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Kids finding out you are a swinger?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have friends whose children know about their lifestyle. Itself not a problem for them except that every time they go out their children think they are swinging.
Its the friends of their children that are a problem, especially since some of them are on the site as well. |
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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago
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"Has any here had their kids finding out that you are swingers? How did the conversation go after they caught you out?"
.. ihave ,3 grown up daughters that all know I was a single swinger. They even said I had a better social life than them . They also know I met del in a swingers club and have accepted him as family..my youngest does ask questions bout it still and she is 26 .. im glad they know qe have always been an open family . K
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Maybe the wrong post for it but I told my dad I go to swingers clubs and not to tell any one and then next week I find out my mum and my brother know not that I mind but got a feeling he will say some thing at xmas and I may loose my rag with him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My eldest knows. She's 17. To be honest, she didn't care when she found out. It was like I'd told her I'd just did the dishes. Completely non plussed haha. Her generation is a lot more open minded than mine was growing up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My eldest knows. She's 17. To be honest, she didn't care when she found out. It was like I'd told her I'd just did the dishes. Completely non plussed haha. Her generation is a lot more open minded than mine was growing up. "
My daughter was 20 when she found out by reading texts on my phone. I am appatently a 'pervert' and she hasn't spoken to me in nearly three years except to demand money. I haven't told my son, I want to keep one child speaking to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My eldest knows. She's 17. To be honest, she didn't care when she found out. It was like I'd told her I'd just did the dishes. Completely non plussed haha. Her generation is a lot more open minded than mine was growing up.
My daughter was 20 when she found out by reading texts on my phone. I am appatently a 'pervert' and she hasn't spoken to me in nearly three years except to demand money. I haven't told my son, I want to keep one child speaking to me."
What a bloody shame. We are doing nothing wrong & definitely not perverts. Well most of us aren't lol. We will tell our daughter if we are still at it in a few years. She's 15 at the moment |
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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago
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Our eldest (18) knows and has even baby sat for friends when we went out with them. As long as she doesn't get any details shes ok. She knows we have a Fab profile as she benefitted from the Love Honney discount when she wanted some thing. Our youngest 16 doesn't know but we'll be up front when she turns 18. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My eldest does....but as far as I know hasn't told her sisters....all adults now and live up north near their mum (not sure if she knows, don't really care).
I've a friend on here who's older kids all know. Not sure about her youngest son. They know how I know their mum too. Eldest daughter has been and stayed a naughty weekend with me as a result. I even took her to Xtasia on her 21st. Her second daughter has introduced me to her friends at Butlins Minehead as a "family friend" when I went to visit her in summer.
Some people find it easy to be open with their children...some don't. I understand all sides of it. |
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Told my eldest (19) that we started hosting events at the club we go to and she said 'is it a swinging club?'
Silence
'Erm yes how do you know?'
'Saw T (OH) in the paper mum you went to swingfields yeah ? Just didn't know how to tell you'
Kinda like the fact I can walk out of the house dressed in my undies and no questions asked now hahaha  |
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I don't know what ied do if my mum and dad came out and said they swing I think it may put me off it all together get rid of fab and stop going clubs just with that tiny chance ied ever see them or find their profile ied never risk it and pack it all in |
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One of us opened a parents computer to find a swinging site open a few years back. Still never been talked about to this day!
This was before we got into it, but always a little worried nowadays at the local social  |
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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago
birmingham |
My mom knows but hey shes my babysitter and my daughter shes only 8 but i think when shes old enough i would be open with her same as i would about being bisexual so if she ever had feelin she was lesbian or bi it would be easier for her to talk about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We brought our kids up to be broadminded, they grew up as naturists,they have friends of all sexual preferences and colours and we've witnessed them arguing with bigoted people and have been proud.
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When we started swinging they asked where we were dissappearing to, and after the stuttered not quite tallying replies their radar was on full power.
One of them borrowed C's phone and there was Fabs and the cat was out the bag.
We've never been judgemental or overprotective with them and it seems to have paid off as though they are concerned about us they seem not unduly bothered,in fact seem pleased that we are still enjoying life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My eldest knows. She's 17. To be honest, she didn't care when she found out. It was like I'd told her I'd just did the dishes. Completely non plussed haha. Her generation is a lot more open minded than mine was growing up.
My daughter was 20 when she found out by reading texts on my phone. I am appatently a 'pervert' and she hasn't spoken to me in nearly three years except to demand money. I haven't told my son, I want to keep one child speaking to me."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never told my kids nor would i ever
My eldest are 23 and 24 and i think they know, they have said a few things in the past i feel is their way of letting me know they know but i just ignor the comments and make out they are going ovet my head
My eldest daugher did out right ask me once i just replied "the day we sit down and talk about your sex life we'll talk about mine" she hasn't asked since 
I don't feel i need to tell my children such things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im totally open, sex shouldnt be shameful!"
And i also never get why some people think that all because you don't want others knowing your private affair its because your ashamed
I have no shame in meeting guys off here for sex but my children will always be my kids no matter how old they get and as their mother i have no intentions of discussing my sex life or when i meet men i fuck with them, i just dont feel for me thats appropriate
And that does not mean i have a bad relationship with my kids or that we are not close, its just not a subject i discuss with anybody |
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"Im totally open, sex shouldnt be shameful!
And i also never get why some people think that all because you don't want others knowing your private affair its because your ashamed
I have no shame in meeting guys off here for sex but my children will always be my kids no matter how old they get and as their mother i have no intentions of discussing my sex life or when i meet men i fuck with them, i just dont feel for me thats appropriate
And that does not mean i have a bad relationship with my kids or that we are not close, its just not a subject i discuss with anybody"
100% this!  |
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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago
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"Im totally open, sex shouldnt be shameful!
And i also never get why some people think that all because you don't want others knowing your private affair its because your ashamed
I have no shame in meeting guys off here for sex but my children will always be my kids no matter how old they get and as their mother i have no intentions of discussing my sex life or when i meet men i fuck with them, i just dont feel for me thats appropriate
And that does not mean i have a bad relationship with my kids or that we are not close, its just not a subject i discuss with anybody
100% this! "
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"We have friends whose children know about their lifestyle. Itself not a problem for them except that every time they go out their children think they are swinging.
Its the friends of their children that are a problem, especially since some of them are on the site as well."
Jesus
Did they spot one anothers profiles? |
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All my kids know but then we are extremely open and it works for us
I started by saying I was going to a health spa (in my defence there is a jacuzzi and a sauna !! And there is an occasional massage and facial available  ) but then my 14 yr old found my membership card and told me all about it they aren't bothered in the slightest especially as it's safer to go to a club than it is meeting men in a pub. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have kids but I met a couple several times and was with them during the day on afternoon. She was sat on my face while sucking her hubby when thier 15 year old son walked in on us. |
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Our kids are far too young to be told. No intention of telling them either.
I have never felt the need to disclose each time I do something. I know some people love to share every bowel movement or what they had for dinner on Facebook. For me the answer for when we go out is that we simply went out with friends.
That seems to answer most queries about our limited social life. |
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All my family know what and who I am including parents when they were alive. my personal belief is if your ashamed at what you do don't do it. don't push it in people's faces. Respect all around you in any environment. Be safe and enjoy |
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I was chatting with a girl and the first time her and husband ever graced a trip to a club... after much 'building up courage' the first sight she was greeted with was her parents at the bar... luckily fully clothed.  |
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"My eldest knows. She's 17. To be honest, she didn't care when she found out. It was like I'd told her I'd just did the dishes. Completely non plussed haha. Her generation is a lot more open minded than mine was growing up.
My daughter was 20 when she found out by reading texts on my phone. I am appatently a 'pervert' and she hasn't spoken to me in nearly three years except to demand money. I haven't told my son, I want to keep one child speaking to me."
How does she explain her reasons for not speaking to you, to her brother? |
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"We have friends whose children know about their lifestyle. Itself not a problem for them except that every time they go out their children think they are swinging.
Its the friends of their children that are a problem, especially since some of them are on the site as well."
Eewwww. |
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My son knows.. only because he asks if I was working at a lap dancing club!! Because of the sexy outfits on the line one day!! I came clean with him and told him, but he is 22 years old!! And now we laugh when I found his mates online!!
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