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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it acceptable to have a sexual relationship with son's ex wife? They've been divorced 6 years. Got close over Xmas."
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Is it acceptable to have a sexual relationship with son's ex wife? They've been divorced 6 years. Got close over Xmas."
I don't think so, but your decision. How would it affect your son and any grandchildren? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As already mentioned it's the relationship with your son and if any children their wellbeing that would be compromised. Not sure how they would feel knowing their grandad is sleeping with their mother. Me personally I definitely wouldn't but it's your choice I guess. |
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"Thanks for all your views. It was a bad idea.Just alone at Xmas."
Christmas is a very lonley time for lots of people .... you know that this wouldnt work. ... it would cause all kinds of problems .... go find your a nice lady .... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This seems to have attracted more attention than I anticipated. First Grandad is my profile name. Nothing more. I have met people on here who like older men.
My ex daughter in law is 42 a mature woman. My son cheated on her with a woman he later married. He lives nearly 200 miles away. She has 2 daughters who do not live with her.
Of course we would be ultra discreet as we would not be living together. We have become close and she has told me she would like us to become lovers.
Thank you all for your comments |
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"This seems to have attracted more attention than I anticipated. First Grandad is my profile name. Nothing more. I have met people on here who like older men.
My ex daughter in law is 42 a mature woman. My son cheated on her with a woman he later married. He lives nearly 200 miles away. She has 2 daughters who do not live with her.
Of course we would be ultra discreet as we would not be living together. We have become close and she has told me she would like us to become lovers.
Thank you all for your comments"
On the face of it there seems to be nothing standing in your way and you imply that her daughters aren't your grandchildren. But families have their own dynamic that will come in to play here and nobody but you can predict your son's reaction if he did find out or any other family member.
It's a risk, up to you if you take it. I wouldn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all well and good saying you'll be discrete, but you need to be prepared for the possibility of being found out.....do you really think your son would be OK with it? If yes, then you have nothing to lose. If no, then it's down to your conscience. |
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"Is it acceptable to have a sexual relationship with son's ex wife? They've been divorced 6 years. Got close over Xmas."
Yes but can I make one request, let us know when you'll be on Jeremy Kyle please xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on a lot of things really, but if you're both attracted to each other, and both available, then make it happen. But if it's going to cause friction, decide what you value more. |
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This is amazing, if a bloke posts about shagging his mother in law everyone thinks it's great but god forbid a woman would want to shag her ex father in law!
You are both adults , she is his ex,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex daughter in law and I are now having a sexual relationship and enjoying it immensely.
Thanks for everyone who took the trouble to reply."
Please post some pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Little will fuck you grandchildren up more (I'm assuming there are kids by the heading) than the fall out when their dad discovers that their grandad is fucking the it mother.
Unbelievably selfish |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This seems to have attracted more attention than I anticipated. First Grandad is my profile name. Nothing more. I have met people on here who like older men.
My ex daughter in law is 42 a mature woman. My son cheated on her with a woman he later married. He lives nearly 200 miles away. She has 2 daughters who do not live with her.
Of course we would be ultra discreet as we would not be living together. We have become close and she has told me she would like us to become lovers.
Thank you all for your comments
On the face of it there seems to be nothing standing in your way and you imply that her daughters aren't your grandchildren. But families have their own dynamic that will come in to play here and nobody but you can predict your son's reaction if he did find out or any other family member.
It's a risk, up to you if you take it. I wouldn't."
Nothing like Stirring your sons Rice pudding.  I can see a Jezza Kyle episode coming |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex daughter in law and I are now having a sexual relationship and enjoying it immensely.
Thanks for everyone who took the trouble to reply."
Does she know that your a member of a swinging website? What do you think her view would be given she divorced your son for cheating?
Maybe you should do something? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course we would be ultra discreet as we would not be living together. We have become close and she has told me she would like us to become lovers.
Thank you all for your comments"
Is this some sort of a revenge / payback thing on her behalf |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"This seems to have attracted more attention than I anticipated. First Grandad is my profile name. Nothing more. I have met people on here who like older men.
My ex daughter in law is 42 a mature woman. My son cheated on her with a woman he later married. He lives nearly 200 miles away. She has 2 daughters who do not live with her.
Of course we would be ultra discreet as we would not be living together. We have become close and she has told me she would like us to become lovers.
Thank you all for your comments"
I see nothing wrong here. Your son may not like it so discretion would be sensible unless you have a healthy communicative relationship with him, in which case you may talk to him about it. A lot of girls do like older men so you might have more choices here on Fab |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We both know this is only a temporary thing. She knows I am on here and I do pursue my own interests.
She is quite interested in joining here with her own profile to meet mature men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do what will make you both happy, as for you're son well he did not want her anyways so he has no right to really say anything.
If you do what everyone else says is the right thing then you're on you're own for no other reason than to plaese whether be else 
Life is too short so enjoy what there is and let everyone else go do one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do what will make you both happy, as for you're son well he did not want her anyways so he has no right to really say anything.
If you do what everyone else says is the right thing then you're on you're own for no other reason than to plaese whether be else
Life is too short so enjoy what there is and let everyone else go do one "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it acceptable to have a sexual relationship with son's ex wife? They've been divorced 6 years. Got close over Xmas.
Only to share Werthers originals "
Beat me to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We both know this is only a temporary thing. She knows I am on here and I do pursue my own interests.
She is quite interested in joining here with her own profile to meet mature men."
Sounds like you both discussed it sensibly, no children involved which makes it easier.
No worse than what a lot people do, your consenting adults.
I think you've made your mind up. |
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I would look into the future. What would happen if you fell desperately in love and had to hide your life?
Would you be able to bring a hidden life into the family spotlight and not do damage to others or yourselves?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I don't think anyone would blame you there then. Like everyone else says be incredibly discreet and protect her honour is probably the best advice.
As long as no one comes to any harm then it's fine. I think many a 74 year old would love the chance you've got. |
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"To Naughty Staffs couple
Yes it is her
Somebody else there taking the pics ??
It's amazing, the pictures were taken and posted 3 months before the relationship started!!!!
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Lmao!!!!!!! Maybe the ops a time lord .... ok maybe not lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok. It's been going on for a year now.
I just wanted a couple of opinions. My first post. Never expected so much interest. And I have persuaded her to meet others with me.
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"Ok. It's been going on for a year now.
I just wanted a couple of opinions. My first post. Never expected so much interest. And I have persuaded her to meet others with me.
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So you lied then and again later saying you had just got together anyway . Lying is never a good trait .
Also what do peoples opinions matter when you are already doing it ? Pointless as you already made your decision just get on a do it . |
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"Ok. It's been going on for a year now.
I just wanted a couple of opinions. My first post. Never expected so much interest. And I have persuaded her to meet others with me.
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The revenge thing could be going on but equally you're both grown ups and kno the risks.
Just think about the grief her kids will go through, plus the whole family if this comes out. You've quite a lot of information on the thread, pictures of jewellery and body shots.
Some liaisons are simply too much trouble to be worth it. By all means have your fun, however you want it. Just stop, pause and think how this looks to the world outside fab. As people allude this is perfect crash TV and my opinion would be the same if the genders were reversed.
Whatever you two decide to do, be uber careful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok. It's been going on for a year now.
I just wanted a couple of opinions. My first post. Never expected so much interest. And I have persuaded her to meet others with me.
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The cynic in me can't help but think you are making this up as you go along |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok. It's been going on for a year now.
I just wanted a couple of opinions. My first post. Never expected so much interest. And I have persuaded her to meet others with me.
The cynic in me can't help but think you are making this up as you go along"
There are a great many threads that have me thinking that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ahhh we think that we smell bull excrement! Not a chance is this for real"
I agree... full of inconsistencies and far too fucked up to be true... dubious photos too. At the least I hope it isn't true! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"fantastic .but dont marry her as his ex wife would be his stepmum.wow thats wild changed our mine will be your best man just for the speach ha ha .good luck"
marrying her would be illegal I think. |
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"fantastic .but dont marry her as his ex wife would be his stepmum.wow thats wild changed our mine will be your best man just for the speach ha ha .good luck
marrying her would be illegal I think."
Reminds me of that old song "He's his own Grandpa". All together now... |
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