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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago
cheshire |
Start with hands tied above the head or behind the back depending on position... graduate from there. Look at sex shops online they have a huge array of bondage equipment for beginners. Good luck and enjoy..........I know we do  kaz |
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We started with leather handcuffs but you can use scarves, ties etc.
The main thing is not to use anything that gets tighter if a person wriggles and to always make sure it can be undone quickly and easily. Sometimes being restrained can take you to some odd places in your head and you need to be got out quick.
Enjoy, it's a lot of fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Door cuffs are great for beginners or under the bed restraints. Easy to store, discreet and they are comfortable. Ooh, don't forget the blindfold and a pinwheel ! XXX |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
Love honey has some really good Velcro restraints, so they can be tight without being panicked by either weight of cuffs (sex shop hand cuffs are crap anyway)They are a great addition to any bodies kit  |
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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago
carrbrook stalybridge |
google peer rope events local to you (try leeds ) you can go along for a small fee and learn how to tie in safetey using different styles and types of rope along with others from novice to master no egos just a good fun atmosphere where you can learn the does and donts of rope and saftey enjoy
also look up the books and u tube videos by the two knotty boys very usefull and informative films
have fun and stay safe  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I would not recommend using rope without some tuition. There will be rope demos locally I would expect. But using scarves, or underbed restraints are good starters.
Have a safe word and have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Velcro restraints are cheap enough and tassle floggers .
Start with basics. Seduce. Gentle slaps. Explore each other .
Start gently. Then get a bit more.
Maybe hands restrained and blindfolds. Small steps. |
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Some very general advice below, pick which bits work for you from this and everyone else's advice.
Have something that's easy to open (like leather/Velcro handcuffs) to attach the rope/ties/belts/scarfs to, or have a pair of safety shears to hand in case of an emergency. If you do end up using something that tightens then remember to keep checking circulation in the extremities.
Establish a safe word or a safe signal if you're going to be using a gag, again just for emergencies or if you're wanting to do a more "forced" kind of role play.
If you are going to use rope, just a few basic ties are all you need, that and some imagination and you'll be experts swinging from the ceiling in no time! A quick google, as others have said two knotty boys are very good, or just google shibari tutorial and you'll have loads to choose from.
Most important piece of advice for me is to set the mood, bondage is awesome, as long as the mood is right and that comes massively from the top and how they control the scene.
Have fun experimenting, and if it goes wrong, dust yourselves off and start again!
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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago
carrbrook stalybridge |
"Some very general advice below, pick which bits work for you from this and everyone else's advice.
Have something that's easy to open (like leather/Velcro handcuffs) to attach the rope/ties/belts/scarfs to, or have a pair of safety shears to hand in case of an emergency. If you do end up using something that tightens then remember to keep checking circulation in the extremities.
Establish a safe word or a safe signal if you're going to be using a gag, again just for emergencies or if you're wanting to do a more "forced" kind of role play.
If you are going to use rope, just a few basic ties are all you need, that and some imagination and you'll be experts swinging from the ceiling in no time! A quick google, as others have said two knotty boys are very good, or just google shibari tutorial and you'll have loads to choose from.
Most important piece of advice for me is to set the mood, bondage is awesome, as long as the mood is right and that comes massively from the top and how they control the scene.
Have fun experimenting, and if it goes wrong, dust yourselves off and start again!
X"
this  for the record safety shears are the type used by nurses & paramedics will cut rope tape zipties etc in an emergency but not you NO shears no tieing golden rule |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some very general advice below, pick which bits work for you from this and everyone else's advice.
Have something that's easy to open (like leather/Velcro handcuffs) to attach the rope/ties/belts/scarfs to, or have a pair of safety shears to hand in case of an emergency. If you do end up using something that tightens then remember to keep checking circulation in the extremities.
Establish a safe word or a safe signal if you're going to be using a gag, again just for emergencies or if you're wanting to do a more "forced" kind of role play.
If you are going to use rope, just a few basic ties are all you need, that and some imagination and you'll be experts swinging from the ceiling in no time! A quick google, as others have said two knotty boys are very good, or just google shibari tutorial and you'll have loads to choose from.
Most important piece of advice for me is to set the mood, bondage is awesome, as long as the mood is right and that comes massively from the top and how they control the scene.
Have fun experimenting, and if it goes wrong, dust yourselves off and start again!
X"
This kinda sums it up.
Above all set the mood, have fun and don't get too ambitious too soon
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would not recommend using rope without some tuition. There will be rope demos locally I would expect. But using scarves, or underbed restraints are good starters.
Have a safe word and have fun. "
What she said. Be very, very careful when it comes to rope. You have to know how to tie it without cutting off circulation, and how to do knots you can undo in a hurry if something goes wrong. Never, ever use nylon ropes, the knots tighten up and are very hard to undo. Always have a strong, sharp knife handy to cut the ropes if you have to. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
Think you have to remember OP that as soon as someone is tied up, there can be a great sense of panic so be aware of this. You can either throw the kitchen sink in and it be crap or build things as you would do in sex without restraint and achieve results. Once you have trust you can go a little further or harder though just because someone is tied up doesn't mean the cat-o-nine can come out. Your senses are heightened quite a lot. Cling film for eg is highly restrictive - on a chair or coffee table is quite a different experience a bed and has you think of different positions, sensations or toys over 'getting your cock in'. |
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"Me and partner female looking to try little soft bondage just need some advice on what to use cheers "
in addition to the advice above Lovehonny does some nice soft ropes not expensive and better than 50shades-of-shit aka B&Q that will mark cut or friction burn. Get some rope safety shears as well just in case.
Otherwise improvise -chopsticks and elastic bands = nipple camps. Part of the fun and thrill is imagination. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretty handy stuff, timely too. I've been talking to a girl and it's actually brought out a more dominant side in me. I've been looking at the love honey door restraints as my starting point. I think tied with a blindfold it could lead to some very sensual moments. Love the idea that she'll still be able to turn on the spot. |
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Following on from _aptivating's advice; always ensure that there is a means of communication between you (gags require alternative methods), never leave a bound or gagged subject alone, always ensure that you have the means to remove any ties, ropes, gags etc. instantly (safety shears).
Safety, sanity and consensuality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me and partner female looking to try little soft bondage just need some advice on what to use cheers just about any thing can be used in bondage rope good and its cheep "
And gentler than black cable ties! |
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