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Not really meeting any girl ?
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I'm not a female so maybe can't comment totally objectively, but your profile reads well to me, is clear what you're looking for. Can only suggest patience and well written messages to anyone you'd like to meet ate the keys. Or maybe look out for Ladies Only nights at clubs.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey,
I'm not meeting any women on this site. I've only met one  . I wonder if my profile is off putting ?
Any advice ?"
Think been single means it's harder, I'm a single woman would prefer to meet a single man and from chatting to other women they getting lots of messages daily I get very few , patience seems to be the key |
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"you have a specific age range OP
maybe try expanding it..
other than going to clubs and socials that's all I can suggest"
I know what you mean and I did think about it. But I think my age puts people off. I'm not a swinger, I'm single and want to have fun. |
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"Hey,
I'm not meeting any women on this site. I've only met one . I wonder if my profile is off putting ?
Any advice ?
Think been single means it's harder, I'm a single woman would prefer to meet a single man and from chatting to other women they getting lots of messages daily I get very few , patience seems to be the key"
I don't get any . I'm lucky if I get one. It could be cause I have blocked men ?? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I would get rid of your lines about men - use your messaging filter to stop them messaging you and then it won't read as quite so negative. Trying to attend a social is always a good suggestion to meeting others. More photos also? No need to display both veris - they are from the same person and don't have much difference in them.
There are plenty of women in London who fit your critera OP but they are quite in demand as you can imagine so it might be a case of tweaking and patience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's an off putting profile at all, it's just tricky to find FF fun, I can vouch for that. I do think maybe try organised BiFem socials or ladies only nights in clubs. Have fun. |
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"I would get rid of your lines about men - use your messaging filter to stop them messaging you and then it won't read as quite so negative. Trying to attend a social is always a good suggestion to meeting others. More photos also? No need to display both veris - they are from the same person and don't have much difference in them.
There are plenty of women in London who fit your critera OP but they are quite in demand as you can imagine so it might be a case of tweaking and patience."
Thanks for your advice ! I was sick of couples messaging me ( who weren't couples at all, just men) so wanted to make it clear. But I'll definitely get rid of it so it doesn't sound negative.
Oh to the poster who who said my age range is restricted, I've put it a bit higher 
I dunno. When I go to socials, I feel out of place. I'm the youngest and I don't have much experience. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I dunno. When I go to socials, I feel out of place. I'm the youngest and I don't have much experience."
Ah, I remember that feeling well! The majority of users on fab are older which is something to bear in mind - it stands to reason there'll be older people at socials. Lack of experience in itself isn't a bad thing, as long as there is curiosity you'll be fine. Have you consideres travelling for a ladies only club night? You can avoid possible run ins. It shouldn't be a thing anyways, you're all there for the same reason but I can understand why you might be uncomfortable. There's a woman on here who has a profile that I can't remember but when I do will measage you with it - she organises socials for younger people. |
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"I dunno. When I go to socials, I feel out of place. I'm the youngest and I don't have much experience.
Ah, I remember that feeling well! The majority of users on fab are older which is something to bear in mind - it stands to reason there'll be older people at socials. Lack of experience in itself isn't a bad thing, as long as there is curiosity you'll be fine. Have you consideres travelling for a ladies only club night? You can avoid possible run ins. It shouldn't be a thing anyways, you're all there for the same reason but I can understand why you might be uncomfortable. There's a woman on here who has a profile that I can't remember but when I do will measage you with it - she organises socials for younger people. "
Thanks ! But if I went to these ladies nights, I'm worried that I'll get excited, lose my senses and may get an STD. I'm a worry soul like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey,
I'm not meeting any women on this site. I've only met one .
I don't get any . I'm lucky if I get one. It could be cause I have blocked men ??"
I can imagine that you'll get a lot of messages from single men and couples if you were to lift the block, but someone like me can actually put you in contact with another girl. |
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There are organised all girl parties in London fairly regularly. I don't think we are allowed to name other site members, but one lady organises lots down there.
These are private so you wouldn't have the club concern you mentioned.
I'm sure a quick search will find her x |
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