apart but it got things moving for us

Good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"We literally have sex maybe once every few months. She knows I wank on my own but she doesn't fancy it. I'm starting to think it's me.

Well it definitely takes 2 people to make a good sex life.

Some advice if you are open to it,

Put fab and cross dressing on hold for 1 month, the time you normally would spend on here spend it with her or planning things for her, woo her and seduce her like you would if you had just met , start to talk about sex more , we are one month away from valentines night , plan something special and build towards it , tell her you want a fresh start , life's too short for a boring existence , if you are no better off after a month then fair enough carry on as you are , but as one half of a couple that has rediscovered our passion for each other I implore you to give it a go, otherwise you may never understand true happiness.

If you both have mobile phones check out the app "ipassion" it's a stupid little game you can play while apart but it got things moving for us

Good luck "

Excellent advice

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By *imale38 OP   Man  over a year ago

Barnsley

Thank you all for your advice.

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By *lik and PaulCouple  over a year ago

Flagrante

If it made him happy it wouldn't be a problem for me....I would be more upset if he felt he couldn't be open about it with me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would hope he felt he could talk to me about this and not hide it from me for fear of my reaction."

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