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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow "

Yes. I need to be attracted to someone I have sex with. Shocking I know!!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Let me see it and I'll tell you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow

Yes. I need to be attracted to someone I have sex with. Shocking I know!!"

This!

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By *ay19720Man over a year ago

Ashford kent

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow

Yes. I need to be attracted to someone I have sex with. Shocking I know!!"

It is shallow but attraction is important. .

If u want to be just a cock ..go to a club.?

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By *ay19720Man over a year ago

Ashford kent

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow

Yes. I need to be attracted to someone I have sex with. Shocking I know!!

This!"

Great pics JR..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow

Yes. I need to be attracted to someone I have sex with. Shocking I know!!

This!"

Your pics are hot x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow

Yes. I need to be attracted to someone I have sex with. Shocking I know!!

This!

Your pics are hot x"

Very kind, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow "

You answered your own question.

Some people need an attraction. It's how it is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most people are here to fulfill there ultimate fantasies. They're going to want to do that with someone they're attracted to.

Brutal but how it is.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

It always makes me laugh when people ask this question, Would you say yes to everyone who asks you to meet ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I probably sound shallow but a pretty face is by far better than a hot bod or big dick. Go for personalities too!

Mrs Sweet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow

Yes. I need to be attracted to someone I have sex with. Shocking I know!!

It is shallow but attraction is important. .

If u want to be just a cock ..go to a club.?"

Need to be more then a cock at a club you need everything including a personality unless you use the dark rooms

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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I'm shallow....ho hum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow "

Are you so shallow your shag someone you don't fancy then?

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By *-angel-XWoman over a year ago

hell

Yes

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

I would turn someone down unless I found their face at least interesting.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Yes, people are shallow enough to want to find the man attractive.

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By *reenleavesCouple over a year ago

North Wales

Face photos can tell you a lot about a person's nature and character. Or they can spark a bad memory. Or maybe your body pics conjured up a face image in their mind and the reality was too different?

We chatted briefly with a couple on another site once. Body pics were great. Face pics, once we got them, made them look like they lived under a bridge.

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By *loppsyWoman over a year ago

marlow

Guess I'm shallow as I need to find someone attractive or there is no point x

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

So OP, are you saying you would have sex with someone you don't find attractive, or are you 'that shallow' that you need to be attracted to a person to have sex with them?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Not necessarily shallow op,we all find different things attractive.

If i were you i'd make sure I sent a face pic earlier rather than later.It saves time if theres no attraction etc.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes OP and it works both ways!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know someone he is very old 60 years and he is ugly and slim . And he fuck very sexy women from this site . I will send to u his profil in ur pm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow "

yes...its not blind date

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I must be shallow as I find it massively important to be attracted to a lady otherwise it's just another notch rather than the start of something new

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple over a year ago

Manchester Area

A personality is important, but attraction is also important. I would hate to think someone was using me as a hole

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By *iscean MaleMan over a year ago

Darlaston

Some of it also depends what we expect... ie if one is happy with a social and it not goin any further perhaps attraction is not important... where if you either want sex or hope it builds to sex then yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not shallow... sex is often about physical attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yeah god forbid people wanting to be attracted to the person they meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Such is life pal really, try Tinder its even more brutal but like many said "You do have to be attracted to the person" and if your putting yourself out there online I think you need a thicker skin.

Maybe you should try clubs etc?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow "

That's why they ask for a face pic. No likey..no jiggy. It works for everyone. Even us guys are allowed to say no at that, or subsequent time. I know...I've done it myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm shallow....ho hum"

Same

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Obviously must be some sort of attraction. it could looks or personality.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow "

Happens to me most of the time too. It's not a bad thing though, and doesn't mean people are shallow at all. You're not their type just like you aren't attracted to every single person on here. Much rather send a face pic and get rejected on here rather than travelling to a meet just to get stood up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow

Yes. I need to be attracted to someone I have sex with. Shocking I know!!"

How very dare you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did you offer doggy style?

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

It happens to us all. At least you knock it on the head early that way and don't end up being disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow

Yes. I need to be attracted to someone I have sex with. Shocking I know!!

It is shallow but attraction is important. ."

So you'd fuck anyone even if you thought they were extremely unattractive so you weren't "shallow" ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not put photo of your face on your profile. Will save everyone time

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By *ndigo40Woman over a year ago

secret town

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow "

Yes I am

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By *ndigo40Woman over a year ago

secret town

"Yes, people are shallow enough to want to find the man attractive. "

You look like Libby of eastenders

Does Denise know your on here?

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Obviously must be some sort of attraction. it could looks or personality."

But on here all we have to go on to begin with is your face pic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, many are, me included.

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

Shallow and proud!

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By *aveandkate35Couple over a year ago

telford

To be honest op I agree with the commemts here. You need to be attracted to someone. However herein lies the problem. You'll use different senses when finding some attractive on line, to what you will in person.

I personally do 1000x better in person than in here. Most of my face pics arnt shown to pregnant woman, children or animals, but I seem to be fine in clubs.

Could be a smile, could be banter - who knows! But if fab is you're only way of meeting folks then, that's just how it is.

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By *artin269Man over a year ago

london

No shallow about it, attraction and at least some connection makes for exciting times

, no attraction, no connection makes for dull times and nobody is here for that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everything goes well until I show my face pic. Then they say no thanks are people that shallow "

You might want to try a different angle... if your face pic seems to be a stumbling block for you getting meets... try messaging Bdsm/kink couples.

Most dom aren't concerned with attractiveness of the other males and most meets will include the sub being tied up and blindfolded.

You can also try gloryhole meets.... no face pic needed.... and lastly you can try conventional dating sites... the women on those sites can be less fussy...

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