Couples own experience may help me here! Hi fellow Fabbers, so I've been here just over a year now and I can't complain about the swinging fun I've had, I've no regrets whatsoever and think it's amazing. However now I feel it's time to start dating again as I don't want to be a singleton for the rest of my life. The thing is I don't want to leave this lifestyle as I feel it's for me. So how do I go about talking about this with new potential partners? I feel that being a swinger will make it harder to find someone with an equal desire for alternative sexual encounters. Guys and girls, ladies and gentleman any advice will be much appreciated  |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
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Maybe change your profile to 'looking for a swinging partner' and find one on here? Then you don't have to have the awkward conversation. I think a lot of couples on fab met whilst swinging? Good luck OP  |
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I suspect you'll get a few messages just off this post! I also think there are a lot of women on here who are very open to the idea of settling down with a fellow swinger, so change your profile a bit and add a section that talks more about the "vanilla" you and what you are looking for. Good luck mister!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm at the same point as you. Would love to find someone but don't want to leave the fun of this lifestyle behind even though I'm not heavily into it.
Hope you find what you're looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been in a relationship where we both liked swinging. The relationship ended not for swinging reasons but it was good when we were together. I would definitely do it again. Have had dates where I skirt around the issue by asking questions did you see that programme about swinging (even if there hasn't been one on) and this opens up the conversation and you can gauge the reaction
Hopefully it will work out for me again just need to find him or her now
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