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I know some on here play bareback, some selectively some not.
If you you do play bareback do you refrain from doing so just before and after being tested so you can be clear of your results and who may be affected if you are positive for anything?
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over a year ago
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no.
but i did bareback someone in august and i'm now not sure when/if everything comes back clear so i know i'm ok for the next time.
might go back to only soft play coz condom sex doesn't do much for me, everything else does though, foreplay and oral.
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"no.
but i did bareback someone in august and i'm now not sure when/if everything comes back clear so i know i'm ok for the next time.
might go back to only soft play coz condom sex doesn't do much for me, everything else does though, foreplay and oral.
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I have stopped bb too, did some while ago as I wanted to be sure I was still clean.
I hope I am and will find out soon but its a dillemma as I don't enjoy condom sex anywhere near as much either. |
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over a year ago
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"no.
but i did bareback someone in august and i'm now not sure when/if everything comes back clear so i know i'm ok for the next time.
might go back to only soft play coz condom sex doesn't do much for me, everything else does though, foreplay and oral.
I have stopped bb too, did some while ago as I wanted to be sure I was still clean.
I hope I am and will find out soon but its a dillemma as I don't enjoy condom sex anywhere near as much either."
disclaimer: nobody bother messaging me about this coz i won't entertain the bb sex idea with randoms at all.
same, i love being filled with cum too. a covered dick really does nothing for me any more.
i've been tweaking my thinking to going back to only soft play. i know i'll still enjoy myself and won't end up feeling disappointed with plastic bag sex...even if the guy is massive i feel nothing when his dick is inside me. like it's just shit.
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"no.
but i did bareback someone in august and i'm now not sure when/if everything comes back clear so i know i'm ok for the next time.
might go back to only soft play coz condom sex doesn't do much for me, everything else does though, foreplay and oral.
I have stopped bb too, did some while ago as I wanted to be sure I was still clean.
I hope I am and will find out soon but its a dillemma as I don't enjoy condom sex anywhere near as much either.
disclaimer: nobody bother messaging me about this coz i won't entertain the bb sex idea with randoms at all.
same, i love being filled with cum too. a covered dick really does nothing for me any more.
i've been tweaking my thinking to going back to only soft play. i know i'll still enjoy myself and won't end up feeling disappointed with plastic bag sex...even if the guy is massive i feel nothing when his dick is inside me. like it's just shit.
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I am feeling the same, almost puts me off it entirely like you have just said tbh.
Maybe its cus i'm very tactile and sensual but condom sex just doesn't feel right. |
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"no.
but i did bareback someone in august and i'm now not sure when/if everything comes back clear so i know i'm ok for the next time.
might go back to only soft play coz condom sex doesn't do much for me, everything else does though, foreplay and oral.
I have stopped bb too, did some while ago as I wanted to be sure I was still clean.
I hope I am and will find out soon but its a dillemma as I don't enjoy condom sex anywhere near as much either.
disclaimer: nobody bother messaging me about this coz i won't entertain the bb sex idea with randoms at all.
same, i love being filled with cum too. a covered dick really does nothing for me any more.
i've been tweaking my thinking to going back to only soft play. i know i'll still enjoy myself and won't end up feeling disappointed with plastic bag sex...even if the guy is massive i feel nothing when his dick is inside me. like it's just shit.
I am feeling the same, almost puts me off it entirely like you have just said tbh.
Maybe its cus i'm very tactile and sensual but condom sex just doesn't feel right."
i never had condom sex before this site. except with one ex and his dick was massive so it just rolled off when we were fucking anyway, might as well not have bothered. 
sucks that no condom feels as good as bb really, and i used to think skyns felt that way but not since i've had bb again. i did enjoy them but not any more. |
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Oh dear, seems like we are rare.
Tbh I still enjoy condom sex its still fun- maybe u just need to try other condoms to enhance it a bit.
Away from that, I assume even people wearing condoms 100% must get tested fairly often?
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"Oh dear, seems like we are rare.
Tbh I still enjoy condom sex its still fun- maybe u just need to try other condoms to enhance it a bit.
Away from that, I assume even people wearing condoms 100% must get tested fairly often?
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Yeah, I still get tested every 3 months or so. Have you folks tried ribbed condoms, see if that helps with the sensation? |
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over a year ago
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truvada is he drug thats being rolled out to prevent hiv.its taken once a day . ask your health advisor for details.anyone who is high risk should consider truvada x |
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"Oh dear, seems like we are rare.
Tbh I still enjoy condom sex its still fun- maybe u just need to try other condoms to enhance it a bit.
Away from that, I assume even people wearing condoms 100% must get tested fairly often?
Yeah, I still get tested every 3 months or so. Have you folks tried ribbed condoms, see if that helps with the sensation? "
i've tried bobbly ones, they used to feel ok. ribbed just feel a bit 'sticky' like i'm not as lubed up or something, not that keen on them and they've never done anything for me.
i'm just disappointed when using condoms. it is more my mentality i think, rather than sensation. |
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over a year ago
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If someone was bb and waiting to make sure they were safe before and after before doing it again technically you would only be able to have sex once every 4-6 months due to the incubation period x |
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What advantage does it give anyone, by not playing BB just before testing?
You can pass infection on right through the instant of being infected.
We always play safe, I'm not judging how you play, I just don't get how the system you describe will help anything? |
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"What advantage does it give anyone, by not playing BB just before testing?
You can pass infection on right through the instant of being infected.
We always play safe, I'm not judging how you play, I just don't get how the system you describe will help anything?"
we do. I was just pointing out the only way it would be possible to be as sure as you can be. |
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"What advantage does it give anyone, by not playing BB just before testing?
You can pass infection on right through the instant of being infected.
We always play safe, I'm not judging how you play, I just don't get how the system you describe will help anything? we do. I was just pointing out the only way it would be possible to be as sure as you can be. "
Sorry, my post was answering what the OP said in the first post. I think I was typing at the same time as you.... |
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"What advantage does it give anyone, by not playing BB just before testing?
You can pass infection on right through the instant of being infected.
We always play safe, I'm not judging how you play, I just don't get how the system you describe will help anything? we do. I was just pointing out the only way it would be possible to be as sure as you can be.
Sorry, my post was answering what the OP said in the first post. I think I was typing at the same time as you...."
i realised I hadnt made it clear.. and was envisaging an inbox full of bb requests lol |
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OP , I'm not a BB knocking white-horser, people have to make their own informed decisions and be open and honest about it with play partners, but I've only just noticed you are TV/TS . I would have imagined, more than anybody, you would be even more aware of all the details of this already. You are in a really high risk category for infection, I'd say you need to get much more aware on this.
MrB |
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over a year ago
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"If someone was bb and waiting to make sure they were safe before and after before doing it again technically you would only be able to have sex once every 4-6 months due to the incubation period x "
The max incubation period is 12 weeks; not 4-6 months |
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"If someone was bb and waiting to make sure they were safe before and after before doing it again technically you would only be able to have sex once every 4-6 months due to the incubation period x
The max incubation period is 12 weeks; not 4-6 months "
yes so 3 months either side...  |
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over a year ago
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I get tested every three months even though I don't bb. And get tested regular regardless of whether I meet or not.
Some people find that strange as I do sage sex
But a lot of people are naive and don't understand that sdi's can be passed on orally
Think a lot of people need to be re-educated or this subject
I mean yes most of us practice safe sex but we are not fully protected when we do oral unsafe are we
We are still at risk |
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I am niave and new and until playing on here I had the same, straight partner for 16 years so I do have a lot to learn.
So to me its a valid question I am learning from.
If you have regular partners you trust then bb sex isn't something to be scared of.
I do trust some so I take my risks.
I also plan to play safe whenever I want- its just bb sex I was wondering if people plan with testing in mind....
The hiv drug I will enquire about so thanks for that- thats the big one that scares me  |
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I never bb and get tested every three months.
If I've played a lot I go for swabs after a couple of weeks to test for the stuff I could get orally.
I use bb threads to ear mark people not to play with as they're higher risk. |
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There are different types of tests but typically a 12 week period after sex would show infection for the majority of people.
If you've had the potential for infection, there is a short window after sex where PEP treatment can be started.
I've copied this from the Terence Higgins website -
'If your risk was in the last three months, tell the person testing you as it may affect the type of test they use.
If your risk was recent the testing centre will probably advise you to have a test immediately, followed by a second one a few weeks later (this will pick up any recent infection the first test might have missed).
Very occasionally it can take up to three months for antibodies to appear in the blood, so an HIV negative result is only totally accurate if three months have passed between the test and the last time a risk was taken. However, a negative result four to eight weeks after taking a risk is a very good sign that HIV infection hasn’t happened. But to be absolutely sure another test should be taken around eight weeks later; the testing centre will advise you.' |
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"OP , I'm not a BB knocking white-horser, people have to make their own informed decisions and be open and honest about it with play partners, but I've only just noticed you are TV/TS . I would have imagined, more than anybody, you would be even more aware of all the details of this already. You are in a really high risk category for infection, I'd say you need to get much more aware on this.
MrB"
Tv/ts are higher risk? |
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"OP , I'm not a BB knocking white-horser, people have to make their own informed decisions and be open and honest about it with play partners, but I've only just noticed you are TV/TS . I would have imagined, more than anybody, you would be even more aware of all the details of this already. You are in a really high risk category for infection, I'd say you need to get much more aware on this.
MrB
Tv/ts are higher risk?"
Yes. |
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"OP , I'm not a BB knocking white-horser, people have to make their own informed decisions and be open and honest about it with play partners, but I've only just noticed you are TV/TS . I would have imagined, more than anybody, you would be even more aware of all the details of this already. You are in a really high risk category for infection, I'd say you need to get much more aware on this.
MrB
Tv/ts are higher risk?
Yes."
Agreed we are- and most are more than aware  |
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"If someone was bb and waiting to make sure they were safe before and after before doing it again technically you would only be able to have sex once every 4-6 months due to the incubation period x "
There you go again girl talking sense in yet another iteration of the interminable BB threads...
"Yes I get tested every 4 weeks reg'lr as clockwork innit"... yeah, and until you can go to a website like gov.uk/check-mot-history and check that person's test history, it could all be lies, like the "no glove no love" lies told on here, and for the same purpose, to improve the odds of a meet.
Oooh I've got a certificate I can show you, yeah, and I have a scanner / printer / photoshop too.
I have *long* maintained it ain't about STD's (if it was you'd happily fuck someone with aids if they were gloved up) it's all about semen and dogs marking their territory.
I'm in favour of the Texan attitude, if it happened to you it was your fault, if you take 100% responsibility for your own health (and no one else's) then you don't need to rely on what Equifux says Ball & Chain's STD rating is. |
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"If someone was bb and waiting to make sure they were safe before and after before doing it again technically you would only be able to have sex once every 4-6 months due to the incubation period x
There you go again girl talking sense in yet another iteration of the interminable BB threads...
"Yes I get tested every 4 weeks reg'lr as clockwork innit"... yeah, and until you can go to a website like gov.uk/check-mot-history and check that person's test history, it could all be lies, like the "no glove no love" lies told on here, and for the same purpose, to improve the odds of a meet.
Oooh I've got a certificate I can show you, yeah, and I have a scanner / printer / photoshop too.
I have *long* maintained it ain't about STD's (if it was you'd happily fuck someone with aids if they were gloved up) it's all about semen and dogs marking their territory.
I'm in favour of the Texan attitude, if it happened to you it was your fault, if you take 100% responsibility for your own health (and no one else's) then you don't need to rely on what Equifux says Ball & Chain's STD rating is."
Wtf was that? Oh do feel free not to post here again.
No really I don't wanna hear it  |
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Wtf was that? Oh do feel free not to post here again.
No really I don't wanna hear it "
Forums and people's opinions are like STD's, you can choose note to share anyone else's opinion / infection, but you don't get to choose for them what they should think or have.
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Wtf was that? Oh do feel free not to post here again.
No really I don't wanna hear it
Forums and people's opinions are like STD's, you can choose note to share anyone else's opinion / infection, but you don't get to choose for them what they should think or have.
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"OP , I'm not a BB knocking white-horser, people have to make their own informed decisions and be open and honest about it with play partners, but I've only just noticed you are TV/TS . I would have imagined, more than anybody, you would be even more aware of all the details of this already. You are in a really high risk category for infection, I'd say you need to get much more aware on this.
MrB"
Similar high risk category to swingers, apparently  |
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"OP , I'm not a BB knocking white-horser, people have to make their own informed decisions and be open and honest about it with play partners, but I've only just noticed you are TV/TS . I would have imagined, more than anybody, you would be even more aware of all the details of this already. You are in a really high risk category for infection, I'd say you need to get much more aware on this.
MrB
Tv/ts are higher risk?"
It wasn't an anti-tv comment. Bb anal is very high risk. |
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