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"I've never been to a swinging club before but would love to try it out sometime. What are they like? Is it better to go with someone?"
Can be great fun clubs but research before you go and try to go on a single guy friendly night. Well that depends on you do you have an outgoing personality and are you brave enough to talk and approach couples? If you are shy best trying to find a lady to go with. You don't get many single ladies looking to take newbies with them though and you don't get many single lady's in clubs.
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"I've never been to a swinging club before but would love to try it out sometime. What are they like? Is it better to go with someone? Can be great fun clubs but research before you go and try to go on a single guy friendly night. Well that depends on you do you have an outgoing personality and are you brave enough to talk and approach couples? If you are shy best trying to find a lady to go with. You don't get many single ladies looking to take newbies with them though and you don't get many single lady's in clubs."
I'm not afraid to approach couples, just find it a little nerve wrecking going for the first time. May go in the future with someone when I find an ideal match |
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"I've never been to a swinging club before but would love to try it out sometime. What are they like? Is it better to go with someone? Can be great fun clubs but research before you go and try to go on a single guy friendly night. Well that depends on you do you have an outgoing personality and are you brave enough to talk and approach couples? If you are shy best trying to find a lady to go with. You don't get many single ladies looking to take newbies with them though and you don't get many single lady's in clubs.
I'm not afraid to approach couples, just find it a little nerve wrecking going for the first time. May go in the future with someone when I find an ideal match"
If you are not afraid just go for it then it's an adventure, just be polite, friendly, sociable and you will probably do well. Going with a lady also has it downfalls too, trying to find 4 way attraction isn't easy and being on your own you can play with multiple lady's in 1 night without having to worry about upsetting the lady you went with. You might not alwats play probably depends on how fussy you are as well because you don't get many attractive greedy girls. |
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"I've never been to a swinging club before but would love to try it out sometime. What are they like? Is it better to go with someone? Can be great fun clubs but research before you go and try to go on a single guy friendly night. Well that depends on you do you have an outgoing personality and are you brave enough to talk and approach couples? If you are shy best trying to find a lady to go with. You don't get many single ladies looking to take newbies with them though and you don't get many single lady's in clubs.
I'm not afraid to approach couples, just find it a little nerve wrecking going for the first time. May go in the future with someone when I find an ideal match If you are not afraid just go for it then it's an adventure, just be polite, friendly, sociable and you will probably do well. Going with a lady also has it downfalls too, trying to find 4 way attraction isn't easy and being on your own you can play with multiple lady's in 1 night without having to worry about upsetting the lady you went with. You might not alwats play probably depends on how fussy you are as well because you don't get many attractive greedy girls."
Ah yes that is true from that point, I've noted that! Thanks |
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While being sociable does vastly increase your chances don't always assume that the couple will want to play with you. They will probably let you know if they do. Definitely don't do what a lot of single guys have done after we have talked with them and spend the rest of the night following the couple around the club. |
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"While being sociable does vastly increase your chances don't always assume that the couple will want to play with you. They will probably let you know if they do. Definitely don't do what a lot of single guys have done after we have talked with them and spend the rest of the night following the couple around the club."
yeah of course but if you don't try you will never know. Some couples expect the single men to make the move and aren't very pro active. It is good to try arrange meets or see who is advertised to go and try workout who they are and if they are single guy friendly. Can be difficult to work out who is looking for single guys.
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"I've never been to a swinging club before but would love to try it out sometime. What are they like? Is it better to go with someone?"
I find these impossible to answer. I'm sure they are different to everyone. And all clubs are different.
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