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Finding it hard to get a resoonse

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Any ideas why ladies on here are so hard to speak to? They start chatting fine they like my pics tell me I'm hot then it always seems to fizzle out. Hard to get a response not reading my messages. Anyone have any suggestions why this keeps happening?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

They don't like what you're saying....too pushy? Too boring? Too aggressive? Too wimpy? Too sarcastic? Too-oodley-ooo?

No idea what you're saying to them - up to you really. Can't help.

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By *edangel_2013Woman over a year ago

southend

Because hot pics can only keep conversation going for so long.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because hot pics can only keep conversation going for so long."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Starts exciting then draws to a boring close

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anti climax

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By *oyle_45Man over a year ago

Worthing

As a single man, you just have to be patient and be in the right place at the right time, say and do the right things and just spend a lot of time on the site.

The women on this site get hundreds of messages a day, I get about one if I'm lucky.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

They are men.

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

"They are men."

Tool the words right out of my mouth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are men."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tease them with shoes and puppies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe a little more info on your profile. A few more pics, general body pics, and a happy smiling face pic in your friends pic section. If a lady seems open to a meeting always try and suggest a public space where she would feel safe and comfortable. Best still ask her where she would feel safe and comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because hot pics can only keep conversation going for so long."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because hot pics can only keep conversation going for so long."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are finding it hard to get a response,so how are they chatting to you?

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"They are men."

So what; I don't think he minds

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women have the control just got to smoothen the control

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" They start chatting fine they like my pics tell me I'm hot "

You're doing a lot better than most of us dude, hang in there

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By *ilmiss75Woman over a year ago

Thornton

I can't even work out what that pic is

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

If what you're doing isn't achieving the results you seek ... change something

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"I can't even work out what that pic is

Lama Su from Star Wars

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"I can't even work out what that pic is

If it's the op it'll be the back of his neck / shoulders I think it's the trapezious muscle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't even work out what that pic is

If it's the op it'll be the back of his neck / shoulders I think it's the trapezious muscle

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I concur re Traps. And an elongated neck.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"They are men.

So what; I don't think he minds

I do mind if there men. Why would men fake to be women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I can't even work out what that pic is

It's my back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1. You've only been on a week OP.

2. Males overun the site so you have stiff..pardon the pun.. competition.

3. Put some work into your profile.

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By *ilmiss75Woman over a year ago

Thornton

"They are men.

So what; I don't think he minds

I do mind if there men. Why would men fake to be women. "

Why wouldn't they?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they like your pictures and are initially interested then your messages have either bored them to tears or offended them.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"They are men.

So what; I don't think he minds

I do mind if there men. Why would men fake to be women. "

Dunno; ask them

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