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What is it that women want?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all you happy swingers, just to ask what is it you women actually look for, iv been hear for almost a year and met one female, iv chatted, iv invited to go on social meets and im into most things, i get told by a friend on here im good looking but i see women meeting guys that are less attractive. I just dont understand, it seems if your a women or couple its easy to get a meet you want. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No i dont mean to cause offence to anyone if i have i apologies just simply asking the question. I get what you are saying but here for almost a year i have friendly chats with people looking for either what i can offer/Help with or what im into also , but for somereason no meet ? |
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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago
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The ratio men/women gives few opportunities. You seem attractive and polite, but also unexperienced.
In my humble opinion, you could consider the following:
-Make a shorter and clearer profile. Little details can be explained in further chats
- Search for outstanding pictures. One clear and suggestive as main pic (no cock...).
- Be creative and different.
-Move in social and clubs circles
-But above all, be patience...
Good luck, my friend  |
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I can tell you what I want but that's no use to you at all. I can't tell you what other women want though.
The truth is that its difficult for young single men on fab to get meets because they vastly outnumber women. Not because they all want the same thing and you just need to find out what that is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You wont like this comment but for some i think it could be your age. You will be younger than lots of peoples own children
Submissive puppy play is also a rather niche kink
Good luck on site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all you happy swingers, just to ask what is it you women actually look for, iv been hear for almost a year and met one female, iv chatted, iv invited to go on social meets and im into most things, i get told by a friend on here im good looking but i see women meeting guys that are less attractive. I just dont understand, it seems if your a women or couple its easy to get a meet you want."
OP I am pretty sure that what you are looking for is definitely classed as a niche market, it has nothing to do with being more attractive/hung/taller/older than the next person...
have you tried looking on fet sites?  |
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"If you're under 6ft, no 6pack,not hung like a donkey then 95% of fab won't be interested 
The other 5% however  "
I do like a tall man as I'm tall myself. But I don't want a six pack or a massive cock. I am picky though. Just in other ways. Which is good news for all the geeks out there. I just love a geeky man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chocolate. Curlywurlys are popular.
And cake! Never underestimate the power of cake (only trouble is, it isn't only the lady Fabbers that are attracted to it!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I look to break men.
I'm talking a sobbing broken heap where a man once stood.
Are you still using the chainsaw and mincer in your foreplay?
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I'm way beyond that now |
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I like to meet guys in Clubs.
If I'm interested on here I will generally be looking for someone who seems to have a sense of humour, who is between 33-49 years old (allegedly!), 5'8" to 6'1" tall and who is slim'ish. Don't go for beards or beer bellies. Don't go for stupid site names, not overly interested in the size of a guys dick. Will look at veri's and tend to see where they have posted on the forum.
In many ways I use the forum's as a filter. Guys who get in touch without reading our profile and who do the 'how are you' line get binned, as do friends requests without chatting or meeting.
In a Club many of the above rules apply, but amuse me, be interesting and I can ignore my rules any time I want!! |
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"Chocolate. Curlywurlys are popular.
And cake! Never underestimate the power of cake (only trouble is, it isn't only the lady Fabbers that are attracted to it!)"
I do love a curly wurly and sex, really really hot steamy sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks to everyone for your advice i appreciate it, however iv done or tried most of what you say and doesnt work. Also people tell me to be patient , i have been for a year , theres so much i want to try/Explore but no luck. Maybe a sex change would work lol i see loads of women looking for same sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks to everyone for your advice i appreciate it, however iv done or tried most of what you say and doesnt work. Also people tell me to be patient , i have been for a year , theres so much i want to try/Explore but no luck. Maybe a sex change would work lol i see loads of women looking for same sex. "
Go to clubs. Meet people in person. Get out and about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the majority of women on this site prefer men a bit older than yourself, and there isn't much you can do about that. However it's normally quite easy for a goodlooking guy your age to find sex, so I wouldn't worry too much.
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" but i see women meeting guys that are less attractive. I just dont understand, ."
it's not all about looks that makes someone attractive
" it seems if your a women or couple its easy to get a meet you want."
it may look easy but that's quite often an illusion work goes into it.
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"Hi all you happy swingers, just to ask what is it you women actually look for, iv been hear for almost a year and met one female, iv chatted, iv invited to go on social meets and im into most things, i get told by a friend on here im good looking but i see women meeting guys that are less attractive. I just dont understand, it seems if your a women or couple its easy to get a meet you want."
You seem to understand perfectly |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Thanks to everyone for your advice i appreciate it, however iv done or tried most of what you say and doesnt work. Also people tell me to be patient , i have been for a year , theres so much i want to try/Explore but no luck. Maybe a sex change would work lol i see loads of women looking for same sex. "
Sounds like you're looking for a magic bullet. That bullet will get you ONE woman and one woman only. The word nuance springs to mind. You could have exactly the same conversation with two different women and get complexly different results. (Yes, I actually did this.)
My advice? Find a woman you like then find out what SHE likes. I hope you don't ask what I think you're going to ask...   |
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so true
you could end up more confused than ever asking that 
