Just after some guidance and opinions, just starting our journey, would you recommend a private meet with a couple or attend a club and just go for it, only had one experience with a couple that wasn't planned |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We started at a club, so we could go along and see how it was and leg it if we didn't like it.!
Thankfully we were lucky that the club we chose was great, everyone very friendly and respectful and eased us into things.
A year down the line we help out behind the bar and enjoy chatting to newbies and hopefully easing their way into things too xx |
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"Thinking club and if it's not what we though then leave, would find it awkward leaving a meet I think, I would imagine easier to meet more people at a club to try strike up friendships "
I guess it would be.
We insist on a social only meet first but have left a party because it wasn't for us.
One thing I would say is that there will come a time when you will have to face the awkward situation of saying no face to face even in a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We started out going to clubs and just played with each other to start with so there was no pressure. This happened for quite a while whilst we got comfortable, we only recently progressed to a swap after meeting a couple in a club and we're very happy with the way we did things.
However, it may not be for everyone of course. We just know it worked for us. Miss T |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Another vote for clubs here - there's no pressure to play (perceived or otherwise), it's a relaxed and generally sexy atmosphere.
The only downside of clubs is if you're shy wallflower types (as we are but are getting better at not being) as you need to be willing to approach and talk to others and not just expect they will talk to you first. |
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