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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As were new to this do the rules change slightly in here? We were playing in the dark room at a club at the weekend when a bloke put his hand near Lucy's crotch at first we thought ok it's dark it was quite busy thought it might be a accident but he went for it a second time at which point we got up and went to a different room.were not against this but the guy was way older than we'd play with and thought he should've given us chance to either agree or not? Or as its pitch black in there is it supposed to be kind of the point anyone can touch as you supposedly can't see? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm no expert. But I'd always thought it was pretty much a free for all. The experiences I've had have been where hands are roaming freely. But I don't think you can just start waving your dick around til it hits a hole !
I could be wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just to add. I am the sort that's happy to lie back in a dark room and let people play with me if they wish. But I will always wait for a response if I happen to start making contact with someone else x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As were new to this do the rules change slightly in here? We were playing in the dark room at a club at the weekend when a bloke put his hand near Lucy's crotch at first we thought ok it's dark it was quite busy thought it might be a accident but he went for it a second time at which point we got up and went to a different room.were not against this but the guy was way older than we'd play with and thought he should've given us chance to either agree or not? Or as its pitch black in there is it supposed to be kind of the point anyone can touch as you supposedly can't see? "
If it was pitch black how do you know it was an older guy? it could have been a young bird |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me I'd say that's the point of the dark room. You go in not knowing what your going to find.. and come out none the wiser."
Yes it's as said above and before. Part of the fun is not knowing but normally it's caressing and see or rather feel responses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a topic which divides people, but despite some people saying anything goes the rules of good etiquette should apply in the dark room as well as in any other part of the club. But that is only my view and I don't go into dark rooms.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's kinda the point of a dark room surely, it's a place you go to grope and be groped. They might be fit they might be grotesque but you'll never know. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I think with dark rooms by entering you consent to being touched without being asked first but no still means no and stop still means stop."
This is our interpretation, which is why we don't use them. I like to know who's about to grope me and have the option to say no |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"As were new to this do the rules change slightly in here? We were playing in the dark room at a club at the weekend when a bloke put his hand near Lucy's crotch at first we thought ok it's dark it was quite busy thought it might be a accident but he went for it a second time at which point we got up and went to a different room.were not against this but the guy was way older than we'd play with and thought he should've given us chance to either agree or not? Or as its pitch black in there is it supposed to be kind of the point anyone can touch as you supposedly can't see? "
Just say no or move the hand away, they should respect that |
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