Ok so I enjoy seeing wife getting fucked by her FB and are possibly looking at lining up someone else up, but is this cuckolding ??
I get my enjoyment from watching / taking part / 3 sum, even if I'm at work and he has come around for a play I hear all about later while the two of us are playing together. It's hard to describe but my enjoyment is see/hearing her enjoy it almost like a out of body experience  but I get to watch as well.
Recently got talking to a nice guy that said he was a cuckold expert but didn't real get where I was coming from,he kept asking if on our meets if she would flirt with him and be kissing him in front of me among other things. I'm just not sure if this falls within the cuckolding as I love watching/taking part or is this just a standard 3 sum ?? |
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Cucks are a bit more into the humiliation angle from what I understand (although I am ready to be corrected on that)... just sounds like some regular common or garden hotwifing (which is our thing too) |
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I've been with cuckold and hotwife couples. As some others have said there is generally a humiliation component to the cuckold relationship. Hotwife on the other hand is similar to what the op describes. However, like all relationships each is unique. |
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Technically and traditionally "cuckold" is simply the term for the husband of a wife who has an affair with someone else.
However it seems for many swingers there are a wide range of variations but that for some (many?) it involves an element of humiliating the husband/man. The humiliation being self-inflicted, inflicted by the wife or inflicted by the bull (the other man).
However humiliation is not part of the original meaning.
Personally I think it is whatever the people make it and as long as everyone understands the "play" then its fine. |
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Don't mind what other people say if this is what u enjoy u can call it what u dam like . It's great fun enjoy urself do u need to call it a name. I would not care what u call it so long as I enjoyed it . |
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You know we've debated this for ages, just wondering what category we was in. I love watching Mrs have the time of her life, I make all the decisions though and she performs and enjoys knowing how much it makes me want her. And like you said, you can get far better pics/vids when you take a step back and watch I love showing her off more than anything |
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"You know we've debated this for ages, just wondering what category we was in. I love watching Mrs have the time of her life, I make all the decisions though and she performs and enjoys knowing how much it makes me want her. And like you said, you can get far better pics/vids when you take a step back and watch I love showing her off more than anything"
To true I love seeing her getting turned on and being made to orgasm by her FB seeing her having a good time gives me a good time. knowing I can pop in and out at any point in between pics and videos or when she is desperate for a second cock to hold or play with while we take it in turns fucking her.
Thank you for all your replies guys but we think it's definitely " hotwifing " category we fall in to but like most of you said who cares what it's called we're just enjoying ourselves  |
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"You know we've debated this for ages, just wondering what category we was in. I love watching Mrs have the time of her life, I make all the decisions though and she performs and enjoys knowing how much it makes me want her. And like you said, you can get far better pics/vids when you take a step back and watch I love showing her off more than anything"
Exactly where we are at  |
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"He was a cuckhold "expert"?.....really 
You do want you want and call it what you will. "
Agree with this. Do what you enjoy and don't worry about labels. |
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As others have said if you, your wife and her fb, know what you like there is no issue.
If you are looking for someone else to join in then labels are useful to filter out those looking for something slightly different to what you enjoy. |
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Definitely hotwife.
Not cuck.
I've got a hotwife, we definitely don't do humiliation, it's definitely not cuckolding.
But totally agree with the sentiment - It's like porn that you are living in 
It's ace.
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. But they are both more than happy and willing for me to join in at any point as am I, especially after I have taken all the pictures I wanted 
