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First meet is to be a cuck cpl!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am close to arranging my first fab meet with a cuck cpl and to be honest.....am very nervous yet excited at the same time! Any advice would be gratefully received??"
Make sure you talk to them ahead of time about their expectations. It's about how you can enhance their experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Previous poster was spot on. Talk.
While the definition of a Cuckold is a husband with an unfaithful wife... And this couple may be as simple as that... There are lots of other kinks that can be added by couples.
I have played with 3 cuck couples with a variety of kinks.
You could find this couple like: Dom/Sub games; sissification; chastity; creampies; humiliation; forced by.... Just as a start.
So in summary fully talk about what the Cuckoldry means to them. |
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By *ita7Man
over a year ago
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You have received sound advice. I always work on the principle you want them to repeat the experience with you & for you to become their regular fb. So talk & most importantly listen! If you don't it will go all wrong. Pleasure them & you will be pleasured at the same time. Good luck |
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Absolutely stick to the advice above..
Every cuckold couple and scenario is so different and want different things, lots of talking and setting boundaries etc
Above all remember it's for everyone's enjoyment and participation not just your own, whatever that dynamic maybe ensure all are included.
Good luck and have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Embrace your nerves, it's all part of the excitement. Try to remember that no matter how well they may like you as a person, you're essentially a sex toy to enhance their feelings for each other (in most cases I've experienced).
Just be yourself, try not to worry, and follow their lead once you arrive.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Embrace your nerves, it's all part of the excitement. Try to remember that no matter how well they may like you as a person, you're essentially a sex toy to enhance their feelings for each other (in most cases I've experienced).
Just be yourself, try not to worry, and follow their lead once you arrive.
Good luck "
Not all people want to go into massive details on what to expect.. The surprise is nice. Ask if there is anything they BOTH are specifically looking for and anything they really don't like. Then go with the flow. |
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By *ita7Man
over a year ago
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Don't hold your breath either. Don't be surprised if they back out or it's just the hubby fantasising. I always try to chat to the wife to ensure she exists & is happy with what's going on. Usually it goes all quiet at this moment & you never here from them again or occasionally it all works out. When it does it's fantastic. Good luck again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As _ita7 points out there us a possibility of a no show. Many times the husband has the fantasy and the wife us not on board. I've talked with several husbands that want my advice on how to get their wife into it. I can't do that. It is something they choose as a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The couple will know you are nervous so will they be but as soon as you get into the good stuff the nervous vanish. A met of any kind will always involve nerves but they dont last forever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am new,and nervous too!!
Will you be announcing all your prospective meets in the forum? "
It took a little while but we have the first smart comment of the thread. OP just ignore |
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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago
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"I am close to arranging my first fab meet with a cuck cpl and to be honest.....am very nervous yet excited at the same time! Any advice would be gratefully received??"
There is no need to be nervous It's just sex after all. |
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