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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been on here a few months now and have been lucky enough to have had a couple of really great meets. I've read lots of posts about how difficult it is to get meets but having had a couple in a relatively short space of time thought I was doing good ok. However just recently I'm finding that despite nice polite and content rich messages I'm getting no replies, not even no thanks. Having felt I've reached a plateau I'm turning to my fellow forum friends for their comments, advice and opinions. Many thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's factor of being fresh meat, and a kid in a sweet shop.
You join a site, message everyone of interest in your area, and meet the ones who are interested in return.
Then you find that you've ran out of compatible people in your area. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have a variety of poses in the photos, but only one glum-looking expression in all. I hate having my photo taken, so I can sympathise, but you could do with a smiley couple of pics. Might help...good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all of your input, it is appreciated and I see what you're all saying.
Always struggled with smiling for photos its so unnatural to me. I will redo some though as it's important.
Thanks again everyone xx |
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"There's factor of being fresh meat, and a kid in a sweet shop.
You join a site, message everyone of interest in your area, and meet the ones who are interested in return.
Then you find that you've ran out of compatible people in your area. "
Very much this.
Plus your current petulant status message won't be helping ... |
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"There's factor of being fresh meat, and a kid in a sweet shop.
You join a site, message everyone of interest in your area, and meet the ones who are interested in return.
Then you find that you've ran out of compatible people in your area.
Very much this.
Plus your current petulant status message won't be helping ..."
this, plus reading profiles before sending a message  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There's factor of being fresh meat, and a kid in a sweet shop.
You join a site, message everyone of interest in your area, and meet the ones who are interested in return.
Then you find that you've ran out of compatible people in your area.
Very much this.
Plus your current petulant status message won't be helping ... this, plus reading profiles before sending a message "
Always make sure I do this, never send just random messages. Still good advice though so thanks. |
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"There's factor of being fresh meat, and a kid in a sweet shop.
You join a site, message everyone of interest in your area, and meet the ones who are interested in return.
Then you find that you've ran out of compatible people in your area.
Very much this.
Plus your current petulant status message won't be helping ... this, plus reading profiles before sending a message
Always make sure I do this, never send just random messages. Still good advice though so thanks."
you sent me a random message op |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There's factor of being fresh meat, and a kid in a sweet shop.
You join a site, message everyone of interest in your area, and meet the ones who are interested in return.
Then you find that you've ran out of compatible people in your area.
Very much this.
Plus your current petulant status message won't be helping ... this, plus reading profiles before sending a message
Always make sure I do this, never send just random messages. Still good advice though so thanks.you sent me a random message op "
How long ago? Defo wouldn't have been recently. Need to know what to write so always need to read profiles. Maybe I'll try messaging again? Hehe! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also, try clubs!
Would love to try this. Anyone know any in the Portsmouth/Southampton area? Cheers"
There isn't! You will need to look further afield.
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All I can say is keep on keeping on and good luck.