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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like they just want access to you private photos.
Most folk on here will say it's weird and unacceptable. If someone is a friend add them if not don't |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
Bury/Bolton |
"No we just delete and quite often block."
Same here but we always block as it says we will on the profile, so to still send an invite means they either didn't read it or they don't care about our boundaries and neither one is appealing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What a coincidence I've just posted about this in the Wales forum.
We tend to get the random invites without a message.
Or a one or two messages then a invite.
just this morning we had one I've declined it three times in last few weeks.
From now on think we will just block x |
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No I don't accept. There's a few people o regularly chat to but even they aren't on my friends list I use it for people that I e met and want to meet again, when schedules are permitting for us both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we never accept friend requests until we have exchanged a few messages, often we wait until we are arranging day/time to meet - we have learnt by experience that people who genuinely want to meet will put a bit of effort and patience into their fab world, m x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we tend to wait till they are off line, have a quick look at the friends only photos, then unfriend them, then block if they are of no interest to us :-0 |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"we tend to wait till they are off line, have a quick look at the friends only photos, then unfriend them, then block if they are of no interest to us :-0"
Like it, in effect a reverse perve 
We just leave them sitting, it says on our profile we don't accept ransoms usually its couples as we have guys blocked.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we tend to wait till they are off line, have a quick look at the friends only photos, then unfriend them, then block if they are of no interest to us :-0"
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"we tend to wait till they are off line, have a quick look at the friends only photos, then unfriend them, then block if they are of no interest to us :-0
Like it, in effect a reverse perve
We just leave them sitting, it says on our profile we don't accept ransoms usually its couples as we have guys blocked.
S"
Ransoms lol wtf.. Randoms ffs
S |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We might friend someone who winks at us if we think there is a possibility of our paths crossing in the future. Likewise we would accept a friend request from someone we have winked at. We're not big on on-line chat and hardly ever meet privately, but we go to a lot of parties so we would hope to connect with some of our 'friends' that way. If nothing comes of it we defriend after a while. There have been a few that haven't accepted our friend request after they winked at us. Guess they were offended that we didn't bother to message. For us it just initiates a connection, then we can have chat if we are at the same party/social. Certainly don't friend people just to look at pictures - ffs we're active players, can't be arsed with picture collecting!
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I don't bother to accept friend invites from people who've not bothered to communicate with me - it suggests they want to look at photos. I prefer a friends list of people that I've filtered so that I know we've something in common, either as good friends, shags or other interests.
I wink them, if I think they may be of interest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For the first three months on Fab we were inundated with friends requests ... mostly from the mad, bad and just plain dangerous to know and without even the simple courtesy of a message saying "Hi I'd love to shag you". We now only accept friends requests from people we have exchanged lots of messages with or have met. We had one guy who did send messages .. the same message about 20 times ( the beauty of cut and paste) before we discovered how to block him (slow on the uptake .. its an Irish thing) ... it said "Luv to park my lorry in your drive". WTF Cx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know a dew people seem to accept every invite
Personally my list is small, but I just let them sit there so they can't keep resending
Each to their own I don't think there's a right or wrong way
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I've no pictures in friends I don't make public from time to time, if folk within my preferences send an invite likely I'll accept it, those outside my preferences nope not gonna happen., says as such in my profile,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I certainly don't want to be friends with someone who is so rude as to open by sending a Friends Request before any contact....
Blocked every time - just like I say on my Profile that I will...!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No don't even look at them. Just leave them there so they can't send another."
Think they can probably keep sending them but you just don't receive them.
Auto block is our solution. |
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By *duk70Man
over a year ago
langley |
"Common courtesy to at least chat first and see if they are happy to become friends
Because that's what you do????"
I try to but sometimes I don't even get a friendly response. Shame but it's how it is. |
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"Do you accept friends requests from people that haven't either bothered to say hi? I personally think only good courtesy to chat first. Just thought I'd see what people's views are xx"
I send them (its usually couples) a message saying why would Yu assume we'd want to be your friends when you can't even speak to us, then I block, so they get the message. Happens more on my single profile though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No wont accept them most are from people who haven't bothered reading my profile. I used to delete the requests but got fed up with a few people who would keep sending requests so don't delete now just ignore them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I accept friend requests, giving people the benefit of doubt but if after sending a message to my new friend I get a one word reply or no reply, then its bye bye |
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We used to, but after a couple of days of people not saying a word. We would delete them..
now we just leave the friends requests. We dont delete them or the winks. That way they cant send us another one |
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"Do you accept friends requests from people that haven't either bothered to say hi? I personally think only good courtesy to chat first. Just thought I'd see what people's views are xx"
Very very rarely .. normally if I’m being nosey and want to check out their pics lol  |
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Stated in my profile, I don't accept friend request from people unless we've already chatted.
Anyone sending one without any prior communication is ignored, if they can't read & understand, honour that simple request, then I automatically assume they're not intrested in me as a person, my wishes & preferences, so why would I want them as a 'friend'
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"Do you accept friends requests from people that haven't either bothered to say hi? I personally think only good courtesy to chat first. Just thought I'd see what people's views are xx"
No, I leave the request there until they upload some pics (which is usually never), then accept when they're not online, have a looksie, and if they then appear real, maybe get back in touch |
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"Nope ,i wait till they have gone offline,add and look at all pics and then delete.
I block repeat offenders who cant say even hello first .
Miss"
Haha that’s a great little trick .. how have I not thought of that x |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
"Nope ,i wait till they have gone offline,add and look at all pics and then delete.
I block repeat offenders who cant say even hello first .
Miss
Haha that’s a great little trick .. how have I not thought of that x "
Do that all the time unless the lady is really hot ..then she can stay (not that I get many requests  ) |
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"Nope ,i wait till they have gone offline,add and look at all pics and then delete.
I block repeat offenders who cant say even hello first .
Miss
Haha that’s a great little trick .. how have I not thought of that x "
I even state in my single prof that thats what i do lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you accept friends requests from people that haven't either bothered to say hi? I personally think only good courtesy to chat first. Just thought I'd see what people's views are xx"
occasionally i wait till they are off online and look at the picsm, if they are trying alot to add me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you accept friends requests from people that haven't either bothered to say hi? I personally think only good courtesy to chat first. Just thought I'd see what people's views are xx"
I agree OP, but to be honest a random request from the right persons could be a very pleasant suprise ..... It's always fun to make a new friend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you accept friends requests from people that haven't either bothered to say hi? I personally think only good courtesy to chat first. Just thought I'd see what people's views are xx"
If they're hot, verified and have friend only pics then yes xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you accept friends requests from people that haven't either bothered to say hi? I personally think only good courtesy to chat first. Just thought I'd see what people's views are xx
If they're hot, verified and have friend only pics then yes xx"
Can I send you one then !  |
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