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What's wrong with my profile?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes I know that but it's states that ferret69 has his own profile. I've just checked and foe some reason there is no pics when there used to be so I will get that rectified.
But anyone could ask for pics we are happy to oblige .. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
The same basic principles apply to all genders and demographics on here, after all we're all trying to inform and attract others.
Who are you.
What do you offer
What are you looking for
Your unique selling point, I.e. why meet you over another.
At this moment your profile us lacking . Have fun.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The same basic principles apply to all genders and demographics on here, after all we're all trying to inform and attract others.
Who are you.
What do you offer
What are you looking for
Your unique selling point, I.e. why meet you over another.
At this moment your profile us lacking . Have fun. "
have you got this on C&P  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
The only photo is of a lady, looking rather grumpy. Not smiling or very welcoming. The only verifications are one half of the couple....you cannot use yourself to verify yourself !
You say what you are looking for, but not really why people would choose to meet you.
You need to get people interested in you as a couple. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"We have this same problem. "
At least your profile has some good photos ( nice hair ) and a clear description of what you are looking for. Getting a single lady to join a couple, there are limited numbers on the site.
If you go on cam, which it states you do, I am surprised you do not have any verifications. That would at least show a lady that you are a genuine couple...a lady and a gent and you are the people shown in the photos on here. Good luck. |
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"We have this same problem. "
Your profiles are similar in some ways: neither of you state what you bring to the party or are particularly explicit about your desires (apart from the obvious!). There's no magic formula to success here - it's bloody hard at times which is why we tend to meet at clubs - writing a profile which reflects you best will out those unsuitable whilst inviting those you message you take a closer look. Don't wait for Fab to come to you - go get it. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It is bloody hard. We have chatted to couples for days and made arrangements to travel a long way to have it cancelled by the other couple!
We tried Chams but got turned away because I use a walking stick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have this same problem.
At least your profile has some good photos ( nice hair ) and a clear description of what you are looking for. Getting a single lady to join a couple, there are limited numbers on the site.
If you go on cam, which it states you do, I am surprised you do not have any verifications. That would at least show a lady that you are a genuine couple...a lady and a gent and you are the people shown in the photos on here. Good luck. "
We are rubbish with cam stuff. We prefer meeting and seeing people in person. We get numbers or people telling us they will meet us then they bottle it. This Saturday a lady has been chatting to jessica and asked for her number and not even looked at the kik message. We have no idea what's happening Saturday night now..just time wasters and forceful people. We are thinking of trying this club f.. hopefully meet some nice girls people. Thanks for your advice. And Jessica says thanks gor the compliment on her hair. I actually do it all for her. Not bad for a plasterer hey. Not long finished dying it actually lol.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have this same problem.
Your profiles are similar in some ways: neither of you state what you bring to the party or are particularly explicit about your desires (apart from the obvious!). There's no magic formula to success here - it's bloody hard at times which is why we tend to meet
at clubs - writing a profile which reflects you best will out those unsuitable whilst inviting those you message you take a closer look. Don't wait for Fab to come to you - go get it. Good luck. "
Thank you for your advice also. We just private that's all. We actually not long opened our pictures coz people thought we weren't who we said we were |
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"It is bloody hard. We have chatted to couples for days and made arrangements to travel a long way to have it cancelled by the other couple!
We tried Chams but got turned away because I use a walking stick. "
I'm not going to comment on you being turned away from Chams as that has already been discussed ad infinitum here - all I will say is take a step back, have a think about what you both want and what you both have to offer. Does your profile truly reflect that? If so then great If not then try amending. This is a great marketplace with so much on offer. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"The same basic principles apply to all genders and demographics on here, after all we're all trying to inform and attract others.
Who are you.
What do you offer
What are you looking for
Your unique selling point, I.e. why meet you over another.
At this moment your profile us lacking . Have fun.
have you got this on C&P "
You know single guys only ever use c&p on fab not only for messages for forum posts as well ....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single lady I have no trouble but as a couple. No luck at all!!!
Help..."
Why are you referring to yourselves as 'I'? You are a couple right? Maybe change it all the 'we' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single lady I have no trouble but as a couple. No luck at all!!!
Help...
Why are you referring to yourselves as 'I'? You are a couple right? Maybe change it all the 'we'"
this.
and all the references to ferret69 are a bit weird as well. makes me think it's a fake couple profile. |
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