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In all seriousness, should I delete my account?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok, so I've been on this a while. I've been nothing but pleasant and polite, and I've made genuine effort when messaging individuals. I've posted many meeting offers, reached out to people and taken part in forums and chats. I have pics that are on friend only, just not public. I think it's definitely clear that this just isn't the place for someone inexperienced like I am. My ultimate hope was that I would find someone who liked and was even turned on by being my "first". But it seems like this just isn't the place.

I've enjoyed my time here and talked to several genuinely lovely people, but in all seriousness should I just delete this account? Is it a waste of time, especially in central London where the pool for guys to pick from is much larger.

I'd appreciate any genuine thoughts and not just trolling :P

Cheers!!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

What would deleting your account achieve?

You seem to have gone about things in a good and positive way but as you've discovered that isn't always enough. Would approaching things from a different viewpoint help? I.e. just looking around, learning and enjoying interacting?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just go to one of the fabulous clubs there. Except 'our place for fun' cos it isn't.

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By *LUKCouple over a year ago

Loughborough

I would say less than 10% of our meets come from this website, it's so much easier to connect in person. We'll head out to a club and by the end of the night we have 3 or 4 future dates arranged.

You get out of this what you put in.

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By *.1079Man over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yeah I'd just delete

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would say less than 10% of our meets come from this website, it's so much easier to connect in person. We'll head out to a club and by the end of the night we have 3 or 4 future dates arranged.

You get out of this what you put in."

I have had meets from here,but most of mine have been from parties and clubs. I widened my circle of Swinging friends and it worked much better for me. Try it, then use this account to keep in touch rather than the focal point of your Swinging adventure.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah, just delete it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Agree with all the advice above. Clubs are your best bet. We've had a couple of meets off here, but in a club there's no pressure, just be friendly, open and polite and you'll get a lot further than on here. It's worth doing, trust us, and good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Virgin.?

I would of thought you be gang banged by this crowd. ha

Maybe a club would be a good start though if you lack confidence and bit shy.

I'm sure their pretty use to newbies at these places and make you soon feel welcome.

Good luck buddy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do agree to the opinion above.

You have tried every possibly thing to improve your profile. The time for you now is to show yourself and prove who you are.

Definitely trip to a clubs

Or just delete and forget

All the best x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you don't feel it's working for you OP, then perhaps you should.

I don't mean to sound harsh, but, from what I've read on the forum in the past, I very much doubt that your lack of experience is going to appeal to most, if indeed anyone on here.

I can, of course, understand your position. You're being honest about your experience etc, but consider that people of fab are here for THEIR enjoyment. It is unlikely they are going to want to go out of their way to pop your cherry.

Of course, there may be one or two people who might, but they will certainly be in the minority.

Perhaps try approaching this from a different angle.

Most people will probably consider you fairly inexperienced at your age anyway, but think about making yourself more appealing to others by mentioning what you can offer.

I'm assuming that during your time here you've been following a lot of threads in the forum, so perhaps you've picked up some ideas along the way.

I have seen comments in the past suggesting that perhaps fab isn't the best way to go about losing your virginity

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I would re-write your profile because it sounds a tad negative to me. You could say something similar, but better. Exactly what, that's up to you but give it some thought.

I'd go to a club as well.

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

OP it has always been the case that men are happy to "deflower" virgins, whilst women aren't so keen - especially on fab. We are mostly highly sexual ladies who want fun with experienced people.

In my lifetime I have had sex with two virgins and on both occasions it was a bit crap and over far too soon. No man or woman is a good lover right from the start, you learn how to please your partner with practice. You are more likely to do that in a relationship with someone you meet out in the real world. The ladies on here, me included, are here to seek out our own pleasure and not to teach.

Whatever you decide good luck x

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd suggest a new , subtler user name, also get meet verified asap, from an organised social or a trip to a club.

Good luck

MrB

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try the old fashioned way it's not that difficult

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would re-write your profile because it sounds a tad negative to me. You could say something similar, but better. Exactly what, that's up to you but give it some thought.

I'd go to a club as well. "

Couldn't agree more.. u need to get out n about fella and change ur profile asap..

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By *ndigo40Woman over a year ago

secret town

"Ok, so I've been on this a while. I've been nothing but pleasant and polite, and I've made genuine effort when messaging individuals. I've posted many meeting offers, reached out to people and taken part in forums and chats. I have pics that are on friend only, just not public. I think it's definitely clear that this just isn't the place for someone inexperienced like I am. My ultimate hope was that I would find someone who liked and was even turned on by being my "first". But it seems like this just isn't the place.

I'd appreciate any genuine thoughts and not just trolling :P

Cheers!!"

Not set in stone that you have to meet people of here

Other ways to meet people

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you very much for the advice

It seems like the general consensus is to go to a club, but I thought that was a big no - no as a newbie. I thought they would be pretty tight knit, almost secretive groups lol. I guess I was wrong! It seems a bit high pressure for a first timer, but I will look into it

thanks again

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"Thank you very much for the advice

thanks again"

They are pubs or nightclub type places where some folk may be shagging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't know what has prevented you from losing your virginity in 'regular' life, but whatever it is won't be resolved by the swing scene. If anything it will be harder for a sexually inexperienced man to get sex via the swing scene than in vanilla life. So whatever has prevented you getting sex in normal life, try and resolve that first. If you are still interested in swinging after you have gained some sexual experience then by all means give it a go again. Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your username and profile suggests that you live off Edgewere Road but being from around these parts, I'm not sure such a place exists. If you try Edgware Road then maybe there is a queue of confused ladies waiting there? Just a suggestion......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It may be best.....you have been here over a year and drawn a blank.

That in itself will count further against you.

But come straight back....with a new profile and a new approach. As others have said...get your self out there and make an effort. Go to a few clubs. Put yourself about. Get yourself known

And drop the "please fuck me because I'm a virgin" bit. It makes you sound extremely desperate. [even if you are keep it under wraps...it clearly doesn't work]

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your username and profile suggests that you live off Edgewere Road but being from around these parts, I'm not sure such a place exists. If you try Edgware Road then maybe there is a queue of confused ladies waiting there? Just a suggestion......"

you cant miss it! massive road from marble arch up to north london..the area known as edgeware rd is the part nearer central london..even has its own tube station..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

you cant miss it! massive road from marble arch up to north london..the area known as edgeware rd is the part nearer central london..even has its own tube station.."

Well I actually live right next to Marylebone station now. But that's still close enough that I can keep the profile, right? :P I couldn't find a way to change the name lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you cant miss it! massive road from marble arch up to north london..the area known as edgeware rd is the part nearer central london..even has its own tube station..

Well I actually live right next to Marylebone station now. But that's still close enough that I can keep the profile, right? :P I couldn't find a way to change the name lol"

Edgware Road. Edgware tube station.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you cant miss it! massive road from marble arch up to north london..the area known as edgeware rd is the part nearer central london..even has its own tube station..

Well I actually live right next to Marylebone station now. But that's still close enough that I can keep the profile, right? :P I couldn't find a way to change the name lol

Edgware Road. Edgware tube station."

Sat navs at sensitive things. If you can't spell your road name or the area that you live then these lucky ladies are never going to find you.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

you cant miss it! massive road from marble arch up to north london..the area known as edgeware rd is the part nearer central london..even has its own tube station..

Well I actually live right next to Marylebone station now. But that's still close enough that I can keep the profile, right? :P I couldn't find a way to change the name lol

Edgware Road. Edgware tube station.

Sat navs at sensitive things. If you can't spell your road name or the area that you live then these lucky ladies are never going to find you."

Oh dear OP!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want experienced filthbags to fuck the shit out of me, I'm afraid that fucking a virgin isn't what I want from here in any form. I've fucked a few in my youth and it was always shit! Sorry but it's true.

Not sure swingers are the best course of action for you. Why not get yourself a nice girlfriend that you feel comfortable with and take it nice and slowly with someone that loves you.

Even experienced filthbags have trouble getting it up around me (I'm clearly too fucking hot, they go into panic mode!) and you certainly wouldnt want your first time to be a bad experience with stage fright involved. Surely a loving caring partner is going to be more appropriate.

What do I know though everyone's different!

Ruby

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

Delete or delete not. There is no ask...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op you will not give up and delete your account....

Winners find a way to win and losers always find a way to lose.

Let's look at the positives things about you.... you're 24 , work , can accommodate, and independent.

These are your selling points... Use them to your advantage.

Step 1 - I would suggest putting up a meet today just for lunch or coffee. Do this daily but make it clear no sex. Some one will say yes and you will get your first meet verification.

Step 2 - Go to a social , make sure you say hello to everyone at that social. Male , female, and couples. This is very important because someone will verify you.

Step 3 - Ask everyone that verified you to meet you again. It could be anything from another social, going to a club , or a sex meet.

I know most of you forum veterans like to give advice on these threads but the rewrite your profile, change your username, go to club advice is past its sell by date. Let's try to help the new people, with new fresh ideas because we were all new at one time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP if you are going to persevere, I think you should keep the fact that you are a virgin to yourself. Firstly that's nobody's business but your own. Secondly it's probably turning people off.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Learn how to spell Edgware might help lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op you will not give up and delete your account....

Winners find a way to win and losers always find a way to lose.

Let's look at the positives things about you.... you're 24 , work , can accommodate, and independent.

These are your selling points... Use them to your advantage.

Step 1 - I would suggest putting up a meet today just for lunch or coffee. Do this daily but make it clear no sex. Some one will say yes and you will get your first meet verification.

Step 2 - Go to a social , make sure you say hello to everyone at that social. Male , female, and couples. This is very important because someone will verify you.

Step 3 - Ask everyone that verified you to meet you again. It could be anything from another social, going to a club , or a sex meet.

Positive advice

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By *leet-duoCouple over a year ago

Fleet

Firstly get some experience, pay for it if you have to. Then pay for someone to join you in a club or a party. Then once you have made some connections you can take off the stabilisers and fly free

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By *hetalkingstoveMan over a year ago

London

Depends how you feel about it.

If being on here is making you unhappy then yeah, delete.

Otherwise, don't treat it too seriously and just see what happens. Don't see it as something where you should be meeting women left right and center. Have low expectations and you might be pleasantly surprised eventually.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your profile is honest, well written and good. Its not a 'fill in later' or text speak. People are maybe a little put off about your inexperience but at a social night out that doesnt matter, its how you come across that will make people want to take a chance on you. There must be a fab Xmas social near where you are surely? Or a club even to go socially first time, just to meet people.

Good Luck OP, and hang in there - there will be someone willing somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Firstly get some experience, pay for it if you have to. Then pay for someone to join you in a club or a party. Then once you have made some connections you can take off the stabilisers and fly free"

This is why I stopped swinging.... the amount of people who can't see the difference between sex work and swinging is shocking.

The young man wants to experience swinging and join a community . not hire a woman for sex or hire a woman to escort him to a club.

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By *ollyGWoman over a year ago

Southampton

Get a face pic on your profile???

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman over a year ago

Bathwyche

Don't lose your virginity in a club!

Delete your account and go and interact and meet people, lose your virginity after some conversation.

Not with naughty greedy girls like me who could strap you down in to all kinds of kinky apparatus and do naughty things to you....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't lose your virginity in a club!

Delete your account and go and interact and meet people, lose your virginity after some conversation.

Not with naughty greedy girls like me who could strap you down in to all kinds of kinky apparatus and do naughty things to you....

That doesnt sound so bad actually!

Thanks for all the advice people. It's very much appreciated!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want experienced filthbags to fuck the shit out of me, I'm afraid that fucking a virgin isn't what I want from here in any form. I've fucked a few in my youth and it was always shit! Sorry but it's true.

Not sure swingers are the best course of action for you. Why not get yourself a nice girlfriend that you feel comfortable with and take it nice and slowly with someone that loves you.

What do I know though everyone's different!

Ruby"
crikey I have been shagging for 30 years and you scare the crap out of me lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Firstly get some experience, pay for it if you have to. Then pay for someone to join you in a club or a party. Then once you have made some connections you can take off the stabilisers and fly free

This is why I stopped swinging.... the amount of people who can't see the difference between sex work and swinging is shocking.

The young man wants to experience swinging and join a community . not hire a woman for sex or hire a woman to escort him to a club.

If he really genuinely wants to experience swinging then fair enough. But as a virgin he just may be wanting to experience sex. He doesn't actually say what he wants to experience and I think people are concerned that a swing site is not a suitable place to lose ones virginity.

But you raise a valid point about the difference between swinging and escorting. Not necessarily the OP, but there are a hell of a lot of men who seem to use this site in the hope of getting a similar service that one might get from an escort agency but without having to pay for it.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stay OP, this isn't just a swinging site, it's a site for whatever a person is looking for. As a single male you have a lot of competition. Try changing your profile a bit. I would be interested if you lived nearer, so don't give up hope of a meet, just yet. XXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd appreciate any genuine thoughts and not just trolling :P

Cheers!!"

As always you'll get conflicting advice.....

So feel free to ignore mine.

It's hard for single guys to get a meet so one year in with no meets might be seen negatively. I'm not sure it's that unusual though.

I'd suggest a few more public photos, you don't need a public face pic, definitely have a couple in your private/friends gallery.

Always send a face pic with a first message. Keep the first message personal to the person you send it to. Do not send a cocktail pic or fancy a fuck message.

Your lack of experience could be a contributing factor. It's good to be honest, but maybe change the flavour and feel of your biog.

Personally I'd say it's a little short and possibly doesn't showcase your personality.

If trying a club is daunting have a look in the meets forum and look for a group social.

They're a great way to network and meet people, with no pressure.

If you decide to delete you've lost nothing. If you want to carry on with Fab maybe write an entirely new profile biog, get some more photos. Then delete this account and reopen a new one with the brand new super deluxe you.

Whatever you decide to do, good luck.

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By *hiterabbit6Couple over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

I host social meets in London and heathrow and you would always be welcome to join, if you check out the london forum all details are there, next ones though are in January, there are always a friendly mixed group of people, newbies and experienced, males, females, cpls... it is a perfect opportunity for you to meet, chat and get to know genuine people in the lifestyle, no pressure.

Rabbit x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I host social meets in London and heathrow and you would always be welcome to join, if you check out the london forum all details are there, next ones though are in January, there are always a friendly mixed group of people, newbies and experienced, males, females, cpls... it is a perfect opportunity for you to meet, chat and get to know genuine people in the lifestyle, no pressure.

Rabbit x

Hey OP, ^^^^^^^^^^^

Sorted.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

Rabbit x

Hey OP, ^^^^^^^^^^^

Sorted.

Yes OP, sorted, sounds like a nice invitation from Rabbit, go for it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rabbit x

Great post.... if he does make it to your social. Make sure to introduce him to everyone and check up on him.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

Rabbit x

Great post.... if he does make it to your social. Make sure to introduce him to everyone and check up on him."

That's a very nice thought. Let's hope he takes up the invitation, sounds ideal to me.

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By *hiterabbit6Couple over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

Rabbit x

Great post.... if he does make it to your social. Make sure to introduce him to everyone and check up on him.

That's a very nice thought. Let's hope he takes up the invitation, sounds ideal to me.

Don't worry, I am very mindful of all who attend .... I always introduce newbies and have a few regular attendees who along with me make sure no one is left on there own or out of the chat .... I really hope you come OP

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By *rs DCouple over a year ago

far

No dont go, we got a big shortage of single men on fab

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

"Op you will not give up and delete your account....

Winners find a way to win and losers always find a way to lose.

Let's look at the positives things about you.... you're 24 , work , can accommodate, and independent.

These are your selling points... Use them to your advantage.

Step 1 - I would suggest putting up a meet today just for lunch or coffee. Do this daily but make it clear no sex. Some one will say yes and you will get your first meet verification.

Step 2 - Go to a social , make sure you say hello to everyone at that social. Male , female, and couples. This is very important because someone will verify you.

Step 3 - Ask everyone that verified you to meet you again. It could be anything from another social, going to a club , or a sex meet.

I agree. Constructive suggestions.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

Rabbit x

Great post.... if he does make it to your social. Make sure to introduce him to everyone and check up on him.

That's a very nice thought. Let's hope he takes up the invitation, sounds ideal to me.

Well done you, sounds great for newcomers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rabbit x

Great post.... if he does make it to your social. Make sure to introduce him to everyone and check up on him.

That's a very nice thought. Let's hope he takes up the invitation, sounds ideal to me.

Sounds great, proper way to do a social.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd appreciate any genuine thoughts and not just trolling :P

Cheers!!"
I feel that way

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By *hiterabbit6Couple over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

I'd appreciate any genuine thoughts and not just trolling :P

Cheers!!I feel that way "

Shame you are so far away... if you're ever this way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah, just delete it."

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

OP seems to have disappeared off the thread, but has posted on another and done a status for a 'meet now' type thing. I'm sorry to say I'm moving towards the delete profile option.

OP you need to get in touch /reply with the poster who has invited you to London based socials, or rethink the purpose of being here. Sorry if that sounds harsh.

MrB

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By *hiterabbit6Couple over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

"OP seems to have disappeared off the thread, but has posted on another and done a status for a 'meet now' type thing. I'm sorry to say I'm moving towards the delete profile option.

OP you need to get in touch /reply with the poster who has invited you to London based socials, or rethink the purpose of being here. Sorry if that sounds harsh.

MrB"

I even pm'd him directly yesterday and invited him but he has not read my message, so maybe he has managed to get himself a meet ???

Good luck OP..

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By *ischief ManagedCouple over a year ago

manchester

"OP seems to have disappeared off the thread, but has posted on another and done a status for a 'meet now' type thing. I'm sorry to say I'm moving towards the delete profile option.

OP you need to get in touch /reply with the poster who has invited you to London based socials, or rethink the purpose of being here. Sorry if that sounds harsh.

MrB"

quite alot want to get the cake and eat it rather than putting in any effort. He has been given a golden opportunity to kick start his swinging adventure as well

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

Only you can decide, I'd never rely on the fab forum for advise on whether to delete your own profile.

Ps if you get a sympathy shag out of this post let me know so I can threaten to leave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Totally your choice if you stay or leave.

A 24 year old who cant decide for himself whether he wants to keep his profile or not ..... not sure thats what lots are looking for on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stick with it. Things take time on here and can change around very quickly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd appreciate any genuine thoughts and not just trolling :P

Cheers!!"

Agree with other posts - get to a club. I went on my own and best thing I ever did! Met some lovely people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd appreciate any genuine thoughts and not just trolling :P

Cheers!!

Agree with other posts - get to a club. I went on my own and best thing I ever did! Met some lovely people "

I'm really not sure a swingers club is a good start for someone in the OPs situation.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

I'd say yes.

Well maybe just find a regular date and leave this dormant.

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

"OP seems to have disappeared off the thread, but has posted on another and done a status for a 'meet now' type thing. I'm sorry to say I'm moving towards the delete profile option.

OP you need to get in touch /reply with the poster who has invited you to London based socials, or rethink the purpose of being here. Sorry if that sounds harsh.

MrB

I even pm'd him directly yesterday and invited him but he has not read my message, so maybe he has managed to get himself a meet ???

Good luck OP..

OK,that says it all x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

years ago it was good for getting meets clubs would be the best option for you, i would love to have the bottle to go and try another club but after getting refused at some club in Leeds 2010 by some door man just over my accent he refused me to enter the club some couple at the back of me was found him disgusting for his behavior towards me after given me some verbal abuse i was dressed smart cleaned shaved and polite and then somebody like him put me of going again

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By *inkySlinkyCouple over a year ago

Leeds

I cannot believe you were refused entry to a club because of your accent. Was this Isis?

Sally

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By *sagent81Man over a year ago

Leeds

Have you tried tinder and pof? Much, much easier to meet people

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By *rs DCouple over a year ago

far

Well OP looks like it was just all a fuss,your still here

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

"years ago it was good for getting meets clubs would be the best option for you, i would love to have the bottle to go and try another club but after getting refused at some club in Leeds 2010 by some door man just over my accent he refused me to enter the club some couple at the back of me was found him disgusting for his behavior towards me after given me some verbal abuse i was dressed smart cleaned shaved and polite and then somebody like him put me of going again"

When I was 18 a doorman stopped me going in a pub because I was wearing trainers, so I've not been in a pub since