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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interested in hearing ideas for creative punishment ideas for submissives?
Preferably fem submissives. Bearing in mind flogging and spanking is seen as a reward, so wouldn't make a good punishment.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tease the hell out of them and when they want you so bad, put your clothes back on and don't give in? Keep teasing throughout the day"
Teasing sounds like a bit of a turn on. Also it's a punishment for them. Denying sex doesn't work because that's punishing myself lol
I still want to be able to use my subs fuckholes. |
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Theres a bit difference between a spanking and a punishment spanking though. Is there a particular implement she isn't fond of? The cane for example?
Or perhaps invite someone else to watch, or to spank her whilst you watch.
Maybe have her stood in the corner, hands on head, naked, after.
Write on her body with lipstick.
Make her expose herself publically. E.g drive around with her topless in the passenger seat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Theres a bit difference between a spanking and a punishment spanking though. Is there a particular implement she isn't fond of? The cane for example?
Or perhaps invite someone else to watch, or to spank her whilst you watch.
Maybe have her stood in the corner, hands on head, naked, after.
Write on her body with lipstick.
Make her expose herself publically. E.g drive around with her topless in the passenger seat."
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
secret town |
"Interested in hearing ideas for creative punishment ideas for submissives?
Preferably fem submissives. Bearing in mind flogging and spanking is seen as a reward, so wouldn't make a good punishment.
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BULLY |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cut off a limb. That'll show her...
Ooer, bit too extreme for me madam :P"
Practically, you do need to post a little more information if you want realistic ideas that might suit.
I don't do 'punishment' in my dynamic, but sometimes I do 'stuff he doesn't like because I like it when he doesn't like it'. That might include:
- Birching
- Stinging nettle play (or chilli in winter)
- Extended chastity
- Needleplay chastity
- Extended bondage
- Piss enemas
- Humiliation at clubs
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
secret town |
"Theres a bit difference between a spanking and a punishment spanking though. Is there a particular implement she isn't fond of? The cane for example?
Or perhaps invite someone else to watch, or to spank her whilst you watch.
Maybe have her stood in the corner, hands on head, naked, after.
Write on her body with lipstick.
Make her expose herself publically. E.g drive around with her topless in the passenger seat."
Not a good idea driving around with a topless woman in the passenger seat  |
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The worst way to punish a Sub is to start to play,the Boss really got my engine going and was dripping with precum dying to start pleasuring him then suddenly my cock was grabbed and he wanked me off fast and furiously letting me shoot a huge load ! The Boss then proceeded to tie me spread eagle with rough hemp bondage rope by wrists and then started to punish my arse while mouth and arse available to him also. Once you've just cum the last thing you want is your arse leathered,he tanned fuck out of me using hand,plimsoll,jeans belt and Borstal Strap to finish. Is still to date the most painful punishment I've ever had,never agree to punishment once your balls are empty as it hurts 20 times more than normal !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to be tied up and covered in spunk in a forest somewhere and get discovered by a passer by who my partner arranges to get to play a role play part and they both join in to finish me off. Any offers ? |
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By *anklerMan
over a year ago
Suffolk |
"I would love to be tied up and covered in spunk in a forest somewhere and get discovered by a passer by who my partner arranges to get to play a role play part and they both join in to finish me off. Any offers ?"
Sounds fun |
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Teasing sounds like a bit of a turn on. Also it's a punishment for them. Denying sex doesn't work because that's punishing myself lol
I still want to be able to use my subs fuckholes."
Think of orgasm denial rather than deny sex completely  |
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One interesting one an ex got me to do was go to a large supermarket when it's busy and purchase only a cucumber, some condoms and lube. Then go through a normal checkout, relatively simple but a tremendous mind fuck at the same time! Oh she wanted evidence of the receipt as well! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Remote controlled vibrating butt plug. Take her somewhere quiet but busy and turn it on. The looks from others should be humiliating for her especially if she starts squirming |
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Butt plugs work well, I find. Make her wear one during a meal, or bus, car ride.
I also have a remote controlled egg I make her wear shopping, or to the pub. Turn in on when she's talking to people.
Also, find which spanking she prefers, thuddy or stingy. My toy doesn't like the belt. But loves being flogged or paddled. Good punishment, a flogging, bad punishment the belt.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on your sub really. What about particular types of flogging or spanking, using their least favoured as punishment? Or orgasm denial, or keeping hands restrained so they can't touch - drives me crazy! |
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"Interested in hearing ideas for creative punishment ideas for submissives?
Preferably fem submissives. Bearing in mind flogging and spanking is seen as a reward, so wouldn't make a good punishment.
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Make them watch birmingham play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ffs just kill her  then hang her head on a pole outside her house.
Now that's embarrassment 
With a carrot in her mouth! "
now if she was a pig I would use an apple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Make her take the rubbish out, followed by mowing the garden. Then force her to binge watch the entire series of El Dorado whilst ironing. Pure evil mwahaha!!! |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
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"Make her take the rubbish out, followed by mowing the garden. Then force her to binge watch the entire series of El Dorado whilst ironing. Pure evil mwahaha!!!"
I say kill the bitch
Get it over and done with |
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order her to make herself cum every hour on the hour for 24 hours- and she has to phone you as she does it, if you are asleep make her do it on your voicemail.
if you consider she fakes any of them, add another on
she will be knackered and sore by the end of the 24 hours.
less drastic than removing limbs and much less messy ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interested in hearing ideas for creative punishment ideas for submissives?
Preferably fem submissives. Bearing in mind flogging and spanking is seen as a reward, so wouldn't make a good punishment.
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nettles! I made a guy put them in his boxer... ha ..... I made him chew a used condom after he had smelt it licked it then he had to bite the the end of it.. and was made to drink the Cum of another man ... |
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"One interesting one an ex got me to do was go to a large supermarket when it's busy and purchase only a cucumber, some condoms and lube. Then go through a normal checkout, relatively simple but a tremendous mind fuck at the same time! Oh she wanted evidence of the receipt as well! "
Good idea |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
As a submissive, the worst punishment a dom could bestow upon me is ignoring me. I've had that done a few times were I've had contact withdrawn for a specific amount of time. I find that agonising. Especially if I know he's disappointed with me. |
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By *wned EmCouple
over a year ago
nuneaton |
"Punishment for what ??.....I spank cane whip flog my slave because I want to....if she did anything wrong we'd sort it out."
Don't forget the electrical stuff, needles, pegs,clamps and burning stuff....I'm such a good girl there would be a lot of inactivity if this stuff was only done as 'punishment' |
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By *-elleWoman
over a year ago
Romford |
Punishment should fit the scenario you have created. Otherwise it's out of context and can appear odd, unrealistic or contrived.
You have to give us a focus/theme then we can advise specifically?
Control is all about consistancy. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
Spanking and caning is fun, sure, in the right context. But when it is in the context of having disappointed someone, it is horrendous. I can't speak for all subs, but that's how it works for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Make her watch endless episodes of Coronation Street without wearing a blindfold. "
And have the theme tune piped into their bedroom so there's no escape |
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