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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm legit 100% Intrested in women or couple.
20 years old new to swinging looking for any takers to enjoy a session with me  to get my first verify ticked off
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm legit 100% Intrested in women or couple.
20 years old new to swinging looking for any takers to enjoy a session with me to get my first verify ticked off
Kik and Snap available "
What do you think will happen once you have your first verification?
You've been here two weeks, this is your third begging thread.
Your age will definitely be against you.
There are lots of areas that need to be improved. Alas we're unable to offer unsolicited advice.
You could always ask though.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm legit 100% Intrested in women or couple.
20 years old new to swinging looking for any takers to enjoy a session with me to get my first verify ticked off
Kik and Snap available
What do you think will happen once you have your first verification?
You've been here two weeks, this is your third begging thread.
Your age will definitely be against you.
There are lots of areas that need to be improved. Alas we're unable to offer unsolicited advice.
You could always ask though.....
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As I skip off to the fruit and veg shop  |
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"I'm legit 100% Intrested in women or couple.
20 years old new to swinging looking for any takers to enjoy a session with me to get my first verify ticked off
Kik and Snap available
What do you think will happen once you have your first verification?
You've been here two weeks, this is your third begging thread.
Your age will definitely be against you.
There are lots of areas that need to be improved. Alas we're unable to offer unsolicited advice.
You could always ask though.....
As I skip off to the fruit and veg shop "
Don't rely on Markoh to get one, he forgot mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm legit 100% Intrested in women or couple.
20 years old new to swinging looking for any takers to enjoy a session with me to get my first verify ticked off
Kik and Snap available
What do you think will happen once you have your first verification?
You've been here two weeks, this is your third begging thread.
Your age will definitely be against you.
There are lots of areas that need to be improved. Alas we're unable to offer unsolicited advice.
You could always ask though.....
As I skip off to the fruit and veg shop "
Where's Fabulous when you need him?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm legit 100% Intrested in women or couple.
20 years old new to swinging looking for any takers to enjoy a session with me to get my first verify ticked off
Kik and Snap available
What do you think will happen once you have your first verification?
You've been here two weeks, this is your third begging thread.
Your age will definitely be against you.
There are lots of areas that need to be improved. Alas we're unable to offer unsolicited advice.
You could always ask though.....
As I skip off to the fruit and veg shop
Don't rely on Markoh to get one, he forgot mine "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have your priorities totally wrong OP.
Stop worrying so much about getting the little green tick and concentrate more on appealing to those you might want to meet.
People will be thinking that you're only interested in meeting them to get your veri, and it's incredibly off-putting.
You've been here a couple of weeks. That's nothing.
Most guys wait around 6 months to get their first meet. Some are more fortunate and others less so.
You need to put in the effort to make sure that your profile is the best that it can possibly be and that you are pro-active in your approach.
Or did you really think you'd be fighting the ladies off with a shitty stick by now?
Effort in = rewards out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stop worrying so much about getting the little green tick and concentrate more on appealing to those you might want to meet.
People will be thinking that you're only interested in meeting them to get your veri, and it's incredibly off-putting "
This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm legit 100% Intrested in women or couple.
20 years old new to swinging looking for any takers to enjoy a session with me to get my first verify ticked off
Kik and Snap available "
Erm, are you after a verification or sex? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I'm legit 100% Intrested in women or couple.
20 years old new to swinging looking for any takers to enjoy a session with me to get my first verify ticked off
Kik and Snap available
Erm, are you after a verification or sex? "
Yes a bit unclear?? |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
We all start a profile with zero verifications. There are some who will not meet those who are unverified.. concentrate on those you do appeal to..
Use the triple H formula..©.as copyrighted by _odareyou.
Honesty...
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Humour.
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Hung like a horse.*
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*this isn't vital the other two are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could you not ask the lady in your first picture?  "
Can just imagine that conversation .... Darling could you verify my account on fabswingers you know nothing about , Oh by the way im bisexual ! did I forget to say that when we got together 5 years ago ?? lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Could you not ask the lady in your first picture?
Can just imagine that conversation .... Darling could you verify my account on fabswingers you know nothing about , Oh by the way im bisexual ! did I forget to say that when we got together 5 years ago ?? lol
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Just for info; it was 11 years with my lady before I broached the subject of my sexuality and soon after my gender mismatch issues.
Bearing in mind the level of rejection Bi guys get in the all accepting world of fab, I'm sure you'll be able to understand why guys don't rush to tell their every partner in the vanilla world too. |
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"Could you not ask the lady in your first picture?
Can just imagine that conversation .... Darling could you verify my account on fabswingers you know nothing about , Oh by the way im bisexual ! did I forget to say that when we got together 5 years ago ?? lol
Just for info; it was 11 years with my lady before I broached the subject of my sexuality and soon after my gender mismatch issues.
Bearing in mind the level of rejection Bi guys get in the all accepting world of fab, I'm sure you'll be able to understand why guys don't rush to tell their every partner in the vanilla world too. "
 This. It was 16 years for me. All that wasted time. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Could you not ask the lady in your first picture?
Can just imagine that conversation .... Darling could you verify my account on fabswingers you know nothing about , Oh by the way im bisexual ! did I forget to say that when we got together 5 years ago ?? lol
Just for info; it was 11 years with my lady before I broached the subject of my sexuality and soon after my gender mismatch issues.
Bearing in mind the level of rejection Bi guys get in the all accepting world of fab, I'm sure you'll be able to understand why guys don't rush to tell their every partner in the vanilla world too.
This. It was 16 years for me. All that wasted time. "
I told him right away that I was interested in women too; a moments pause, and with his tongue hanging out, he said, "really!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could you not ask the lady in your first picture?
Can just imagine that conversation .... Darling could you verify my account on fabswingers you know nothing about , Oh by the way im bisexual ! did I forget to say that when we got together 5 years ago ?? lol
Just for info; it was 11 years with my lady before I broached the subject of my sexuality and soon after my gender mismatch issues.
Bearing in mind the level of rejection Bi guys get in the all accepting world of fab, I'm sure you'll be able to understand why guys don't rush to tell their every partner in the vanilla world too.
This. It was 16 years for me. All that wasted time.
I told him right away that I was interested in women too; a moments pause, and with his tongue hanging out, he said, "really!" "
Wouldn't it be nice if one day we can all have the confidence to just be honest about who we are from the outset without the fear of rejection or ridicule?
I've never understood why it's more socially acceptable for women to be attracted to each other than it is men.
It's never been illegal for women in this country where so many men have criminal records to this very day and were on the sex offenders register until relatively recently. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Could you not ask the lady in your first picture?
Can just imagine that conversation .... Darling could you verify my account on fabswingers you know nothing about , Oh by the way im bisexual ! did I forget to say that when we got together 5 years ago ?? lol
Just for info; it was 11 years with my lady before I broached the subject of my sexuality and soon after my gender mismatch issues.
Bearing in mind the level of rejection Bi guys get in the all accepting world of fab, I'm sure you'll be able to understand why guys don't rush to tell their every partner in the vanilla world too.
This. It was 16 years for me. All that wasted time.
I told him right away that I was interested in women too; a moments pause, and with his tongue hanging out, he said, "really!"
Wouldn't it be nice if one day we can all have the confidence to just be honest about who we are from the outset without the fear of rejection or ridicule?
I've never understood why it's more socially acceptable for women to be attracted to each other than it is men.
It's never been illegal for women in this country where so many men have criminal records to this very day and were on the sex offenders register until relatively recently. "
Couldn't agree with you more Rachael; xxx
I find it even odder (is that a word?) when bi women have some kind of a negative 'preference'against bi men. Each to their own and all that, but it does make me wonder |
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"Could you not ask the lady in your first picture?
Can just imagine that conversation .... Darling could you verify my account on fabswingers you know nothing about , Oh by the way im bisexual ! did I forget to say that when we got together 5 years ago ?? lol
Just for info; it was 11 years with my lady before I broached the subject of my sexuality and soon after my gender mismatch issues.
Bearing in mind the level of rejection Bi guys get in the all accepting world of fab, I'm sure you'll be able to understand why guys don't rush to tell their every partner in the vanilla world too.
This. It was 16 years for me. All that wasted time.
I told him right away that I was interested in women too; a moments pause, and with his tongue hanging out, he said, "really!"
Wouldn't it be nice if one day we can all have the confidence to just be honest about who we are from the outset without the fear of rejection or ridicule?
I've never understood why it's more socially acceptable for women to be attracted to each other than it is men.
It's never been illegal for women in this country where so many men have criminal records to this very day and were on the sex offenders register until relatively recently.
Couldn't agree with you more Rachael; xxx
I find it even odder (is that a word?) when bi women have some kind of a negative 'preference'against bi men. Each to their own and all that, but it does make me wonder"
When we first started on Fab and we're trying to meet, we got turned down a lot because at the time S was totally straight. It made us feel like the ladies playing was somehow expected, if not compulsory.
But as you say, we would also get couples with a bi female turning us down because I was Bi.
This is where someone jumps in with the magic thread ender "preferences innit". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure 'odder' is a word. Have you seen the full version of the dictionary? Holy moley, the concise is a meee leaflet by comparison
I don't find the double standards of bi women especially odd. I was brought up with an 'eew. Men kissing. Yuk' attitude. That's 'how it was' back then. My father still feels that way. 
I knew I wanted men to fuck me. Kissing them actually took a while to get my head around because of my early years brainwashing. I could suck them off and offer them my bottom to fuck but kissing....
I'm glad to say after kissing a few who made a right mess of a snog I kissed some more who really knew how. Now, a good kiss has my legs around him and my hips trying to get him inside me in seconds. |
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"I'm sure 'odder' is a word. Have you seen the full version of the dictionary? Holy moley, the concise is a meee leaflet by comparison
I don't find the double standards of bi women especially odd. I was brought up with an 'eew. Men kissing. Yuk' attitude. That's 'how it was' back then. My father still feels that way.
I knew I wanted men to fuck me. Kissing them actually took a while to get my head around because of my early years brainwashing. I could suck them off and offer them my bottom to fuck but kissing....
I'm glad to say after kissing a few who made a right mess of a snog I kissed some more who really knew how. Now, a good kiss has my legs around him and my hips trying to get him inside me in seconds. "
Oh my....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure 'odder' is a word. Have you seen the full version of the dictionary? Holy moley, the concise is a meee leaflet by comparison
I don't find the double standards of bi women especially odd. I was brought up with an 'eew. Men kissing. Yuk' attitude. That's 'how it was' back then. My father still feels that way.
I knew I wanted men to fuck me. Kissing them actually took a while to get my head around because of my early years brainwashing. I could suck them off and offer them my bottom to fuck but kissing....
I'm glad to say after kissing a few who made a right mess of a snog I kissed some more who really knew how. Now, a good kiss has my legs around him and my hips trying to get him inside me in seconds.
Oh my.... "
I know. I was quite taken aback the first time I saw the complete dictionary too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know. I was quite taken aback the first time I saw the complete dictionary too.
That's not what I was referring to and you know it! "
Think of me like pooh; of very little brain |
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I know. I was quite taken aback the first time I saw the complete dictionary too.
That's not what I was referring to and you know it!
Think of me like pooh; of very little brain "
Oh I was thinking about you, but it wasn't in regard to your cranial capacity.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I know. I was quite taken aback the first time I saw the complete dictionary too.
That's not what I was referring to and you know it!
Think of me like pooh; of very little brain
Oh I was thinking about you, but it wasn't in regard to your cranial capacity. "
You are not having my PENGUIN! |
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I know. I was quite taken aback the first time I saw the complete dictionary too.
That's not what I was referring to and you know it!
Think of me like pooh; of very little brain
Oh I was thinking about you, but it wasn't in regard to your cranial capacity.
You are not having my PENGUIN! "
A penguin is for life, not just for Christmas.
Mind you, the fish smell they have is for life also... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And so how is the op getting on with the verification process?
I think he may be a little put off by the smell of penguin. Amateurs, hey?"
What is this obsession that all penguins smell? I feed mine fish fingers and peppermint oil capsules. He smells of toothpaste.
He's very cute and he's MINE |
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"And so how is the op getting on with the verification process?
I think he may be a little put off by the smell of penguin. Amateurs, hey?
What is this obsession that all penguins smell? I feed mine fish fingers and peppermint oil capsules. He smells of toothpaste.
He's very cute and he's MINE "
Honestly, I'm reeeeally not interested in your penguin. Smell or not. And having it in the bedroom watching us would be weird. Especially when it's head starts bobbing up and down in time. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Could you not ask the lady in your first picture?
Can just imagine that conversation .... Darling could you verify my account on fabswingers you know nothing about , Oh by the way im bisexual ! did I forget to say that when we got together 5 years ago ?? lol
Just for info; it was 11 years with my lady before I broached the subject of my sexuality and soon after my gender mismatch issues.
Bearing in mind the level of rejection Bi guys get in the all accepting world of fab, I'm sure you'll be able to understand why guys don't rush to tell their every partner in the vanilla world too.
This. It was 16 years for me. All that wasted time.
I told him right away that I was interested in women too; a moments pause, and with his tongue hanging out, he said, "really!"
Wouldn't it be nice if one day we can all have the confidence to just be honest about who we are from the outset without the fear of rejection or ridicule?
I've never understood why it's more socially acceptable for women to be attracted to each other than it is men.
It's never been illegal for women in this country where so many men have criminal records to this very day and were on the sex offenders register until relatively recently.
Couldn't agree with you more Rachael; xxx
I find it even odder (is that a word?) when bi women have some kind of a negative 'preference'against bi men. Each to their own and all that, but it does make me wonder
When we first started on Fab and we're trying to meet, we got turned down a lot because at the time S was totally straight. It made us feel like the ladies playing was somehow expected, if not compulsory.
But as you say, we would also get couples with a bi female turning us down because I was Bi.
This is where someone jumps in with the magic thread ender "preferences innit"."
I can (and do) understand why straight men may not wish to be involved where a bisexual man is present. It is their (unjustified) fear that a bisexual man would not be able to resist getting physically involved with them
But I do not understand when a woman is so negative about bisexual men. I have met tons of bisexual men and had they not told me that they were bisexual, I would not have known
And you are correct; it is someone encouraged for women to be bisexual. Very annoying when you met them and feel that they are only pretending to bait another woman for their partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And so how is the op getting on with the verification process?
I think he may be a little put off by the smell of penguin. Amateurs, hey?
What is this obsession that all penguins smell? I feed mine fish fingers and peppermint oil capsules. He smells of toothpaste.
He's very cute and he's MINE
Honestly, I'm reeeeally not interested in your penguin. Smell or not. And having it in the bedroom watching us would be weird. Especially when it's head starts bobbing up and down in time. "
I proper laughed there. 
Yep; still laughing. Just imagingIng a penguin actually doing that |
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"And so how is the op getting on with the verification process?
I think he may be a little put off by the smell of penguin. Amateurs, hey?
What is this obsession that all penguins smell? I feed mine fish fingers and peppermint oil capsules. He smells of toothpaste.
He's very cute and he's MINE
Honestly, I'm reeeeally not interested in your penguin. Smell or not. And having it in the bedroom watching us would be weird. Especially when it's head starts bobbing up and down in time.
I proper laughed there.
Yep; still laughing. Just imagingIng a penguin actually doing that "
Happy to put a smile on your face anytime.
As long as the penguin isn't watching. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And so how is the op getting on with the verification process?
I think he may be a little put off by the smell of penguin. Amateurs, hey?
What is this obsession that all penguins smell? I feed mine fish fingers and peppermint oil capsules. He smells of toothpaste.
He's very cute and he's MINE
Honestly, I'm reeeeally not interested in your penguin. Smell or not. And having it in the bedroom watching us would be weird. Especially when it's head starts bobbing up and down in time.
I proper laughed there.
Yep; still laughing. Just imagingIng a penguin actually doing that
Happy to put a smile on your face anytime.
As long as the penguin isn't watching. "
We've kinda hijacked this thread. |
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"And so how is the op getting on with the verification process?
I think he may be a little put off by the smell of penguin. Amateurs, hey?
What is this obsession that all penguins smell? I feed mine fish fingers and peppermint oil capsules. He smells of toothpaste.
He's very cute and he's MINE
Honestly, I'm reeeeally not interested in your penguin. Smell or not. And having it in the bedroom watching us would be weird. Especially when it's head starts bobbing up and down in time.
I proper laughed there.
Yep; still laughing. Just imagingIng a penguin actually doing that
Happy to put a smile on your face anytime.
As long as the penguin isn't watching.
We've kinda hijacked this thread. "
You did with all your penguinular sourcery. Twasn't me. I was on message
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"I'm legit 100% Intrested in women or couple.
20 years old new to swinging looking for any takers to enjoy a session with me to get my first verify ticked off
Kik and Snap available "
Try going to a club |
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