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Enjoying sex with a condom on
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thought I'd bring it up again ( pun intended) 
Guys, do you struggle to enjoy sex with a condom on?
This may be because you're bigger than you realise. If the condom feels tight or won't roll to the base of you then it's too small.
Once a condom is on and you enter someone you should really feel it's there.
Condoms come in a range of sizes and vary in size by manufacturer. 'Large' for instance, as made by skyns, seems to fit many of my lovers. That doesn't mean they're massively hung it just means the standard size ones are actually quite small.
I hope this helps even just one guy out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have gone back to using condoms together.
Mrsdpt tried the implant and the pill...both caused chaos with her body so we decided to go back to condoms.
Doesn't make a great deal of difference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have gone back to using condoms together.
Mrsdpt tried the implant and the pill...both caused chaos with her body so we decided to go back to condoms.
Doesn't make a great deal of difference "
Drier sheets... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's great. This thread isn't intended to be for us to proudly announce our commitment to safe sex though.
I've had an awful lot of pm's from guys thanking me for posting this.
I'm telling you that because I want guys to realise they are not alone struggling to keep hard or to cum with a condom on.
This isn't the only solution.
I'm just aware from my, ahem, research  that some guys use standard size condoms and struggle where they really need a bigger one and would enjoy the experience much more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Skyns fan here due to latex allergy, Mr does find them a little tight but we had a few to get through, I think I'll buy some large ones today to see if he finds them better. Thanks Rachael!
Mrs X |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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Getting the right size definately helps, I wish there was better standardisation between brands. I must admit I had never thought of having other sizes for guests but it is a really good idea. How long does it take to get your eye in for guestimating sizes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Worthwhile thread - I wouldn't class myself as massively hung by any stretch but last time I used skyns standard size found them pretty tight and off putting - will check large |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't mind using them except the smell of them is nasty  "
I can't stand the smell of many conforms but the latex free ones are almost odourless and as such I'm happy to suck a guy with one on. |
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"Just a necessary evil I suppose. Perhaps they do take the edge off and then there's he interruption of putting it on......
But on the whole the sex is still pretty good"
That's the hubby's comment but from my perspective I have to say I bloody hate them! Would never play without obviously but I'm so glad me and him don't have to!! |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"Worthwhile thread - I wouldn't class myself as massively hung by any stretch but last time I used skyns standard size found them pretty tight and off putting - will check large "
Yes try the large size of skyns. I find the standard size hard to put on, and feels so uncomfortable.
Large size is easier to put on and feels more comfortable.
Anyway all this is relative, as it depends on the size of you dick as well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do make sure you are using the right size though, as they can also come off in the heat of the moment, that is not in any way something that adds to the moment!"
Oh essential to use the right size. That's kinda the whole point of the thread. |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"Do make sure you are using the right size though, as they can also come off in the heat of the moment, that is not in any way something that adds to the moment!"
True. Getting the right size is very important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i tell playmates i have condoms but if they want to use their own i am happy for them to do so, afer all they know themselves and their size better than i do. However it is handy to know that there could be a more comfier way of wearing them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love condoms. Dunny why but something about them gets me going and find I last longer with one on. There's so much choice nowadays also. Worth researching if you're gonna use em |
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By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago
Barbados |
Recently we've been using Durex Invisible. But twice now I've had trouble rolling them down. They just kinda stopped halfway. I'm average size and when they do go on they are fine. Just sometimes they just won't roll down.
Anyone tried Lelo Hex condoms yet? We've just bought some but not yet had a chance to test them out.
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even with XL ones it's still a pain in the ass (no pun intended). This is why I don't meet a lot of people as I like it sleazy and naturelle but still got be careful so choose very carefully, so far been no issues and always clean  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Passante do a king size which has a bigger diameter for those with thicker cocks.
When I have introduced a new man to them in the past they have been pleasantly surprised!
Superdrug sell em btw 
V |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting the right size definately helps, I wish there was better standardisation between brands. I must admit I had never thought of having other sizes for guests but it is a really good idea. How long does it take to get your eye in for guestimating sizes?"
I use condoms from Mysize.com they tell you how and what to measure to ensure a great fit. |
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R (m) - condom fit is for sure crucial. Incorrect fitting and there's no sensation. Get it right and it's good.
There's only some ladies I can ejaculate into with a condom on, though. Reality is rarely "backed-up", with being in a long-term relationship - so I have to drain-off some already well-drained testes  There appear to be some broad similarities shared between the ladies into whom I can "spunk-off" |
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PS - forgot to say - always enjoy the sex!!! Yes yes I do!!! Sometimes i could ejaculate but the deal is my ladyfriend is the cat that got the cream - "bareback"
With having a ladyfriend always reading to drain a "load" from me, the only thing that matters is the lady taking my condomed penis enjoys it. The satisfaction from feeling and seeing a lady writhing in pleasure... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Femidoms are fun if the lady wants to go from front to back several times.
Inserting them can be part of the foreplay.
Only thing is that they cost much more!"
I tried femidoms years back, it was like having sex with a crisp packet up ya floo ...rustled and everything. No thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not sure who makes them but the clinic gave me some latex free condoms, each in a round pot with a blue tear off lid.
They were very small. Flippin useless! 
I fed that back to them and they now give me skyns. Usually the large ones. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good thread Rachael.
Those men who find them uncomfortable, may simply be wearing the wrong size.
We agree that Skyns in large seem to work best for us.
Nita"
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"Thought I'd bring it up again ( pun intended)
Guys, do you struggle to enjoy sex with a condom on?
This may be because you're bigger than you realise. If the condom feels tight or won't roll to the base of you then it's too small.
Once a condom is on and you enter someone you should really feel it's there.
Condoms come in a range of sizes and vary in size by manufacturer. 'Large' for instance, as made by skyns, seems to fit many of my lovers. That doesn't mean they're massively hung it just means the standard size ones are actually quite small.
I hope this helps even just one guy out there. "
I use them. I don't notice it is on - no change in sensation for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not .. "
May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have just got skins condoms put one on last nite just to see what they are like on my cock I was disappointed with them not a good feel from them they don't smell good as well prefer ones that smell of rubber i use them if am ask to |
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By *nysladMan
over a year ago
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"Good thread Rachael.
Those men who find them uncomfortable, may simply be wearing the wrong size.
We agree that Skyns in large seem to work best for us.
Nita"
Yep I always use them find them one of the best about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not ..
May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote
Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not ..
May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote
Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need "
I meant with the 'guest'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not ..
May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote
Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need
I meant with the 'guest'. "
We prefer regular meets with 3 or 4 friends, start with protection after a while we leave it to them to decide, we are tested after meets and ( with hope) they get tested too if they have other friends. It's good if there's trust too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not ..
May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote
Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need
I meant with the 'guest'.
We prefer regular meets with 3 or 4 friends, start with protection after a while we leave it to them to decide, we are tested after meets and ( with hope) they get tested too if they have other friends. It's good if there's trust too "
We don't meet in clubs just home meets so we kinda get to know the guest a little |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found that the lube used in standard durex is like thick vaseline and takes all sensation away so I stick to skyns, it maybe due to the non latex material they use |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not ..
May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote
Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need
I meant with the 'guest'.
We prefer regular meets with 3 or 4 friends, start with protection after a while we leave it to them to decide, we are tested after meets and ( with hope) they get tested too if they have other friends. It's good if there's trust too "
It was birth control I asked about. Seven kids from not using condoms sounds like there is no birth control measures in place. So you leave it for them to decide sounds scary.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not ..
May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote
Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need
I meant with the 'guest'.
We prefer regular meets with 3 or 4 friends, start with protection after a while we leave it to them to decide, we are tested after meets and ( with hope) they get tested too if they have other friends. It's good if there's trust too
It was birth control I asked about. Seven kids from not using condoms sounds like there is no birth control measures in place. So you leave it for them to decide sounds scary. "
It's only since being sterilised after our last baby that we sometimes don't use anything , before this condoms were always used with others , we started 12 years ago but been on a break for 5 years before starting looking again in August. Would never of risked pregnancy with anyone other than husband. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not ..
May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote
Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need
I meant with the 'guest'.
We prefer regular meets with 3 or 4 friends, start with protection after a while we leave it to them to decide, we are tested after meets and ( with hope) they get tested too if they have other friends. It's good if there's trust too
It was birth control I asked about. Seven kids from not using condoms sounds like there is no birth control measures in place. So you leave it for them to decide sounds scary. It's only since being sterilised after our last baby that we sometimes don't use anything , before this condoms were always used with others , we started 12 years ago but been on a break for 5 years before starting looking again in August. Would never of risked pregnancy with anyone other than husband. "
Phew
So that's a yes to having an alternative birth control method |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have never used them together ( hence the 7 kids ) and we leave it to the guest to decide whether to ware or not ..
May I ask; do you use another form of birth control? [/quote
Together 20 years and pill in the past but sterilised now so no need
I meant with the 'guest'.
We prefer regular meets with 3 or 4 friends, start with protection after a while we leave it to them to decide, we are tested after meets and ( with hope) they get tested too if they have other friends. It's good if there's trust too
It was birth control I asked about. Seven kids from not using condoms sounds like there is no birth control measures in place. So you leave it for them to decide sounds scary. It's only since being sterilised after our last baby that we sometimes don't use anything , before this condoms were always used with others , we started 12 years ago but been on a break for 5 years before starting looking again in August. Would never of risked pregnancy with anyone other than husband.
Phew
So that's a yes to having an alternative birth control method "
in the beginning yes , not just for pregnancy though obviously. That's why we prefer regular basis friends ( although not guaranteed) a little easier to trust |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We use condoms and theyre ultra thin, litrally feels like not wearing one. I still orgasm and cum and they do not prolong my orgasm much. Sex without a condom is risky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The worst I ever tried were a brand called condomi, virtually impossible to get on, felt like wearing a cock ring, and I had to be completely flaccid to get the buggers off.
I prefer the durex real feel, xsx ultrathins and I ordered some skyns to try, just waiting for them to arrive ( and the opportunity ??) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yehh it's shit,i sometimes can't get them on and I'd rather have a wank tbh 
Perhaps you need a bigger size then  "
It's the cock rings fault..my dick goes all King Kong and the fucker won't fit....ahhhh well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never keen, normally as condom is v tight & more feeling on tightness than enjoying the feeling of sex
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This is exactly the feeling I'm on about. It's not supposed to feel like that big boy! Get a larger size and wear them with pride |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As much as I love to pull out and make a mess on a lady, if it's a particularly sensual, intense session and we've really connected, it can be amazing to fill the condom inside her, while kissing and holding each other. Minimal cleanup too, which is always good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting the right size definately helps, I wish there was better standardisation between brands. I must admit I had never thought of having other sizes for guests but it is a really good idea. How long does it take to get your eye in for guestimating sizes?"
Mysize.com do a number of sizes based on your real measurements
They currently have a range of girth and lengths so you can really customisee to get a really good fit |
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By *ph1977Man
over a year ago
Lincoln |
"Worthwhile thread - I wouldn't class myself as massively hung by any stretch but last time I used skyns standard size found them pretty tight and off putting - will check large "
length isn;t the issue with condom sizinf but girth is - and yes we know the stuff aobut how much you can stretch the ends once unrolled, but getting a condom on without havingto then 'burp it' like a drysuit means correct unstretched size
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi we use standard condoms on large dildos which are 12" long and over 2" in diameter so what is all this talk of condoms being to small,complete nonsense!"
Does your dildo have nerves so it can feel how tight the condom is?
I guess the condom manufacturers should have consulted you on this before wasting so much money on making a variety of sizes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi we use standard condoms on large dildos which are 12" long and over 2" in diameter so what is all this talk of condoms being to small,complete nonsense!"
I can get into a size 15" collar shirt.. it cuts the blood off at my neck but I got it on. The issue isn't if it will fit, but whether it is too tight and cuts the blood flow. Same with condoms. |
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I'm ok with using condoms , can sometimes be tricky getting it on , wearing condoms may be tight but no different to being in a nice tight pussy , and when wife decides to let a guy vin inside with condom it's nice to see how much they cum .nut she prefers them to with draw remove and cum over her |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mysize.com do a number of sizes based on your real measurements
They currently have a range of girth and lengths so you can really customisee to get a really good fit"
Interestingly they sent a user suggestion around saying that feedback indicates you should measure up as usual, but then buy the next girth up. I have tried this and have to admit that a less tight fit does seem to give more sensitivity. This is especially true if you put a blob of lube on the end. That way you get more slithering over the bell end, which is a good thing. The length, if properly measured also means that it fits tightly round the root of the cock so it won't drag off.
It works well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I tend to experience "hydraulic lock" when i cum, which can spoil the sensation somewhat. "
That's why you squeeze the air out of the teat end before you roll them on....problem solved!
(Unless you are using too large a size?) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mysize.com do a number of sizes based on your real measurements
They currently have a range of girth and lengths so you can really customisee to get a really good fit
Interestingly they sent a user suggestion around saying that feedback indicates you should measure up as usual, but then buy the next girth up. I have tried this and have to admit that a less tight fit does seem to give more sensitivity. This is especially true if you put a blob of lube on the end. That way you get more slithering over the bell end, which is a good thing. The length, if properly measured also means that it fits tightly round the root of the cock so it won't drag off.
It works well. "
Or get two sizes bigger and pull the collar over your bollocks.....condom and cocking in one! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I tend to experience "hydraulic lock" when i cum, which can spoil the sensation somewhat.
That's why you squeeze the air out of the teat end before you roll them on....problem solved!
(Unless you are using too large a size?)"
Surely if it was too big i wouldn't have that problem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mysize.com do a number of sizes based on your real measurements
They currently have a range of girth and lengths so you can really customisee to get a really good fit
Interestingly they sent a user suggestion around saying that feedback indicates you should measure up as usual, but then buy the next girth up. I have tried this and have to admit that a less tight fit does seem to give more sensitivity. This is especially true if you put a blob of lube on the end. That way you get more slithering over the bell end, which is a good thing. The length, if properly measured also means that it fits tightly round the root of the cock so it won't drag off.
It works well. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a problem with using condoms, I'm quite well hung and there are some tighter ones but on the whole most are fine.
Although do find that some brands are more prone to splitting.... "Mates" seem to be the worst offender for this.  |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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I never go without a condom on, unless I'm in a relationship. And even then it takes months before I feel comfortable not using one.
But with a random person, absolutely not. Never. I don't think I'd even enjoy it if I didn't wear one because I'd be thinking too much about the risk I'd be taking. |
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My OH has experienced two failures due to condoms.
Hard when he started putting them on, soft as soon as it was on.
It was down to the standard nominal width being far too small. XL condoms tend to be a lot longer, but only marginally wider, so they don't help. When the width is too small, it actually restricts blood flow too much and causes a loss of erection.
We now buy from TheyFit - custom sized condoms - and he's not had that problem since! |
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Everyday is a school day. I just assumed that it was normal to not go all the way down. And they always fit too tight around. I have just been getting them off the self in the supermarket and I don't think there is a size option (or at least what I have notice). I was married for years so never used to be a problem. But now they are a pain. Maybe I should try some bigger ones online. Anyone suggest a good brand / OL retailer? |
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