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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I've recently started seeing an older women who is lovely and is definitely not a closed book when it comes to sex. I had told her I'd been to AbFabs before explaining what it is, getting more into things. She got the idea that I was a swinger, this is where I got a bit worried what she would think. But lucky she was fine about it, as long as I don't meet anyone behind her back etc.
I'd like to know what other people's experience has been telling a new partner. She is the first person I've ever felt comfortable telling about it because she is so open like myself.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say she knows already once you told her you went to a club? Ask her would she go another time with you.  "
I have asked her and she said she would go to one but not AbFabs as it's right next door to where she takes her Daughter Horse Riding, which I fully understand, so would need to think of another one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would be honest
But only if the relationship was going somewhere..not on a first few dates"
Like I've said she was the first person I've told as I knew how open minded she is, I've been with a couple of people who's mind it wouldn't even cross at all.
I didn't tell her straight away we've been seeing each other for about 6 weeks now and it's been the best sex I've ever had, in the real world and the swinging world  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was a virgin before I met Dorian so I've never had to tell anyone that I was a swinger.
He'd never done swinging before but wasn't a virgin so neither of us have had to tell anyone
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