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Profile picture advice - can't show face on public profile
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi Fabsters!
I'm looking for some advice on profile photos.
I have a particular job which means I can't show my face publicly on my profile. I can show my face when I send messages because not everybody will be messaging or receiving messages.
As I can't put a face picture as my profile photo, which generally reduces your chances of people messaging back; what advice would give me for a profile photo? Also, what could I do for more profile photos which also can't show my face?
Should I be doing crazy, fun, imaginative things to attract people to my profile?
Thanks
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Fabsters!
I'm looking for some advice on profile photos.
I have a particular job which means I can't show my face publicly on my profile. I can show my face when I send messages because not everybody will be messaging or receiving messages.
As I can't put a face picture as my profile photo, which generally reduces your chances of people messaging back; what advice would give me for a profile photo? Also, what could I do for more profile photos which also can't show my face?
Should I be doing crazy, fun, imaginative things to attract people to my profile?
Thanks
MrAA "
We are curious.
What is it you do that means you cannot show your face? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think not having a face pic as an avatar or in public pics reduces your chances of a reply, generally as long as one is available when you start chatting people understand. Does make me laugh that you say you have to be discreet because of work but have a job title in your user name 
Have a selection of pics that show your best bits off, clothed, unclothed, explicit or not, whatever you think best. Suit shots are good , bums, torsos, legs, just not too many cock shots is the received wisdom. Not sure what I make of your second shot, a bit...Avatar is great though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't show my face either. It doesn't matter what job you have, if you don't want your face public, don't show it.
A torso pic is ok. Or feet  "
We agree totally.
We don't show face pics, but don't feel the need to use a job as the excuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Face pics are not required in public by anyone. I don't know why this is often said. Also, I find it irksome when someone thinks they need to be more discreet than others (or me!), but that's an aside. You can put a variety of pics in public. I would suggest they aren't taken from your FB profile. If your job role matches your user name I would think you can apply a little imagination to a suitable profile pic. Most ladies don't like a dick pic to talk to though! My order for my own pics is discreet for public, showing a little more for friends and others in private. Each person has their own preference for this, so that's just guidance. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't show my face either. It doesn't matter what job you have, if you don't want your face public, don't show it.
A torso pic is ok. Or feet
We agree totally.
We don't show face pics, but don't feel the need to use a job as the excuse."
To be honest, I'm not using it as an excuse, I'd show my face if I was able to. It's generally against the code of practice to be on websites like Fab.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't show my face either. It doesn't matter what job you have, if you don't want your face public, don't show it.
A torso pic is ok. Or feet
We agree totally.
We don't show face pics, but don't feel the need to use a job as the excuse.
To be honest, I'm not using it as an excuse, I'd show my face if I was able to. It's generally against the code of practice to be on websites like Fab. "
That's fair enough, but no need to make a song and dance about it. Simply put in your profile that you have a face picture in private that you're happy to send if asked, drop the bit about it 'because of my job'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't show my face either. It doesn't matter what job you have, if you don't want your face public, don't show it.
A torso pic is ok. Or feet
We agree totally.
We don't show face pics, but don't feel the need to use a job as the excuse.
To be honest, I'm not using it as an excuse, I'd show my face if I was able to. It's generally against the code of practice to be on websites like Fab.
That's fair enough, but no need to make a song and dance about it. Simply put in your profile that you have a face picture in private that you're happy to send if asked, drop the bit about it 'because of my job'. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't show my face either. It doesn't matter what job you have, if you don't want your face public, don't show it.
A torso pic is ok. Or feet
We agree totally.
We don't show face pics, but don't feel the need to use a job as the excuse.
To be honest, I'm not using it as an excuse, I'd show my face if I was able to. It's generally against the code of practice to be on websites like Fab. "
Without wishing to belabour a point OP, honestly as someone who completely understands, would you think about your profile name? I think I'm right in saying people are trying to say you don't need to proffer an excuse whatsoever, it's a preference. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't show my face either. It doesn't matter what job you have, if you don't want your face public, don't show it.
A torso pic is ok. Or feet
We agree totally.
We don't show face pics, but don't feel the need to use a job as the excuse.
To be honest, I'm not using it as an excuse, I'd show my face if I was able to. It's generally against the code of practice to be on websites like Fab.
Without wishing to belabour a point OP, honestly as someone who completely understands, would you think about your profile name? I think I'm right in saying people are trying to say you don't need to proffer an excuse whatsoever, it's a preference. "
Yes, I understand completely. I very much appreciate your input and advice.
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